This makes no sense...please explain...  

rm_viper_usa_26 41M
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8/7/2005 5:28 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

This makes no sense...please explain...

First off, I just turned 30 on Thursday. Now I'm not asking for birthday cards, but what I am asking for is an explanation on a certain matter that occurred a few nights ago. It seems to be bugging me. Here's the question: is it completely wrong for a 30 year old man tell a 19, 20, 21 year old girl that she's hot? I was in a forum and made the comment to this gorgeous girl, and the room (mostly girls) exploded in ridiculous remarks about me being an old man preying on the innocent young. In more ways than one, I was instantly labeled a damn pedophile. It was relentless. What the holy $&%#??!! Now with this being AdultFriendFinder, I can only assume that your answers will be slightly toward my side, but seriously, what is your view on this?? First off, I look pretty young, and if my age never came up, I doubt I'd get that response. Secondly, when did a compliment become stalking? I have neither the time nor the energy to hang outside some woman's bedroom window hoping to catch a glimpse. I was just amazed at the ammo fired at me. So that is what I'm asking of you all. Men and women, please help me explain this to myself.

Jkitten85 48F

8/31/2006 8:29 am

*waves* Nope not a pedophile...its just that the younger ones these days have been raised to be more aware of the fact that there are people out there that can and will hurt you. Instead of using the words hot gorgeous sexy etc. on other message boards or chat rooms, I would say great pic. Less offensive and gets the point across.

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