Women: How Fake Profiles May Effect You  

rm_xnite 46M
37 posts
9/28/2005 10:16 am

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Women: How Fake Profiles May Effect You


I'll will not write specifics about the content contained in fake profiles, but there are some real gems out there that defy reason and really push the boundaries of believability. In my book I have certain beliefs that a woman has about her health, self respect, and most importantly self preservation. Most of these fake profiles fly in the face of any one of these basic concerns. When you throw men into the equation reading them, it's easier to see how they plant the seeds over zealous behavior.

It's in the Company You Keep
Now that title is pretty straight forward but it has allot more to do with a mind mind set as well. So in writing this, I hope to illustrate why some emails women receive from men come across as rude, presumptuous and just way off base. It's partly because there's a glut of artificial and exaggerated profiles they read before coming across your profile. In effect for every real profile out there, my conservative guess is there are at least 5 false profiles. These profiles effectively prime the intended male target with exaggerated notions and expectations of an easy time. Specific numbers are anyone's guess, but their impact on the male members is far from a positive one.

Defining A Fake
Now after having been here for a while the dust is settling. It's a little easier to filter through the fakes. So when I read these profiles, I have arrived to the point where they really are starting to become entertaining. Some are so audacious and over the top that it's hard not to get a good laugh out of them. Either they are extreme portrayals of fantasies never to be realized or they are penned by men hoping to snare some unwary man into an unscrupulous email exchange. I was seriously thinking about posting some excerpts from these profiles but in the chance that someone actually might use one in theirs, I decided against it.

Also of note is the member type. Standard Members are were many of these questionable profiles reside. That's not to say that Silver and Gold are free from being suspect, but that Standard Memberships are more commonly the root of the problem.

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Yes I did mention "profiles being fantasies never to be realized". It shouldn't take much to figure what that means. But that is a whole other topic altogether. And an even dicier one if not handled right. If you have read any of my previous posts, you will know I have openly hammered on Men for their moronic online behavior. To be sure, women are no angels. Far from it. They can equally resort to questionable behavior themselves. More on that later.

rm_TwiztedCharm 56M
456 posts
9/28/2005 2:28 pm

I believe if there people of quality on this site, which I know there are cause I read everything and I will get to know them through communication. I gave up on using this place as a dating site. It is very interesting though to see what people go through looking for love and sex. As for fake profiles, i think there are people out there with mulitple profiles just like in society with multiple personalities.


rm_xnite 46M
12 posts
9/29/2005 11:59 am

TwiztedCharm - Right, starting with sound communications is key point but finding that "Common Ground" or "Mutual Understanding" is probably less so.

I am still looking at this as the "dating service" so to speak, simply because my life and business demands ill afford conventional relationships. I think there are allot women here in the same boat as myself. If they could opt for conventional relations they would. Since they can't, they've come here. Getting those ideals and understandings to mesh is the trick. Cutting through all the online muck takes is what takes quite a bit of persistence.


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