LOVE WITHOUT SEX ???????? 1 For The Boyssss  

rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
2785 posts
5/3/2006 2:25 pm

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LOVE WITHOUT SEX ???????? 1 For The Boyssss

Is it possible for you to fall in love with a woman without having sex with her?
YES
NO
MAYBE
I HAVE BEFORE
NEVER HAVE DONE SO CAN'T SAY
NEVER SAY NEVER


goodguysneedit2 56M

5/3/2006 2:53 pm

This one is easy for me...ABSOLUTELY!

Interesting question. I suppose we also need to define "falling in love",because it obviously goes to a more powerful level with sex.

But.. can I become completely tied up in thoughts about somebody?..in my desires to be with somebody?... to please somebody?..to want to protect her?..support her?...to be caught up in my admiration,adoration,and appreciation of her to a degree that very little else seems to matter??...without sex?
Yup.

I'd prefer to combine things,however....LOL


vidiohunter 51M

5/3/2006 3:04 pm

Good question........my answer is most definatly yes, have done it in the past, still doing it to day ,will brobably keep doing it the future.Now one question for you.........
can {you} have sex without being in love...........I have some trouble with this one . thank you for time


CreampiePounder 53M
1 post
5/3/2006 3:08 pm

Of course. For most men, love and sex are different things. While I'm willing to believe that some men are truly too shallow or chauvinist or bitter to truly love a woman, I have to beleive that most men are well-balanced enought to fall in love with a women for her merits. If the guy requires sex to fall in love with you, he is a con artist jerk. The reasonable thing to do is dump him fast and for good (unless all you want too is sex). However, it seems true that jerks have a strange appeal to even reasonable women. You set yourself up for pain when you trust the jerk that having sex with him will make you more important to him.


eveready06 41M

5/3/2006 3:15 pm

not saying! wink wink!


fantasylover_05 62M

5/3/2006 3:18 pm

A RESOUNDING AND EMPHATIC

YES YES YES!!


rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
1614 posts
5/3/2006 7:08 pm

    Quoting goodguysneedit2:
    This one is easy for me...ABSOLUTELY!

    Interesting question. I suppose we also need to define "falling in love",because it obviously goes to a more powerful level with sex.

    But.. can I become completely tied up in thoughts about somebody?..in my desires to be with somebody?... to please somebody?..to want to protect her?..support her?...to be caught up in my admiration,adoration,and appreciation of her to a degree that very little else seems to matter??...without sex?
    Yup.

    I'd prefer to combine things,however....LOL


GoodGuy XXXX
Thank you for being so honest im actually surprised as didnt think you guys would say yes to this question so really glad i posted this poll its given me faith in the mans emotional mind lol so i take it with that fab detailed reply its a yes??? ty for commenting xx k


rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
1614 posts
5/3/2006 7:11 pm

    Quoting vidiohunter:
    Good question........my answer is most definatly yes, have done it in the past, still doing it to day ,will brobably keep doing it the future.Now one question for you.........
    can {you} have sex without being in love...........I have some trouble with this one . thank you for time
xx Vid xxx
Cool its so nice hearing you views because like i said b4 didnt exspect such detailed positive responses see us girls seem to do fall in love a lot easier than you guys thanks and come back and visit again lol ya sooo welcome xxx k


rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
1614 posts
5/3/2006 7:16 pm

    Quoting CreampiePounder:
    Of course. For most men, love and sex are different things. While I'm willing to believe that some men are truly too shallow or chauvinist or bitter to truly love a woman, I have to beleive that most men are well-balanced enought to fall in love with a women for her merits. If the guy requires sex to fall in love with you, he is a con artist jerk. The reasonable thing to do is dump him fast and for good (unless all you want too is sex). However, it seems true that jerks have a strange appeal to even reasonable women. You set yourself up for pain when you trust the jerk that having sex with him will make you more important to him.
Creampie XXXXX
Bravo Bravo Well said im not even going to add to what youve said because you have said it all and yeh crap as it is women do have this thing for proppa wankers lol but guess thats never gonna change learn by our own mistakesi guess but thanks mwah big hugs xxk


rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
1614 posts
5/3/2006 7:20 pm

?*Bend Over?*?* ?*You & repeat After me
"Teasing is mean teasing is mean"

Hopefullly 1 day i'll find out for myself xxxx


rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
1614 posts
5/3/2006 7:33 pm

