Advice on another subject...  

rosegoddess21 32F
29 posts
8/2/2005 8:53 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Advice on another subject...

Ok, here comes yet another question, as I have not had much opportunity to experience this...

What is your view on arse (ass) play?

What are some tips to ease giving / receiving arse play?

(Fun tips please, certain foods or sauces or get the idea...already tried KY and a little strap-on for my ex...he jumped sky-high...that's another story...haha)

What about tips on how to do it, and what are some of your experiences with it??

Yes, I know...I'm such a newbie. Hey, I'm sure we all have been here to start with at different points in our lives. I would appreciate your input.


Zelbas 33M
6 posts
8/2/2005 10:39 pm

Hah. I want to hear this sky-high story.

rosegoddess21 32F
11 posts
8/3/2005 9:31 pm

Well, that story has a lot to do with what SmokinSpice referred to in her comment ~ he was very tense, and not secure in being a man.

When we started this, he was very uneasy about the subject, so I put it off, trying to get him to loosen up a bit and respecting his boundaries. We talked to others about ways to make the man feel better about it, and what would be comfortable to start with. Got several suggestions, but as we headed to the bedroom to try them out, he always got cold feet!

Mind you, my first time trying anal hurt like hell, so I can sympathize. I didn't want to push him to do something he didn't really want to do.

He finally agreed and went through with it. Plenty of KY and finger-probing later, he said he was ready, and if we were going to do this, we better do it before he lost his nerve.

Needless to say, he was way too tense to enjoy it, and since the strap-on slipped right in (KY, remember? lol) he got more than he was expecting faster than he thought he would. We laugh about it now, but he sure wasn't laughing then. I swear he looked like something lit a fire under his balls. Lasted less than a split second, and ever since then, if you go anywhere near his behind, he'll run.

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