After all the Fun--what's next?  

rm_xtreemneed 41F
132 posts
6/28/2005 1:55 pm

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After all the Fun--what's next?

Will one ever get tired of The passion? When will one say---enuf is enuf? Remember that we only have one life to live & we must be Happy to Live it "Our Style"...

ThanaSarinFiord 49M

7/5/2005 1:12 am

It is freedom itself to reach that point...enuf is enuf...
It is the mood of a warrior fo which you speak...
Our mortal lives can and may end ANY time... Each action we perform may be our last on this earth. We have NO time to waste on BS or on unproductive "moods". Know what you want... know what you need...
I do... I am the "alpha male" of my pack... and I am not confused...!
Beauty moves me... Mystery intrigues me... Congress with the right women closes the circle...!! My joy is music...(I am a professional)
My passion is life... No passion... No life... Know Passion... Know life... Corny as that sounds... It is truth... and that makes it worthwhile.........

BellaZMyPassion 57M

7/24/2005 11:55 pm

Yes..Passion is the crucial part of life. Passion can be both painful and delightful. But passion has no true meaning to any if it is only a word to use as a description of what you read. Passion is the surrender of the fear which keep the heart from being passionate. Patrick Henry was passionate because he risked it all to gain freedom. I have seen many run from the passion they seek. Nothing risked is nothing gained.

BellaZMyPassion 57M

7/25/2005 12:06 am

I should mention that Passion has many meanings and manifests itself in all displays of emotion. I doubt that most on AdultFriendFinder have a clue as to what being Passionate really means. It has nothing to do with Sex or Romance.
My handle is not what most think it to mean. Look up the definition of the word and tell me what Passion has in common on this site.

rm_TBoy1709 46M
1 post
7/31/2005 2:58 pm

It is only ok to live your life in your way, following your passions, if it is accepted by society. Not wanting to put a morbid note on the discussion but there are some real bad people out there who are living their lives how they choose and if the choice isn't taken away from them other peoples lives can be destroyed.
For every positive there is a negative, Ying an Yang, Good an Bad, life an Death. The choice is never ours. I believe our lives are written from the moment we are born so if you're living you life a certain way, it's because it was written like that.
P.S. I'm not really a freak and I do love life, But there is always 2 ways to view every situation.
Laters Y'all

fasteddie469 66M
1 post
8/1/2005 11:32 am

Happy August folks! Hell, a couple days ago this cowboy had no idea what a blog even was. Now I think this may be the most significant aspect of the AdultFriendFinder site because we can reach right into each others soul and explore the beauty of our inner selves. I only discovered this at all because a lady belonging to the Younger Women for Older Guys asked me if I could teach her to dance. I noticed the group link and was curious what it was about. Yes, my passion is dancing about 5 nights a week but perhaps this too is a means of getting closer to the inner thoughts and truths of others. Wow! What a leap forward in life to discover this.
And let me just say in closing xtreemneed you are a very perceptive and communicative woman. Now I won't settle for less in the future.

rm_catman155 71M

8/2/2005 11:30 am

Hi,I was amazed to find there was a place for older men to find and meet younger women. I am into passion and believe in love. I am recently seperated with divorce down the road, I am 59 and still able to have a normal sex life. My soon to be ex wife has no sex drive. Hasn't had for 6 years. How do I find this passion from a younger woman, I live in Crestview, Fl. Please give me some advice on how to find some younger lady who is interested in passion from a older man. Thanks or your time and your input

FloutLinerSahib 62M

8/3/2005 3:26 pm

Live is to short to lose passion, you my hav ero look some where else for it, like this site, but when you still have passion to share its a shame to waste.

rm_bgdick12 34M
8 posts
8/5/2005 7:57 am

I love this blog !! You're a beautiful woman, and definately great with words!

rm_John69M4U 69M
135 posts
8/6/2005 11:29 am

xtreemneed, I agree with bgdick12Totally. Since your Profile is turned off I can't tell where you are from. Anywhere new DC or Baltimore?

adultman81 36M
1 post
8/8/2005 4:37 am

hello! i'm an italian boy. you' re very beautyfol xtreemneed!!! i like you..

rm_Giu1949 53M
2 posts
8/9/2005 10:50 pm

A person without passion for life, especially sexual life, can never be forgiven.

