Perhaps This Is "Stalking Made Easy... "  

rm_unlistedone 65M
3832 posts
10/27/2005 1:01 am

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Perhaps This Is "Stalking Made Easy... "

The new item AdultFriendFinder has given us is to be able to see how many comments someone has made... and then to be able to click on it and see where and what those comments were. And to whom.

While this is very nice in perhaps keeping up with someone and their thoughts and views on things here in the blogs, and in the groups... the temptation is also there for someone to stalk behind someone, also.

I tried it on a couple of people (no one here that is a regular visitor to my blog; or a blog that I frequent) and it became quite apparent that this could also be used the wrong way.

There are a few I would like to know where they travel here... but I think I'll leave that alone. If they want me to know something, I figure they will tell me. Otherwise, it isn't any of my business. (Kinda like opening someone else's email, in a way.)

Anyone else got any ideas on this new tool?
I would be curious to know. unlisted

MsLoveRose 33F  
2432 posts
10/29/2005 11:59 pm

well i think its a great idea!!! it gives me freedom to go back to the post i made and see if someone commented to me....i have yet to check out what others has done with it....but...that could change...maybe i will see.... maybe even notice a pattern!!!

either way...its an asset and i was wondering when they were gonna bring this up...its the same way with the user groups!!! a good idea

live more, laugh often, love much

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
11/1/2005 1:17 pm

i've used it the last few days,to find my missing comments,i pressed on all my regular visitors and found who had left a comment and worked out how many were missing,

you can search me any time,nothin to hide

I'm a

i'm here to stay

rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
11/1/2005 9:51 pm

sunrise, it does work out great to see if a comment were posted and missed. I like that, also. We have needed something like that for a long time. (I always figured they would give us another list on the right hand side again, just showing our post with the new numbers in yellow or something like that.)

rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
11/1/2005 9:53 pm

Polly, it's the number right below your picture and name. Yours is sitting at "1484" at the time I wrote this.

And you can stalk me anytime you care; as long as you don't carry anything that will split me in half!

rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
11/1/2005 9:56 pm

Like you, Papy, I have nothing to hide either. But like anything, there is room for the abuser... or stalker, also.

Hope you had a great weekend! unlisted

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