Online Dating - 5th DON'T  

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5/14/2006 5:02 am

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Online Dating - 5th DON'T

Don't spread yourself too thin

One of the better problems to have with Internet dating is corresponding with too many women.

Yeah, I know exactly what you're thinking: Which man doesn't want to be chased by dozens of beautiful women? But truth be told, having an effective personal ad that generates a lot of responses can backfire on you if you're not careful.

For instance, in the past month, I've received 46 responses to my personal ad. That's a ton of women to e-mail.

In fact, it's too many. Way too many.

If you try to reply to every single woman who responds to your ad, you'll soon find yourself spending your days writing e-mail. More importantly, you'll start forgetting what you've said and to whom.

I have a fool proof solution to the forgetting thing as well, but won’t write in here. Ones interested to know can email me on AdultFriendFinder.

What to do:

Though I encourage you to be polite, you may find yourself physically unable to reply to every woman who has responded to your ad. In fact, I recommend that you don't reply to every woman who responds to your personal ad.

Instead, if you're getting dozens of responses each week, only reply to the women you wish to pursue further. Furthermore, if these leads don't work out for you, then you can always go back to the other women you didn't reply to originally.


01. Online Dating - 1st DON'T
02. Online Dating - 2nd DON'T
03. Online Dating - 3rd DON'T
04. Online Dating - 4th DON'T
05. Online Dating - 5th DON'T
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