In the beginning....  

rm_upfourgrabs 36F
45 posts
7/15/2005 10:58 am

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9/29/2006 1:09 pm

In the beginning....

I first joined this site back in January late one rather drunken evening. To be honest I thought it would be a giggle and nothing more. It was probably around March when I actually paid any real attention to it as my profile was attracting quite a bit of interest.
I eventually got a profile I was content with and a picture up so off we go. I got loads of messages on a daily basis and a whole array of offers. I must admit I was a little surprised, but on reflection there seems to be an excess of men on the site.
My usual tactic is to get a guy to chat to me on msn or by email so i can at least find out more about him. After a bit of chat I arranged to meet a guy one night. Took a couple of mates along to linger for moral support (never done anything like this before). The guy came to the pub, loitered for a while without coming over and then left. I later discover that he doesn't like my physical appearance. That's fine, I like honesty, sure it stings a bit but then if he is that superficial I probably don't want to know him.But what really gets me is he has seen my picture and I did tell him what I'm like with complete honesty. I go back and check out his profile which says women of all shapes and sizes. I know this now to be a blatant lie.
So I ask you all, what is the point of lying here? It only wastes everyones time.

rm_Simonkey1690 45M

8/17/2005 3:24 pm

Agreed taht lying is bollocks. For me I have a problem of being too damn ho'm not up for meeting it's just that it hasn't gone that far yet and, to be honest, I'm not sure how much I would go thronest. I've been on here for a while and have difficulty in getting through to many women ... the ones I do we tend to share some pics and have some emails or IMs. Not that Iugh with ... actually bollocks to that given the right time and place I'd love to meet a semi stranger and have amazing sex!!

rm_jonnydepends 52M
12 posts
1/4/2006 7:48 pm

If the guy had any gumption at all he would have come over and at least talked to you. It's only polite after exchanging mails. At the end of the night, or indeed after only 5 minutes, all he had to do was explain that he wasn't attracted.

It is much more likely that he just wasn't confident enough to come over. He'd probably been bricking himself all day about the prospect of meeting you. He knows that he should, but when he finally spots you, he realises he can't do it. He was probably an engineer of some sort! Only jokning! I'm an engineer myself.

werdna49 67M
1 post
7/29/2006 5:30 pm

Hiya have just joined this site and spotted your fascinating blog. You seem to have a great life, I wish mine was as great as yours.
You look very nice in your picture.
Yours truly
Andrew xx

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