FloutLinerSahib 62M

8/10/2005 7:55 pm

xtreemneed I have try a passion that is only my own and when it is just surged off ita hard to kept the passion there. I try to share what I have and what i know, and its like when I was in school, I was a very small and young looking child and young man people would look at me and think that since Im so small or young looking that I did not have anything important to say or due. so I have to take life one day at a time and try to find passion and love again

rm_bottchann 60M
9 posts
8/11/2005 5:47 pm

Meeting people is never a waste of time ! Be yourself first , with respect for the others ...key to happiness ! Enjoy life ! Behind words there is a soul..sometimes in extreme ..need ! Never forget it ! Cheers !

MisterPriapus 56M
6980 posts
8/11/2005 6:59 pm

Tire of the passion? Speaking for myself- NEVER!

Sometimes the effort to keep passion alive, thriving, and fresh can be a little taxing, but in the final summation, the gain far outwieghs the costs. It can prove difficult finding an other who is willing to expend the same effort... once that was the rule, now merely an exception.

Sadly, many do not realize that by giving of ourselves, we recieve our Selves. Yet, if all a person seeks is a selfish quest for self-gratification, then considerably sooner than later the, "Enough is enough," level will be reached.

If I may offer a quote as well, "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose." (Janis Joplin, "Me N Bobby McGee")


Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up.

And while I got my Broad-Brimmed Pimping Hat on, could I cajole all of y'all to Comment on, Alone In A Cloud? It's probably the best thing that I've written!



dreamchaser1943 73M

8/12/2005 7:53 am

It's a great day for the race,the "human race"no other animal on earth can express the passion of and for life, as man. This without passion, would be no life. Each day given by God should be lived as it was the last day,try not to make it what it is not. Nothing makes God smile more than man making a plan.


8/13/2005 1:37 am

hey you....would love to talk and see if we have something to share...send a note if interested....until then

Plano69 54M

8/13/2005 3:46 am

Passion... isn't that a fruit? Or was it a flower? LOL!
Perhaps a sparkling tear on a rose petal? The roar of heavy metal? Passion, reveals itself when we get to do what we want to do... or at least dream about doing it... Passion... isn't that what we REALLY seek? Passion... when we touch upon the very core of our being, our desires? Passion, when our deepest secrets are revealed and you make a stand? HAHA!! Passion, isn't that what makes us breathe? Passion, to give freely and willingly of yourself... Passion makes time stand still... and true Passion can make you immortal... Passion, powerful as the raging sea, dangerous and alluring. Passion, animal, wild and free. Passion, addictive and blinding. Passion, hard to control but so satisfying. Passion, boiling blood, brought us all into being... Passion... so hard to define...

rm_Giu1949 53M
2 posts
8/13/2005 6:54 am

Many transgressions in life can be forgiven. But a person without passion can not be forgive, for passion is life itself. It is the emotional manifestation of all our desires to live and not merely exist.

rm_pete8522 46M

8/13/2005 12:01 pm

Passion is what moves the world, thanks for your posts, I like your eyes the way you look, and those god...

