Whats Your Opinion????  

rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
2785 posts
5/9/2006 7:18 am

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6/11/2006 1:25 pm

Whats Your Opinion????

Do you consider cyber sex as cheating?
YES
NO
Yeh Kind of if you hide it from Love one
Noo Its just Exploring your Sexual mind
Don't know/Don't care/Other


ilsuconu 56M

5/9/2006 7:33 am

#3 -- just like in "actual" cheating, one is left to wonder "Why is he/she doing this to me? Is he/she not satisfied with me? Am I no longer desirable to him/her?" I sometimes flirt in IM's, but I draw the line before it gets to "describing what I'm doing to myself at this particular moment in time" or "private x-rated camming" kind of stuff. And although I occasionally broadcast my cam here while watching other members broadcast theirs, I don't get into chatting at those times... it's strictly my own exhibitionist/voyeuristic moment in time.


Deeelishious 52M/51F

5/9/2006 10:43 am

i dont think the initial cyber sex is cheating i think our obsessions sometimes take over which then spirals out of control and we start to hide things from partners then it becomes something very different emotions take over xj DEEEEEEP Ha?? lol


rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
1614 posts
5/9/2006 12:40 pm

    Quoting ilsuconu:
    #3 -- just like in "actual" cheating, one is left to wonder "Why is he/she doing this to me? Is he/she not satisfied with me? Am I no longer desirable to him/her?" I sometimes flirt in IM's, but I draw the line before it gets to "describing what I'm doing to myself at this particular moment in time" or "private x-rated camming" kind of stuff. And although I occasionally broadcast my cam here while watching other members broadcast theirs, I don't get into chatting at those times... it's strictly my own exhibitionist/voyeuristic moment in time.
okkkkkk then well yeh i guess your right if you hide it then i guess your secretly wishing something else i have to admiit tho personally on my experience i never thought more than a bitta fun with a person somewhere outhere i love the thought of being so powerful and just using the mind and words i never saw it as cheating but i also never hid it from my partner either & never did camming only as a couple and only did that a couple of times!to me its just a safe way using your erotic creative mind to act out a fantasy scene with a stranger a million miles away. thats how i kinda see it we all beg to differ but if we all said or felt the same it would be a very sad boring place x


rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
1614 posts
5/9/2006 12:43 pm

    Quoting Deeelishious:
    i dont think the initial cyber sex is cheating i think our obsessions sometimes take over which then spirals out of control and we start to hide things from partners then it becomes something very different emotions take over xj DEEEEEEP Ha?? lol
Thats sort of the angle i was going on jen but you describe it so much better and in less words lol i alwaysssssss babble on mwah ty jen xx k


rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
1614 posts
5/9/2006 12:49 pm

    Quoting rm_Lucifer_65:
    Sorry but it`s cheating in my book, if you want to get hot and steamy online or over the phone, why not do it with the love / lust of your life ?

    Certainly livens the evening up if you`ve made a quick call at lunchtime and you`re both feeling frisky as a result, and if you`re mies apart what better way to keep some of that intimacy and ease the pangs of seperation.
Ooh lucifer lol you've made me go and book a confession box at me local church now i feeelllllllll terrible he he i did those all the things you mention mentioned with my partner all the time but also cybered others sometimes with his knowledge of it!!
SSSSoooooo does that make me a cheat??
Go on hit me with it im strong xx mwah luc good to see ya hun xxx k


eveready06 41M

5/9/2006 1:29 pm

Probably depends on your motivation for doing it and what you get out of it! Only the individual in question will truly know the answer to that!xxx.


rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
1614 posts
5/9/2006 2:22 pm

    Quoting eveready06:
    Probably depends on your motivation for doing it and what you get out of it! Only the individual in question will truly know the answer to that!xxx.
Ooooooooohhhhhhhhhh Elephant shoes Ev xxxxxxx
Your sooooo soooo diplomatic its beautiful xxxx hugs
k


kinkster2006 47M

5/9/2006 2:27 pm

Cyber sex, is purely that........cyber.....and fantasy, therefore if no physical contact is made how can it hurt? after all u fantasize when u "ahem" play alone, so why not with a receptive mind?

Get on with it i say, have fun and drop the stigma!! LOL!!


goodguysneedit2 56M

5/11/2006 4:53 pm

I definitely consider it a form of cheating, though I'm unsure of it's true ramifications. You are short-changing the"loved?"-one by going elsewhere with your attention. And as someone else suggested, obsessions can occur. I'm not sure how such a thing would hold up in a court of law..but sometimes we don't have much faith in courts or loved ones...right?

I can also see benefits by it. A person could get terribly heated-up from such a thing and launch themselves towards their loved-one in a state of total passion. Both parties win..LOL

Pretty much it's an individual thing, as to how it effects them.


xxxtallorderxxx 46M

6/2/2006 12:14 am

I voted NO because i'm single, but if i was in a relationship i definately would not be cybering with anyone other than a partner if she was away with her laptop wherver she stayed.


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