    Quoting vidiohunter:
    Good question........my answer is most definatly yes, have done it in the past, still doing it to day ,will brobably keep doing it the future.Now one question for you.........
    can {you} have sex without being in love...........I have some trouble with this one . thank you for time
Didnt Ignore that Question Vidio Just Incase you thought i may have x

!Your Question!
--Now one question for you.........
can {you} have sex without being in love


My Answer is YES if you had asked me this 10 - 5 even 2 years ago i may have said NO However something has happened to me that has made me think its very possible indeed somy answer is a definate YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS x


rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
1614 posts
5/3/2006 7:35 pm

Fantasy XXXX Thank You so much for sharing this with us xxx k


rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
1614 posts
5/3/2006 7:37 pm

Need4fun xx
Thanks For Tellin Us That but maybe come back in 10 years and we'll ask you again lol i thought the same as you 10 years ago have fun and thanksssss again xxxxxxx k


overnovernagain 46M
113 posts
5/3/2006 9:13 pm

Yes. There have been a lot of questions about relationships and sex. A person can have one without the other. But when falliung in love it is based on a relationship. The sex is great but not needed to fall in love.


ilsuconu 56M

5/4/2006 7:02 am

Definitely! My first "love" was my 8th grade math teacher... of course, she didn't know it, and it didn't take me long (once I "grew up" and started dating in high school) to realize that it wasn't really "love" but at the time it was a strong emotion when sex was something still unknown to me.


redmustang91 57M  
8559 posts
5/4/2006 9:29 am

I love lots of beautiful female celebs because I admire their beauty and talent. But that is not the same thing as a lover I have sex with. I love: Patsy cline, Jean harlow, grace kelly, audrey Hepburn, angelina Jolie, sophia Loren, Brigitte Bardot, Kiera knightley, elisha cuthbert, Kate Beckinsale, claudia Schiffer, Cindy Crawford, cyndi lauper, shakira, pat benatar, to name a few...


rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
1614 posts
5/4/2006 11:01 am

    Quoting ilsuconu:
    Definitely! My first "love" was my 8th grade math teacher... of course, she didn't know it, and it didn't take me long (once I "grew up" and started dating in high school) to realize that it wasn't really "love" but at the time it was a strong emotion when sex was something still unknown to me.
Ilsuconu , Hmmmmmmmmmm now then now then
i dont think that 1 counts if the sex thang was unknown to you then what does everyone else think???? lol im being very strict here may have to take you over my knee young man he he ty for posting big hugs xx k


ilsuconu 56M

5/4/2006 9:36 pm



Oooo Ba-Beeee! Make me Moaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnn!


Deeelishious 52M/51F

5/5/2006 1:33 am

Were in love with you baby your mind body soul your our dreamgirl and always will be but friends is better than nothing at all love you darling angel xjen&gaz


SandyNite 37M

5/6/2006 1:01 am

Special,
You are asking the important questions. I am tempted to believe that you are researching a womens magazine though hope that you are just a women in search of the fulfillment that a meaningful relationship can and does bring. It is natural that if one falls in love with someone that the desire for intimacy is then much greater. That is the very nature of love ..... to be closer to what ever is the object of affection. But remember that lust IS when the affection is at an object, namely the object being the body of someone. So it is relevant that it is the body OF someone and not the someone THEMSELVES. That is where love is directed. And as it is directed from one to another and another back to one it is an exchange. So maybe in order to love someone truly they have to love you truly back.....
It makes sense though..... whenever you see someone or yourself saying "I love you" isn't there a want of it to be said with meaning back to you? A consummation of hearts of some sort.
Just a thought.
Alex

P.s. Keep up the intriguing posts Special.


RavenBeauty5 55M/59F
64 posts
5/8/2006 4:22 am

Most definitely specialk I met the mrs online and fell in love with her before I even met her in person. I remember the first time I said it to her online using a virtual card. I sent it and filled it with my words of I love you. Here I was telling someone I had never met words that I guard. I pushed the send button before I talked myself out of sending it. It was definitely something that I had never done before, but to this day have no regrets. In fact, I have never been more happy than I am with her. She is very special and I plan to spend the rest of my life with her. She had extended an invitation for me to come to New York and my family thought I was nuts to leave home for a woman I never met. I just felt in my heart that this was the one and I was right. It is when we take chances on love that we will find it. It took me a day to get here, so jet lag was a big factor. We made love the first night I came to New York and have been together ever since.


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