GeorgeIII2005 56M
1 post
8/14/2005 3:53 am

Processes are what we create them to be... - We project energy knowingly and not, conditioned programming, written prior to the step before us... - Breaking free of these patterns demands conscious energy, focus and clarity embracing, the internal shift that must, and can occur... - In the jungle at 10yrs old, lost and afraid, I would hide... - When we are silent, absent of contention, passion, fear, or any other emotion, our senses realign within... - The patterns became clear, I could see the danger zones, the paths to travel, water and sources of food, that's how I found the caves, that soon became my home during the monsoons... - Life is exactly this completely... - Time, manufactured by man... - Causes urgency undue, as the affects manifest, energy imbalance, the urgent transferance propogates fields randomly, abandonding principles and the sences of the common wealth... - Refuse any schedule, don't engage or respond within current or standardized mandates... - Watch your environment, it will direct you, often outlining the original energy equally as falsely wasted... - Expectation is a product, manifested by mankind... - It is not natural... - Such conduct will ever be absent of harmony... - Without harmony, we can not obtain peace... - The absence of peace, disrupts our spirit causing illness for not... - A thought of consideration might be acceptance, unconditionally... - The absence of contention, allows initial energies realignment, to themselves with more natural callings, the path of correction designs it's course... - This of course requires human beings to experience an absence of opinion... - As emotional and intellectual energies are contained, quandary overcomes each moment, leaving the brain starving for air, because they forgot to relax and breath... In and Out... In and Out... In and Out... - Then the brain will start to work again, and their friends will reassure them over drinks after work, while they all participate in "numbing" the sole resource that nobody else can take or control... - Our souls, our spirits, our thoughts and our will to survive can only ever be relinquished... - Man kind is intelligent enough to think past any war embracing death in this 21st century ahead... - Inaccurate, untimely, and incomplete data processing, supported by un-tethered rumor from wagging tongues cycles our energies... - Each one attempting to regain intellectual ground after a daily beating, in the bar, numbing the senses voiding cognitive competence... - How is it again that wars begin my friends??? - May The Lord Our God, however you may see, worship or call him, forgive us each and everyone, for our ignorance and facilitation of the judgments extended... - Equality will only ever be achieved through knowledge and understanding, patience and love... - I hope and pray to one day participate, in a standard that our children can look upon, embrace and be proud to honor gracefully, as they live it and extend it to the generations that follow... - This prayer of sentiment, offered from a ignorant soul, seeks simple honor... - Honor enough, to maintain dignity... - As designs ascending, from this world one day will share a power so brilliant, consilence be thy name shall be hallowed... - For it is written... - It is love... - And nothing, absolutely nothing internally or universally, of any galaxy can fight or compete with love... - Unconditional love is preceded by unconditional acceptance, which is preceded by understanding, based on honor and dignity... - Of and for the human being who concedes alignment and conformity for all... - As we lay down our arms against, and reach out to embrace each others unique qualities, we will survive ourselves... - It is available to us, if we just breath... - In and out... - In and out... - And in again, as we each say a prayer for those we dearly love... - Stop today and hug a friend, help a neighbor and make time for the kids... - Reach out and see the difference you, a unique part of this experience, by design make... - You are impact... - You are... - Say Amen... - Good Night.

rm_hossdriver2 64M
51 posts
8/14/2005 1:43 pm

with sweet ladies like you every one wants to keep enjoying it

wayne340 69M

8/15/2005 9:16 pm

Hello again 'xtreeme'. You bring out the best in everyone !
******Always Has A Nice Answer For Us All******

rossguitar 53M

8/15/2005 11:29 pm

yes miss this i believe to be true as well. Are we not defined by our passion. From a song writer as myself to any artsian. It is passion that makes us play. You have the ablitly to put the passion in life. And that my dear is the spark of life and it transends all races, generation and even time as we know it. Throughout time pasion was passed on. Pick an art form, a trade, a craftmenship, a profession all can be done with passion. You have the ablitly to put the passion in life.

softcarl 49M
20 posts
8/16/2005 9:28 am

Shiny girl,your words sounds like eccoes in the mountaine, the sound of war to conquer,the giving it to yourself with desire,where are you?..Hides like a moon ray when aproched.

softcarl 49M
20 posts
8/16/2005 9:30 am

How you came to my temple.

bTony92 63M
6 posts
8/17/2005 12:07 pm

I feel that we should just all stop and take a breath of fresh air and begin from this point on, relising that we only live once and while life is so short we should all love each other while we are here... I do! we should all smile at each other and help each other along the way. Hugs for you!

breakthru5000 42M
1 post
8/19/2005 11:45 am

It is Passion that drives us to the limit of no limitation.
It is the substance that guides us when we are blind and holds us together when we are most vulnerable. Passion is the purpose of all purpose, the purpose that makes us human.

rm_pete8522 46M

8/21/2005 11:22 am

Passion! I think it what moves the world
Passion, is what make you do wonderful things (and some time bad ones too) passion is what ones feels when ones sees a beautiful face a wonderful smile or warm and bright eyes looking at you...
The world without passion would be a very dull world.
xtreemneed, thanks for your posts... I'll bet you are a very passionate woman...

rm_rhomer2 57M

8/21/2005 4:37 pm

Without Passion there can be no Life... only existence x.

