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I do not like to dabble in things. I like to get all the way in and get the full experience. Under my current profile name I’ve been a member of AdultFriendFinder since September 2004 (almost 1 year) and I think I can say I‘ve gotten involved and reaped the rewards.
Many people (especially men) want to know how a standard member can make connections on a site like this. Here is how I’ve done it (so far) while maintaining a full time job and a full, active life outside of AdultFriendFinder…
I’ve written 6 articles, I’ve responded to 13 articles, I’ve posted 3 advice questions, and I’ve responded to 26 advice questions in the AdultFriendFinder Magazine section.
I started one active and growing AdultFriendFinder interest group - GR Area Oral Lovers
I am a member of three other AdultFriendFinder groups and I post to those groups on a regular basis.
I recently started my AdultFriendFinder blog Finding Practical Meaning and I try to post daily. I also post responses on other peoples’ blogs. Coming up with things to write is easy as long as I make good use of my idle time, and I do. As crude as this might sound, 2 minutes on the toilet is more than enough time to think of an idea.
I am online almost every day, so taking 30 minutes to stop by the site and participate is not difficult for me. Some days I spend a lot more time here, but the rewards for my efforts are well worth it. I have made a few new friends and a few connections with people I like and respect. I also enjoy the sharing. Isn’t that why we are here?!
So, to all who have read my posts, agreed, disagreed, shared their thoughts, laughed, shaken their heads in disgust, or taken a step to contact me, I just wanted to say THANK YOU! For sure, there are many ups and downs trying to connect with people on a site like this. The good always outweighs the bad. To those who wonder how it can be done, this is how. Oh, and thanks AdultFriendFinder.
PS: sometimes people write this sort of thing when they are leaving the site or something is going on in life (changes). I just wanted to say thanks. Just because.
PSS: A special thanks to mustluvplus2 for the special hello that prompted this post.
8/18/2005 4:17 pm
And Thank you RUREADY.......I look forward to us being new friends. I am right there with you in regards to having met some wonderful people on this site whom I now call friends and respect. Sometimes one would never think it would happen on a site such as this but I've had the experience more than once.|
Yes...the good always outweights the bad. So I too want to say THANK YOU to all the friends and aquaintences I've made...all the people who've taught me things (good and bad).....it has truley been a learning experience for me. I'm glad I've had this journey.
and that's why I wrote to you.....JUST BECAUSE !