Why do we call women sluts?  

rm_uxphreak 43M
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8/21/2006 4:31 pm

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8/23/2006 6:23 am

Why do we call women sluts?


The term "slut" usually meant a girl/woman who had been sexually active with many men. What about the guys who were sexually active with many women? We call them playboys, or "playas", but in general it's not meant in a derrogatory way. If a woman is a "slut", however, she seen as someone to treat in a negative way. What if a woman wants to experience more than another woman wants to? What if those women that want to experience certain sexual situations do not do so simply because they don't want to be labeled a "slut"? Is that right or fair to judge a person based on their sexual preferences? It's not right to be what you are not... to pretend to be someone while deep inside you simply want to be yourself. Maybe I'm just a pervert... or maybe we just need to let people be who they want to be. It's their life and they should be able to live it without ridicule or have judgement passed on them by those who have no idea about who they are as a person. I for one have no problem with a woman exploring her sexual interests... provided they are safe and with full knowledge of the potential consequences. Be open about what you want sexually, and you'll be true to yourself. Who knows.... maybe there's someone out there that will appreciate your sexuallity more than anyone ever has before?

cuteNEway 41F

8/21/2006 4:49 pm

THANK YOU! This is something that had bothered me forever. I do what I want with my body with whoever I want!

If you wanna call me a slut go ahead! I'm still getting more than you are

Silly closed minded people!


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
8/21/2006 4:51 pm

I hope so because i am horny as hell!

Purry {=}

Purry


iamthecmfe 38F

8/21/2006 4:54 pm

just my 2 cents....

I like being a slut


KC_JJ 54M

8/21/2006 5:01 pm

What about the guys who were sexually active with many women?

The term I've most commonly heard women use for that around this place is "slimy". Interesting how it also starts with 'sl'.

If a woman is a "slut", however, she seen as someone to treat in a negative way.

I seem to see it used in a complimantry way relatively frequently as well. Not as frequenly as the other way but frequently nonetheless. There are also quite a few women who really enjoy the word used in "dirty dark" types of activities. If I know that a woman enjoys it for that I have no problem obliging them in that particular context.

What if those women that want to experience certain sexual situations do not do so simply because they don't want to be labeled a "slut"?

Then they are too self conscious and they worry too much about what others are thinking of them. There are plenty of great examples of women around here who have shown that doing this is completely possible and without the types of social repercussions that one might imagine or fear would happen due to it.

Overall I agree with your general conclusions there so sorry if it looked like I may have been taking counterpoints to what you said but if you check them out they all end up supporting your concluding statements.

MMM [ MMM


Hydragenias 56F

8/21/2006 6:47 pm

It's just that old double standard that's been around forever!

in any case...

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hydragenias


Mermaidslut 50F

8/21/2006 7:11 pm

According to the Urban Dictionary, the number one definition of a slut is:

a woman with the morals of a man

Also, I am very fond of the this definition, as well:

A slut is a person who has taken control of their sexuality and has sex with whomever they choose, regardless of religious or social pressures or conventions to conform to a straight-laced monogamous lifestyle committed to one partner for life. The term has been taken back to express the rejection of the concept that government, society, or religion may judge or control one's personal liberties, and the right to control one's own sexuality.

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rm_uxphreak 43M

8/22/2006 5:18 pm

Nice comments from everyone. Thanks for welcoming me. Now I'm off to find that woman that wants to show me how hot and nasty she can get. >>!


iamthecmfe 38F

8/23/2006 5:32 am

    Quoting rm_voodoo_man1:
    Oh...I thought you said you'd be a slut for just 2 cents...
2 cents and a plane ticket to Scotland...


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