Hampmeister 57M

8/23/2005 5:04 am


So I went to this men's workshop on the role of the masculine in the emerging New Age-ish world, and the leader of the group talks about our passion. He equated it to our *fierceness*, and indeed it equates in my life to a fierce need for action and adventure. I learned anew to pursue my dream and my highest and best with fierce passion.

"People watch me and ask, 'Where's the fire' and I tell them it's right here inside, and it's burning brighter than ever." --Unknown. *That* is passion.

rm_keepinymar 60M
6 posts
8/23/2005 1:03 pm

this is just normal. when you are awake you want to act. and the action is passion.till you get tired and sleep. when you are not fast asleep there is still passion. that is the dream. there too you are active. then you sleep that is the real joy.knowing nothing doing nohing the innocent you.
then you wake up and continue the routine in never ends.
after you pss away thy say you take rebirth to continue the same routine.
we are bornout of passion. we are passion nothing else.
your point is excelent. there is no end

1 post
8/23/2005 9:47 pm

Tired of the passion? I would have to say NO! NEVER! Passion is what drives me. Live life to its fullest with as much passion as possible. Passion towards someones else, towards your job, your beliefs, whatever trips your trigger. But the passion never gets old. At least that's my experience.

DecksSpeltTruly 66M

8/24/2005 4:12 am

i love to read your comments.if there is a way i would appreciate it
if you would contact me so that i may learn more from you !!!!

Rog58 58M

8/27/2005 5:37 am

Nothing that you get on this site, can satisfy your "extreme need." Something's not right here. I won't be surprised if this comment's gone tomorrow.

kenazz 62M

8/30/2005 7:40 pm

The grand illusion we are caught up in is this; that "passionate" love is all and everything, it will never fail us, and we don't need to work at it; after all it's LOVE right?
We sometimes realize after the hurt, the yelling,the tears,and the sadness that we could have worked at the intimacy, the trust, and the respect a little more. The flame of passion always goes out without intimacy, respect, and trust.

FubarDelta 106M

8/31/2005 4:37 am

Nice lips. I am a new member still thinking about upgrading.
Passion - It is fixable with a little effort. Reality comes first. Passion is a 2 way thing, it will fade unless it is cared for. Experience. The hottest chicks and guys get so much game early on they never develop skills until "what the hell happened". Not sure if that applies to yourself, anyway. You just need to get back on that horse baby and next time feed the passion. If the guy does not get it kick him to the kerb and move on. Do not look back, delete tel # Do not waste your life on losers. This may be tough, only the first few times. Also, create the persona that makes them come to you, enjoy life be happy, smile, laugh, social manners etc... That is hard to resist. Take your pick thereafter, and pick wisely.

jhon008 42M
1 post
9/4/2005 7:12 pm

je vous aime comme une rose

FubarDelta 106M

9/7/2005 9:30 pm

xtreemneed tried posting a comment to one of your previous blogs 45 natural highs. Thanks for your response before I go, bye.

You are very busy on these blogs. Your other pic was it different a thought.

rm_crazyflip2 60M
1 post
9/8/2005 3:29 pm

when the heart is full, the mouth cannot speak. my heart is filled with passion by the mere sight of your face. and i dare not speak–at least not right now.

rm_kitamarou 57M
75 posts
9/9/2005 6:57 am

When you are imagined, my important one is Erected.
After all the Fun--what's next?

passion8dreamer 51M

9/11/2005 6:45 pm

passion is everything ... if you don't find a way to put passion in what you are doing ... you aren't really doing anything worthwhile

rm_Kurtw2005 61

9/13/2005 8:30 am

I am in Clare if any younger women are close let's get it AdultFriendFinder I am well endowed and D/D free.Discreet,very oral.

monto10 51M
2 posts
9/14/2005 4:15 am

Hi! Sexey, you are looking beautiful,I like your eyes & Lips.

rm_dt3d2001 57M

9/14/2005 12:49 pm

Nice Blog, X-need, your so much in the mix, always working on something. Every time I think I know you, more emerges.

