Why do some ppl say this?  

rosegoddess21 32F
29 posts
8/4/2005 10:03 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why do some ppl say this?


I have to say, I am baffled why some men (and women) do this!! You know the type, they come over, spend a few weeks (or days / hours, in some cases) trying to "get to know you", and then after sex (in any form), they drop the "let's just be friends" line!!!

What the Hell?!?!

Honestly, ppl, what is up with that? Is it just the thrill of the chase?? Or is it honestly a fuck-it-and-forget-it after all?!

Any advice you may have on this subj. will be much appreciated.

Good day to all.

Matthiker 41M
11 posts
8/5/2005 8:30 am

As a man I think its cause were scared, although you'd never get to many us us to admit it. It can also be difficult to give up your "freedom" to do what you want and compromise to have a relationship. Basically we fuck it up, sometimes accidentally sometimes on purpose. I know cause I've done it unfortunately


Matthiker 41M
11 posts
8/5/2005 8:31 am

Then again the whole thrill of the chase and getting the prize is a good theory but if its good its worth sticking around for a while


rosegoddess21 32F
11 posts
8/5/2005 11:13 pm

I've told ppl who contact me that I'm looking for a discreet relationship, possibility of more, and yes, sex is part of a relationship. It's not everything, in my opinion. I'm tired of having someone try to talk me up, and then let me down. I need someone to be there now and then when I need them, but not everyday. We all had lives of our own before we came to this site. I'm not looking for someone to be dependent on seeing everyday, just someone who has the same/similar interests as me and who will be honest with me from the get-go. I'm not into the one-night-stand / fuck-it & forget-it routine. Is there anyone out there who wants what I do?!?!


jaxvillewolph 38M

8/6/2005 12:42 pm

ooo ooo pick me Rose, pick me Sounds like exactly what I'm lookin' for!!


rosegoddess21 32F
11 posts
8/6/2005 8:44 pm

jaxvillewolph - LOL, sounds like there's some tension there that needs to be relieved! Tsk, tsk...what would your wife think?? LOL... Hope you have a great day!


jaxvillewolph 38M

8/7/2005 7:42 am

Rose, All kinds of tension... Want to help me relieve it?


keystonenc 43M
144 posts
8/8/2005 4:29 pm

He was looking to get laid and nothing more. You were probably just another notch in the bedpost. Unfortunately there are a people out there that once they have had you they lose interest in you.

There are also women out there like that too. I had a 'female friend with benefits' who was that way. I was the one guy she would sleep with on a semi-regular basis, once every three or four months. But, she would meet these other guys online, get hot and horny for them go meet them and sleep with them a couple of times and then lose interest and move on even though they still wanted to be with her. Hell, I still wanted her because she was that damn good in bed. She was definitely a female predator when it came to men.

It is a shame you don't live closer to the RDU area you seem like someone I would like to get to know.


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