what you think,  

rm_upforitnow51 52M
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12/29/2005 11:56 pm

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what you think,

I was watching a TV show this evening that made reference to Guys sleeping with their best friends. We all have this misconception or fear that if we do this (Women, this goes for you as well) that if things go sour the friendship that was once so important to us will wither away. Why is that? I have slept with two of my best female friends before and it didn't work after about a year with one of them, but we still talk to this day and joke about our relationship in the past.

Are people that insecure to approach their friend and explain the feelings they have for them and if they might be mutual? If they really are your BEST friend, they will understand and respect you that much more. Even if nothing does happen, knowing will at least strengthen your friendship and who knows, it could even make it blossom into a world you never though possible.

rm_jynxgurl 30F
209 posts
12/30/2005 1:57 am

ummm, I couldn't picture myself sleeping with my best friends. I just have a certain trust and bond with them that I couldn't have with those I date. When you add love into the mix your heart gets put on the line, and once it is broken people tend to lash out however they can, and the more they have to work with the more they can hurt you. So you can never trust a lover like you can a true friend. Sleeping with them will cause more hurt in the long run than joy and comfort in the short run.

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