frustration....a continuation of I just don't get it...........  

rm_wondering57 59F
69 posts
6/4/2006 4:26 pm

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frustration....a continuation of I just don't get it...........


I do not understand why people are so cold to other people. Common courtesy must be gone. I invite someone to my home, we fix a delicious dinner together, play around a bit, touchy/feely, I give him an all over massage, concentrating on his feet. We watch a movie. I even allow him to sleep for awhile, because he is tired. Explain to me what in that was wrong that I did??? No phone calls. No emails. No nothing. Everything was great before. Several phone calls a day, lasting hours at a time.

If anyone can explain please do. Whatever I did, I certainly don't want to do it again.

It would be different if things had not gone well, but unless we were at different places, it went great!

Input?? Be nice though. My feelings are already hurt.

rm_wondering57 59F
73 posts
6/4/2006 6:41 pm

Thank you. That was very kind. I appreciate your taking time to comment. Have a great week.


lucaland1 51M
3 posts
6/4/2006 11:55 pm

Hi,
Ya know, I was going to post a blog something like this tonight. I really feel bad for you. I am not trying to get a date with you or anything, but go to my profile, and just listen to my audio introduction and there you will find the answer to your question and it will stick out clear as day because there are two things I say that hit the nail on the head about this fellow. You certainly seem like one heck of a nice woman to make a nice home cooked meal like that. Don't let things like that get under your skin! I can't endorse items that are money makers on line, but this coming spring I'll be coming out with a book that will go into that subject in life and how you deal with it. It is his loss and hats off to you for not giving him any gateway to your body. Listen to my audio intro. and it say's it all about him. It doesn't put other guys down, but just happens to fit him perfect. Again, I feel bad for what happened, but just take a day at a time and someone nicer will come along!
Bob...


lucaland1 51M
3 posts
6/13/2006 1:08 am

Hi,

I was just sitting up doing paperwork and your blog came to mind so I logged on. I HOPE your not going to give this stupid clown any kind of lame excuse after he blew you off like that. You went so far out of your way to make a home cooked meal for him and he was the type that probably expected to be spendig the night, yet was to shy to make the appropriate comments and all, "not to say you would let him", but that is why I think he gave you the heave ho. You did nothing wrong and the other guy said it as well. You deserve much better, and if a woman made me a nice home cooked meal like that, good lord, I a) would not try and spend the night with her still, and b) would probably send a dozen red roses to her work place with a thank you card the next day with a thank you note, and A CALL saying how much I appreciated the evening. Thats the difference between a guy who appreciates you and what you did, and a guy who takes things for granted and does not know the work it takes to prepare a home cooked meal like that.

Bob...


rm_wondering57 59F
73 posts
6/13/2006 12:43 pm

Thank you. I do have to clear up part of that. He helped cook ththe meal and it was his idea. It was indeed a very nice, homey evening and I have still not heard a word from him. There was a little fooling around that went on but no sex. Like I said, full body massage, steak dinner, relaxing movie, nice kisses. I thought it went well. I am just totally shocked at absolutely no response to either the email I have send. I have only called once an left a message but of course there was no reply to that either. It is just weird. His profile says he wants a lady who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask, a nice person, someone to hang out with. I thought that was me. LOL. What do I know?? I am getting close to hitting 8000 views on my profile. You would think I could fine one out of all of them who actually wanted something real. May get off here at the 8000 mark. I mean, I am wondering what is the point? Thank you again for your kind words. Helps my feelings a bit. He is on here all the time too, not speaking fo course. Anywho have a great day and rest of the week!


Finder7000 67M

6/24/2006 9:38 pm

I think you are a great personand you dont have anything to worry about . I am the same way and still looking for the right women too. Look at my profile and if you like it email me and i would love to sharesome time with you. I feel you want the same thing a lot of us want. We just have to keep hunting. Your great baby!


rm_wondering57 59F
73 posts
6/26/2006 8:13 pm

Hi. Thank you. That was very sweet. I just now read this reply to my blog or I would have thanked you before. I hope you have a wonderful week!


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