No rest for the wicked  

ruready4adark1 56M
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8/13/2005 2:24 pm

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No rest for the wicked


A strange (but very common) mix up happened and I didn't get to meet this hottie I'd been hoping to meet today.

She was "tied up" until midday, the day we were supposed to meet, after I made other plans to salvage a perfectly good Saturday? What?! Sounds familiar, doesn't it?!

Normally I'd write her off and move on but something about this woman has me wanting to give it another shot.

Could it be those big suckable nipples? Could it be those nice 36Ds I want to get my hands and mouth all over? Could it be that smackable ass or hot pussy that wants to be fucked? Could it be that hot little mouth that wants to suck me?

Um... yes.

Sometimes the toughest ones to meet are the most satisfying once you get em naked! Oh yeah babe!

ruready4adark1 56M

8/15/2005 1:37 pm

mizzkitka, I want her to be full of something, only not crap. ME! Call me selfish or greedy or whatever, I don't think it's too much to ask to have a woman want me so much it hurts. Do women hurt for a man the way a man hurts for a woman? I'll have to pose that question in my next entry.


rm_mustluvplus2 57F

8/20/2005 2:08 am

AMEN........to the women hurting just as bad. Sometimes you want something so bad and it's just out of reach...or isn't mean't to happen yet.
We all want that RU.........someone wanting us so bad it hurts!


ruready4adark1 56M

8/20/2005 12:58 pm

As it turns out, I should have gone with my first gut instinct on this one because it turned into a big headache. The reason I did not go with my first feeling was partly what I mentioned above (yummy) and partly to confirm if my system of selecting is still valid. It is, and next time (if there is a next time) I will listen.

To quote a conversation I had a couple of days ago with this woman, she said she "wanted to get fucked after I made her cum from oral" and I was willing to do that to her. With her. I see now it was all just part of the sexual banter, the foreplay in anticipation of meeting. We had been talking back and forth for some time now and even though it was going to be our first face-to-face meeting, I was willing to let the clothes fly off and go all out. Actually, all in.

Today, after I was already on my way to meet her, she told me on the phone that "we could meet and have lunch." I told her if that was our plan then I was not going to get a room.

Certainly, she is entitled to change her mind as much as she wants. My concern was why the change and I asked her about it. Suddenly we were in this long discussion (argument) about how she didn't think I really wanted to meet because she could hear hesitation in my voice, which is why she changed her story. Did I mention that we‘ve only spoken on the phone once before this for a total of less than 5 minutes? How she could hear something in my voice not knowing my voice is beyond me? Anyway, she did not ask me about this hesitation she supposedly heard, she just changed her story. Oh, and did I mention I was ALREADY ON MY WAY TO MEET HER! By this time I had pulled over into a parking lot (god thing because it gets better) and we were on yahoo messenger talking back and forth. I have yahoo on my phone.

All this time I keep telling her that my concern is that she is changing what she said and it is not about not wanting to meet. Then she comes up with she thought I didn’t want to meet because I wouldn’t go to her house (almost 2 hours away). What? She was the one who told me a couple weeks ago that she could not meet at her house. I never said I didn’t want to go there. Then she said she thought I didn’t want to pay for a room when in fact that was decided weeks ago that getting a room was our only option since I couldn’t go to her house (that is what she told me) and she wasn’t coming to GR. Wow. Not only that, I had just told her on the phone a short time before this that I wasn’t going to get the room if we were just meeting for lunch. I believe that says I was prepared to get the room today.

I tried to take a step back and get things straight because she was going back and forth with her stories. I asked her specifically, “what do you want today?”

Her reply, “to get fucked.”

At that very moment I resigned myself to let this one go. I wanted to tell her to get fucked, but I took the high road and told her I still thought she was hot and I still wanted to wrap myself around her body but it wasn’t going to work for us. That was the end of it. Well, this is the end of it. I do not plan to write any further on this one except perhaps to reply to anyone who writes here. I’m not mad. Live and learn.

What did I learn from all this? Trust your instincts. They’ve gotten me this far and have served me well. Trust your instincts.


BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/21/2005 1:37 pm

ru, sorry to drag this one out, but lemme add a quick comment and a story.

When it comes to this "lifestyle" people are often very conflicted mentally and emotionally. They will flip flop a lot. My "advice" for what it's worth would be to send out kindness to her, be patient and keep it alive. Sounds like she’s still interested, and it could turn out to be some great sex.

I may start a whole blog about no-shows and flip flops, trips me out

Here’s one that happened to me recently. A woman from Denver wrote to me (yes, it does happen every blue moon lol!). She went on about how hot she thought I was, lots of sexual banter, but she didn’t have a picture. Red flag? We exchanged some emails and IM chats. A couple nights later, I had been out with some buddies, got home around 10:30 with a slight buzz, sat down at my PC, and she IM’d me. I gave her my number, she called, and we started talking, very seductively. She says she wants do drive down to the Springs RIGHT NOW, where I live, about an hour’s drive. On a Wednesday, at 11:00 at night? Hmmm.. She said she wasn’t working, she’s a bit of an insomniac. I’m self employed and can change schedules around, so I thought, what the hell, why not? We talk on cell phones as she’s on the way, again very dirty (I won’t bore you with those details lol!). She arrives.

She comes in. Turns out she’s rather, eh, large.. Not really my cup o’ tea, but what the hell, perhaps I’ll make a friend and she’s here anyway. I open a beer for her, we talk pleasantries for 5 minutes, a very nice light conversation. Then she looks at me, says “you’re not what I expected, I’m gonna go, see ya later!” and gets up to leave. (!) Now.. I look exactly like my pictures. No huge belly, all the hair on my head is there, no BS, very recent pics. I said, “Wait a minute.. You drove all the way down here from Denver and now you’re just gonna turn around and drive back?” She says, “Yeah.” I say, “Okay, enlighten me here. I look just like my pictures, what is it that you say is so different about me? We seemed to get along fine on the phone as well. And you wrote to ME.” She says “Your hair is longer in the pictures.” True, had just gotten a short cut for summer. I say, “That’s it, my hair is shorter?” She says, “Yeah.” And she leaves, never to be heard from again.

Glad I got that haircut, got me out of having to tell her she was not my body type. And that’s just one story…Moral of the story? Don’t have expectations about anyone’s behavior, especially when it comes to sex. Plan, do your best, but don’t expect anything.


ruready4adark1 56M

8/21/2005 9:14 pm

Benefits, as it turns out we have both agree we are still attracted to each other and the desire to meet is still there. I've turned the expectations down a few notches and will just see where it leads without getting my hopes too high.

That was quite the story about the woman from Denver. It reminds me that I was supposed to get my hair cut today but I never got to it. Hmmm...


ruready4adark1 56M

8/22/2005 9:15 am

Oh, and the blog about no-shows and flip flops would be a hit! Probably one of the most popular blogs on AdultFriendFinder.


BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/22/2005 2:28 pm

ru, glad you reconsidered, my intuition tells me she's gonna be a real headboard knocker. And I STILL think you and gorgeous sexy aweseome shortblonde should hook up. Okay, I'll shut up now!


rm_mustluvplus2 57F

8/23/2005 3:34 pm

Benefits-friend69........you infuriate me!


ruready4adark1 56M

8/23/2005 10:05 pm

uh-oh benefits... what did you do now?!


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