Online Dating - 1st DON'T  

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5/14/2006 3:45 am

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5/16/2006 3:53 am

Online Dating - 1st DON'T

When conversing with women through e-mail, don't write your life story

Nothing turns off women more than men who can't shut up. If you don't believe me, the next time you're corresponding with a woman you've met on line, write an e-mail about what you like to do on weekends, and see what kind of response you get. 90% women won't even reply to you. They simply delete your mail & move on to the next.

Why is that?

1. Women usually perceive long-winded {tiresomely long} men as needy. Whereas most women want a challenge. Needy men aren't challenging.

2. Quite frankly, women want to do all the talking and just want you to LISTEN.

What to do:

Keep all your e-mail replies short which should not be longer than three sentences. The first two sentences should be used for answering a question {or questions} she may have asked, and the last sentence should be reserved for asking her a question.

Remember:

Questions keep the - DIALOGUE - moving, and give her the sense that you are thoughtful and interested.


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