Stress Relieversssss?  

rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
2785 posts
5/11/2006 3:19 am

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5/12/2006 11:39 am

Stress Relieversssss?

Ok im feeling slightly anxious ,stressed & also slightly Emotional right now Things have been very crazy lately & dramatic changes are about to take place well theyre already in the process as i write this loada !>-->BOLLOCKS! lol but I'm staying positive i do beleive things CAN only get better. I feel when im stressed out or in these restless moods i usually tend to TURN TH MUSIC UP ( Turn It Up Don't Wanna Stop) sorry lil song there!!! and get busyy usually by blasting out my D I S C O , Rare Groove or some Masters At Work =(best djs to walk this planet mwah luffs ya boys ) funky house tunes eases the tension some what!!!& gets me moving whilst Groooving ! weather it be busy cleaning my luxurious pad lol or painting or just getting on with crap i could'nt usually be bothered to do. Take yesterday for instance i painted everything that didnt move white lol i was a tad stressed outtttt i can tell you. Sooo what do you do in those moments of crisis ,anxiousness & when you can't relax is there people like me out there or am i 1 CRAZYYY CHIC lol please enlighten me????????? xk

RavenBeauty5 55M/59F
64 posts
5/11/2006 4:49 am

Well one thing that can be said about tumultuous times is that you don't have the market cornered. Another firm belief of ours is that this too shall pass. I came out of a marriage where it was violent and abusive, but thought I should be fighting to preserve it. I tried everything to make it work, and she did everything to make it fail. The hardest part was recovering from such a miserable break up and getting on with life. It was such a violent and malicious break up that I literally walked away with just the clothes on my back. My best advise for times like this is boost your self-esteem by whatever means possible. Loud music works great for you because that is what you love. It is about regaining control of your own life, accepting losses as life's lessons, and moving on with your own life. It is our reactions that define us as a person. Specialk needs to realize that she is special. I am now out of a bad marriage and now with mrs raven. She is coming out of a bad marriage as well, and there are times that I am grateful that I found her. Then all I can think is what a fool her ex-husband was to leave her because he obviously didn't see what I did.

AllOverMasseur 42M

5/11/2006 6:18 am

i painted everything that didnt move white

That brings to mind the One Foot In the Grave episode with the tortoise and the repainting of the white lines down the middle of the road...

AllOverMasseur 42M

5/11/2006 6:22 am

Oops, was so keen on sharing my amused thought that I didn't answer your post.

I find that I don't get that stressed. I've always been a type B personality anyway, but in the last few years I've found the meditative side of martial arts to be useful for collecting and calming energy. That's all it comes down to really, I find - just being able to calm and collect my energy if things ever risk being a bit turbulent.

eveready06 41M

5/11/2006 5:46 pm

Yurn up the ipod full blast and disappear into my own little world. Chases the bad thoughts away. Paintings gotta be better than chewin your mouth anyway hun!!!

Deeelishious 52M/51F

5/12/2006 10:42 am

Hang in there baby you are 1 special woman therefore you'll get through this & i know you have some very special times ahead even if you don't think so has'nt she Eveready?? he he darling i just eat my way through hagen daus choc chip ice cream lol muahh xxj

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