What do women want.....?  

rm_yt099 50M
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8/18/2006 3:20 pm

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What do women want.....?


No seriously, what do they want? Us mere mortal guys will never figure it out completely. We get things right from time to time but let's face it, more often thn not we are just plain wrong!

So come on, which one of you females out there is going to provide the all important answer?

TXBITCH2006 49F

8/18/2006 4:00 pm

There is not standard answer for that. Each woman is different, therefore her wants are too.


rm_yt099 50M
58 posts
8/18/2006 4:09 pm

    Quoting TXBITCH2006:
    There is not standard answer for that. Each woman is different, therefore her wants are too.
Hi Bi.....so let's take you....what makes u tick?


TXBITCH2006 49F

8/18/2006 4:33 pm

Okay, well....let's see..... of them.

Does this help or make sense?
First and foremost they must be honest. If I can't trust them, then it stops right there. Other than that, I don't have high demands. If he can't hold his end of a good conversation or make me laugh, then we'll have problems. If they can't stimulate my mind, then they don't get to stimulate anything else. I'm not demanding or clingy, so I don't want to be with somebody who is. I like affection..holding hands, kissing, etc... I don't want somebody who just lays around doing nothing all of the time. I'm interested in men who can teach me about things I've never experienced before, and I don't mean just about sex. I want them to have goals and ambition. If there income comes from whichever girlfriend they currently have, then they are out of here. I want them to be as concerned about me as I am about them...not this one sided business that usually happens. I want a man who enjoys football and would actually go to a game or two. Somebody who share some of my interests, but not all


rm_yt099 50M
58 posts
8/18/2006 4:39 pm

    Quoting TXBITCH2006:
    Okay, well....let's see..... of them.

    Does this help or make sense?
    First and foremost they must be honest. If I can't trust them, then it stops right there. Other than that, I don't have high demands. If he can't hold his end of a good conversation or make me laugh, then we'll have problems. If they can't stimulate my mind, then they don't get to stimulate anything else. I'm not demanding or clingy, so I don't want to be with somebody who is. I like affection..holding hands, kissing, etc... I don't want somebody who just lays around doing nothing all of the time. I'm interested in men who can teach me about things I've never experienced before, and I don't mean just about sex. I want them to have goals and ambition. If there income comes from whichever girlfriend they currently have, then they are out of here. I want them to be as concerned about me as I am about them...not this one sided business that usually happens. I want a man who enjoys football and would actually go to a game or two. Somebody who share some of my interests, but not all
makes perfect sense....hell if only all ladies were as honest and forthright as you this would be so much easier!!!!!
You speak lots of sense, feel I understand where you re coming from. So have you found a guy that mesures up? How is texas tody, it's raining here in the UK (AS USUAL!!!)


TXBITCH2006 49F

8/18/2006 4:45 pm

Well, I'm glad it did. Sometimes I can ramble...lol

Yes, I've been told I'm unusual that way. I just figure honesty is best. Otherwise, you get back into the game playing mode. Besides, I'm old enough to not want to waste anybody's time, much less my own.

No, I haven't found a guy. I thought I had, but it turns out no. I'll just have to keep looking

Oh, it's a hot one today. Way up in the 90's as usual. It actually gets hot enough here that you can bake cookies in your car...lol


rm_yt099 50M
58 posts
8/18/2006 4:53 pm

    Quoting TXBITCH2006:
    Well, I'm glad it did. Sometimes I can ramble...lol

    Yes, I've been told I'm unusual that way. I just figure honesty is best. Otherwise, you get back into the game playing mode. Besides, I'm old enough to not want to waste anybody's time, much less my own.

    No, I haven't found a guy. I thought I had, but it turns out no. I'll just have to keep looking

    Oh, it's a hot one today. Way up in the 90's as usual. It actually gets hot enough here that you can bake cookies in your car...lol
I agree with the honesty thing, best way. Sorry about the guy....his loss I suspect. Sounds hot there.....could do with some of that sunshine right now (apart from the fact tht it is the middle of the night here!!!!!!!)


CB_2 51F

8/18/2006 5:05 pm

I'd agree with Bi on all of those points. And in my experience, if you tell a guy you want a FWB relationship - more than just one time sex but not a proper couple relationship - they like the idea in principle, but then get scared off after a while. Like you've stolen their role, or something.

I have an FWB now, and it is early days, but I'm hoping it will pan out OK. We'll just have to see. The last one was great for 3 months, but in the end he couldn't handle it. He could understand commitment and one night stands, but anything in between was a bit too complicated. Poor little thing.

Blogito ergo sum.


rm_yt099 50M
58 posts
8/18/2006 5:09 pm

wow.....three people tryin got explain....I need to concentrate now! Susie, thanks for the response. Reckon tht is a good point....men naturlly want to fix things so they (and alas me from time to time) jump in before listening to the entirety of a point.
Consideringbi2 (hell can I abbreviate that please?!!!) thanks also for yout input. I'm quite new to this as Susie will confrim so not sure what FWB is. Perhaps something to do with Fuck Buddy (pologies if I am wrong!). If I am right, it sounds a great idea to me!!!


rm_yt099 50M
58 posts
8/18/2006 5:09 pm

by the way, my typing is crap!


rm_yt099 50M
58 posts
8/19/2006 12:01 pm

    Quoting rm__susie1971:
    FWB is Friends with benefits... I think its a fuckbuddy without the swear word!!

    I am intrigued that ConsideringBi has defined it exactly as I have also found it... that men can't do FWB.. they seem suspicious that I am trying to get a relationship with them by other means! And its on practically every male profile on here.. but the reality is, they want a string of NSA (no strings attached .. irony lol) .. one night stands.
Hi Susie. So let me get this straight....friends with benefits is effectively a fuck buddy but NSA is a one night stand? I m learning soooooo much here!!!! Just to put right the popular misconception, I had a fuck buddy. until she emigrated (nothing to do with me!!!!!) Honest, not just saying it to prove you wrong. Perhaps us blokes can have one after all!
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