bad night  

roguebiggs 39M
45 posts
3/18/2006 10:44 pm

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4/22/2006 12:46 pm

bad night

Well the night did not go so well for me. I realized when it comes to the bar scene I am just a freaking pussy. I cant seem to get the nerve to talk to a girl I am interested in. It didnt help my friend brought a new girl with him and didnt tell me. I felt like I was the third wheel out there and I was kind of not wanted around if u know what I mean.

I dont get it I can talk to women at the resteraunt supermarket bank and other such places but a bar I just cant do it. So ladies tell me what is my problem u think. I dont understand how I can do it one place but chicken out at the next. Makes for a depressing night since I wussed out oh well. I think I will give up on the bar scene.

needatrustysteed 41F

3/18/2006 11:42 pm

I feel exactly the same way, which has kept me out of the dating loop for quite some time. I have to really concentrate sometimes to look a guy right in the eye when I am talking to him, especially if I think he is a hottie. I think body language is a good gauge too of someone's feelings, and I listen really well to my gut reaction of the guy too. Trying to find an appealing subject to start the conversation off with is hard sometimes, but laughter always helps me relax.

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