Time to Fix The Lessons of Marriage  

rm_vtsoulmates 45M/44F
5 posts
9/26/2005 11:28 pm

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Time to Fix The Lessons of Marriage

What do you consider the best way for open couples to enjoy a succesful and mutually fulfilling marriage? Swing together, Swing Alone, Bisexual play, kinks, DOM/sub or anything else, no matter what you decide, communication and constant inclusion( even if only in thought) of spouse is what we believe is the key. What's your opinion?

We have a vast amount of experience, and have actually strengthened our bond, secured our trust, and removed jealousy, greed, and other nuances involved with monogamous vanilla marriages (which we refer to as Muggles)

We have even found ways to keep the spark, puppy love, adoration, admiration and awe in respect to each other through some unique and often surprise methods. We would love to discuss and here your ideas, as your never to advanced to learn and improve, including us and any other experienced and succesful marriages.

rm_Longtrail57 59M
3 posts
9/30/2005 3:23 am

My humble feelings on the subject is that both partners must be in unison as far as the fun and excitement of the arrangement. Each partner has his/her special fantasy, and it would be great for both of you to make careful steps to experience each fantasy either alone or together...depending on what the fantasy is!

I have heard that consenting couples having sex in the same room alongside another couple is a great way to break the ice. No pressure, while the excitement of watching/hearing each other is quite a turn on.

It would be fun to hear of your experiences thus far.....

Ironhead20 48M
1 post
10/22/2005 6:00 pm

I agree that swinging is the way to go. There are many reasons, all of them good. I enjoy ensuring my partner is pleasured, it makes me happy. I like teasing her with the unknown, giving her the possibility that something totally unexpected could happen. I have no jealous feelings, it's awesome to help her feel good. Being a couple is a state of mind, it's not mandated by paper, or a person. Keeping your mate happy, keeping it different, is a good thing.

The only difficult part is finding mine...again!

hvnfun4444 47M/47F
4 posts
10/27/2005 5:14 pm

My wife and I have been married for 12 years. We would both agree our relationship is pretty much non-sexual at this point - yet we both love sex. We are simply bored with one another sexually at this point and we are in our mid 30's (in our prime!). We both agree sex with other couples is appealing yet we are both very concerned about the initial meetings and the feelings we may get which would include jelousy etc. We are both professionals with two young kids thus we have a lot to loose if one of us simply can't handle it. Yet, I also see a very tough marriage if it continues sexually as it has. I need advice......what is everyones thoughts on this dillema. My thought is, many of you out there had the same problem prior to entering the lifestyle. Should we take the plunge?????

Thanks Much.

rm_123brian2 46M
3 posts
12/24/2005 6:26 am

I would love to help you out any way you would like i find you both so hot

rm_123brian2 46M
3 posts
12/24/2005 6:27 am

i would love to help you out any way i can to further my alt lifestyle

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