What the hellis going on?  

rm_zulawise 39M
3 posts
8/10/2005 12:32 pm

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What the hellis going on?


Some people think that I am a heartless bastard because I cheat on my wife. I say they are wrong. The only problem my wife and I have is sex.

You see, my wife suffers from clinical depression and between that and the medicine she takes for the depression, her sex drive is all but gone. She might get in the mood once every six months or so. She will have sex with me when she is not in the mood, but its not the same.

Does she know, I think so. But it is more of a don't ask, don't tell policy.

I truly do love my wife dearly, but I have a sex drive that is out of this world. All I am looking for is a friend with benifits. I don't want a relationship or anything like it. I just want a woman that I can call or she can call me and get together a couple of times a week.

Is that so wrong of me?

I have a family and I want to preserve it. If sex is the only thing lacking why, in this modern world, is it wrong to find someone to satisfy those needs?

We all, men and women both, have needs that our partner can't satisfy. For instance, we all have a friend outside our partner that we confide in. People don't see that as wrong. Why is it that we can share our utmost secrets with someone that our partner barely knows, but if we share our bodies with someone else it is considered to be a crime?

HardlyYours4Now 52M

8/10/2005 1:19 pm

Dude - our wives must be related. Or at least on the same meds. I'm not making light of it - sounds like we're in the same boat. Just don't take it personally when some woman who was blind-sided by a cheating hubby doesn't care for your views.

Best o'luck.


rm_zulawise 39M

8/11/2005 8:59 am

Women who have been wronged by a cheating husband are not what concerns me. What concerns me are the single women out there who think that I am the worst thing since the holocaust.


69sex005 50M

8/17/2006 6:37 am

agree am in a similar situation with my wife while i would love nothing more to have here share my fantasys or indulge hers!!!! because of her illness and meds sex is not on her list of priorities i love my wife as well do not want to change that and will be here even when it comes down to pushin wheel chairs understanding friends with benifits def can relieve the stress of the day to day i am on your side


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