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rm_wondering57 59F
69 posts
6/15/2006 6:03 pm

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the answer

Well I finally found out what happened. Somehow I supposedly misrepresented myself. I don't understand how, as I try to never ever do that. I sent pictures taken the same day. We talked on the phone about things for days, hours. But come to find out, I am HUGE. Interesting I thought. And what's funny, is he thought he had been nice. No communication whatsoever was nice? It was cowardly. No balls. Couldn't even answer the question point blank when asked what went wrong. But he was a tough guy when he thought I said something to someone about him, called and cussed me out.

Which brings up the question. If there are people on here, hurting people, does one have the moral obligation of warning others to prevent same, or do you sit back and say nothing? A delimma for sure. All people are not on here for exactly the same things or situations. If you are not up front, and others as well, it could be a seriously painful journey. I think it must be a case by case situation and a judgment call.

Any who. I am who I am. I send pictures. I talk to people. I tell everything needed to know up front. I expect the same. Stupid, probably. I was shocked to be accused of misrepresenting myself, when indeed it would have been closer to the other way around. No matter. I am not tiny. I am not what I would call huge, which is what I was called today. It depends on who is doing the looking I think. I would think, however, that at some point in our lives that all that mattered would not be outward but inward as well. At least for me, at almost 50, that is the case.

I am almost at 8000 views of my profile. Do I go off at that point and say enough is enough? Or, do I continue the journey, enjoy the good people that do cross my path and hope for the best. Without hope, we have nothing.

Enjoy the rest of your week and upcoming weekend.

Happy Father's Day to all you fathers. Wives, or ex-wifes, make sure your children remember their fathers. No matter what, they are their fathers. Children learn what they live and are shown.

rm_wetfingeraz 53F
3012 posts
6/15/2006 7:35 pm

Of course you're HUGE, compared to that tiny little brain of his with it's narrow little mind. How can anybody short of a paper doll fit into his concept?

rm_wondering57 59F
73 posts
6/15/2006 10:52 pm

Thank you both!! Made me feel so much better. And no he was average sized, not skinny or large. Seemed incredibly nice. So things are not always as they seem. I will continue my journey and keep hoping. Maybe meet a few more that I can continue to call friends, as I have met a few of those on here, even if we weren't what the other wanted, we were grown up enough to acknowledge it and stay friends.

So if anyone knows of anyone looking for an actual relationship, send them my way and make sure they don't want someone skinny. LOL. I want someone to love me and my daughter, be part of our lives, and enjoy life. I don't want marriage. Took me too long to get out of the other one. But it would be nice to have someone to count on and trust. Or if anyone just wants to talk, make friends, feel free to write. You can never have enough friends, and true ones are rare.

Thank you two again for the encouragement. And be careful with your choices, regardless of what your wants are.

You have made my week!!

Frankly36867 65M

6/16/2006 4:24 am

Your frustrations are understandeable. Having been on the same side of that rejection coin myself, I echo your feelings! To be on AdultFriendFinder you have to have "thick skin" and be willing to play the game with some people. Very few people can be straight forward, honest and follow through with their promises. Because you and I have talked during this same time of rejection, my real hope is that you recover from hurt feelings and move on. You are a good person with a wonderful outlook on life. Don't let creeps pull you down or cause you to think less of yourself than you should. In time you will find the right person...he is out here...I believe that.

rm_wondering57 59F
73 posts
6/16/2006 11:25 am

I don't know what to say to that, considering the situation. But thank you I think.

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