No guts, No glory!

rexlove33 47M
1 post
9/15/2005 9:54 pm

U R Lovely ,

Not just saying that...neither...


Dawaynem 57M
1 post
9/18/2005 4:32 am

This line from the movie says it best for me: "It comes down to a simple choice, really. GetBusy Living, or Get Busy Dying." As long as you are busy living, passion lives. Passion for beauty, living,'s all one and the same. Peace.

rm_maxosexi_69 51M
1 post
9/18/2005 6:53 pm

belesa autentica ( very nice ) fasi-te gemer de praser lol


9/19/2005 1:44 pm

And how would a guy get to meet you??

rm_wizard1302 63M
2 posts
9/19/2005 5:27 pm

Hope I'm not being inappropriate by joining in. Just had to comment on the subject. Passion is wonderful but PASSION without direction can be be harmful,in some cases an addiction. Passion for pure pleasure is called Hedonism. While I certainly have nothing against a Hedonist (I are One) I do feel it comes with an obligation "...and do no harm". However, two (or more) individuals who agree to that goal are giving each other license to engage their passion in pure pleasure. I have been passionate about many things in my life, but I have always tried to give my pasion a positive direction.

rm_bazz002 51M
11 posts
9/20/2005 4:55 am

well i live life to the max,as your a long time dead but short time alive

BROC817 44M

9/22/2005 1:41 pm

well im here to just invite you to a nice lil group....i seen some of your post in other groups and just loved them.....i think you would be very comfortable in this group as well....alot of members of your groups are members of this one not very good at this as you can but the groups name is

looking for a relationship

im sure if you have checked out some of your fellow members post counts then you have seen us in there a few times......

but again i would love for you to at least come check us would be a great addition to our group......well thank you for your time.....good luck and have fun.......bye............BROC817

rm_cinnamonroad 58M

9/23/2005 3:22 pm

To me, passion is simply doing things from the heart, or what the I Ching calls yours Inner Truth – that deep sense of what feels right. All the best things happen to us in this life when we live by our heart and give it equal time with our rational minds. How many times have you talked yourself out of a gut feeling or hunch only to learn later that you should have followed it? And doing something because you feel inspired to do it, sure makes the doin' a lot more fun and exciting. This concludes our little gust of wind for today. Peace.

rm_Dynamo42 59M

9/25/2005 5:29 pm

Passion is the energy that comes from bringing more of YOU into what you do. It is the intensity of your desire for what you do or who you love and the personal resources you dedicate to it. Personal resources can be your heart, love, desire, attention, appreciation, respect and trust. Giving yourself to a person willingly while receiving their passion intensifies yours, like putting two burning logs together. The heat of the passion is incredible and immensely satisfying. Be open to it, look for it in yourself and in your lover and ignite your relationship. The power of passion is immeasurable.

I have an incredible relationship that is packed with passion for each other and it is amazing. She is a beautiful person and I couldn't live without her. My love goes out to you T!

BROC817 44M

9/26/2005 12:27 pm

thanks for the kind words extreemneed....i truely appreciate it , and i will come visit your blog from time to time......bye.....BROC

rm_hilaide 61M

9/26/2005 7:02 pm

Hi pretty lady live life to the fullest ya never know what happens next

sexjustsex1 30
1 post
9/28/2005 5:01 pm

hi xtreem need

rm_horney633 53M

9/29/2005 6:44 am

I find myself looking for it everyday. Have lost it at home. Can't seem to find it. I meet women here at work. flirt tease just makes me feel good. The fantasy part is good.

rm_wanting712 50M
1 post
9/30/2005 1:21 am

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