Who's in Control Here???  

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
5791 posts
6/22/2005 5:57 am

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Who's in Control Here???

Honestly, guys....

Do you enjoy when a woman takes over the love making process???? or...

Do you want to be in control the entire time????

And, if you enjoy the woman taking over, what do you enjoy her taking over doing?????

Very curious....

pASSionwantd2 50M
1316 posts
7/18/2005 7:28 pm

I like the woman to take the lead it's a very arousing and visual,Plus she set's the pace which is very rewarding to both.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/25/2005 4:28 am

multitasku - Not that I want to watch a woman squirm!!! lol.. but I do understand what you mean!!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/25/2005 4:27 am

buckstudson - Hee hee.. cool!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/25/2005 4:26 am

Slurrystar - I agree... some words you simply have to be careful with ... control, is definately one such word that can be very slippery!! I like a little spice with my oils!!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/25/2005 4:23 am

I certainly love men, too, mzhunyhole; but, every now and then taking the lead can certainly be fun!!!

rm_multitasku 66M
1 post
6/24/2005 3:25 pm

It's not about control, but about mutual interest. It's great to have the woman take the "lead" now and then as it is always a pleasure to lie back and enjoy her touch. On the other hand, it can be very exciting to watch a women squirm as you provide her with much pleasure.

buckstudson 38M
1 post
6/24/2005 1:33 pm

I like to everything with a women, truly experience her in every way!

rm_Slurrystar 51M

6/24/2005 1:18 pm

It's very erotic when a woman isn't afraid to ask for what they want ... then again, it's erotic when anyone isn't afraid to ask for what they want. "Control" is a slippery word, best applied with oil. /nod

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/24/2005 6:59 am

skippy6825 - Being in control isn't about being in a race.... Sex isn't meant to be a race at all... but a mingle of two people to meet an ultimate goal... the means of getting to that goal doesn't necessarily mean that any one person has to lead the way in totallity.... or even start the process!!

skippy6825 50M
4 posts
6/24/2005 2:00 am

What and let all my insecurities get in the way? I would actually have to talk to her and find out where she is going and will she wait for me cause I don't want to jump ahead. And speaking of which is being in control a matter of getting there first? I don't always want to win but I can't figure out how to come in second.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/23/2005 10:04 am

Lipator - That is certainly one way to look at it!!!

Lipator 56M
71 posts
6/23/2005 7:30 am

Its like being on a roller coaster in the dark. You never know whats coming next.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/23/2005 6:16 am

hoursewithnoname - Trust me, I don't think I would be scaring... geezzz, at least, I hope I wouldn't!!!

hoursewithnoname 44M

6/22/2005 11:30 pm

hey txrose4uNTX

give me a few minutes to warm up and then I am all yours. just let me know what ya need. and when that fit of pleasure takes over don't worry bout grabben to hard or leaving scares, just revel in that explosion of pleasure.

PassionGoneWild 54M

6/22/2005 10:38 pm

I like it both ways... Variety is great!!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 7:24 pm

harshawj - true... even us women love our egos bolstered a bit. Definately can understand where you are coming from on that... so, you wouldn't mind if if I took the lead in the dance of the passion???

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 7:21 pm

777dare - or the way the dance of love flows?????

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 7:20 pm

bullman4U - Tie you up and go bar hopping??? Sounds like something out the 9 to 5 movie!!! hee hee.... Nope, I would never do something like that.... well, tie your hands up and make you suck my titties.. or I take a feather and tickle you in a loving way... but, never leave you tied up by yourself!!! hee hee...

Too funny.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 5:10 pm

cajunpet - Ahhhh, the returning of the favor... hmmmm.. almost as good as make up sex!!! maybe even better!!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 5:09 pm

74ShovelHD - I am sorry... I have to ask... Why are you STILL at work????

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 5:08 pm

lovesick1954 - really? Can you provide an example????

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 5:07 pm

the_taker - condenscending voice??? How about my most sultry voice instead???

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 5:06 pm

Mccartney2003 - interesting mix of examples.... I like holding my man's wrist down too when I am on top.... and dangle my breast for him to suck on as well... ooooh, babah!!


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 5:03 pm

staminaplus3 - So very true... nary a boring minute!! lol...

777dare 63M
8 posts
6/22/2005 4:43 pm

As far as i am concerned the who is in control question depends on who you find yourself with and also the mood of all concerned at that moment in time.

cajunpet 70M
1185 posts
6/22/2005 4:20 pm

I love a women who is confident and aggressive, and loves to take control when she wants to. It is a big turn on for me, and watching her desires being fulfilled. Then I also return the favor.

Take care.
Keep On Blogging!!!! Have a great day.

Cajun Pet

74ShovelHD 53M

6/22/2005 4:12 pm

What couldn't be better after a long day at work.... speaking of which... it's 6:15, I'm still at work...I'd love to go home and get jumped!!!

lovesick1954 57M
1 post
6/22/2005 3:52 pm

Just w ant 2 tell u that I am a man and that ernjoy alot of times that a womnan gets in conttrol of the sex process,.

rm_the_taker 44M
60 posts
6/22/2005 3:41 pm

as long as you use a sweet, condescending voice...

Mccartney2003 38M
281 posts
6/22/2005 2:32 pm

Personally I enjoy the entire love making process.
I love variety in the bedroom.
Sometimes I love being in control. Watching my lovers eyes go wide as I start,feeling her dig her fingers into my back, hearing her gasp and moan.

But at times I love it when a woman pushes me back, kissing me, making the first move. Seeing her wanting me so bad. Her sitting on my stomach kissing me and then working her way down. For her to take total control and to have her way with me however she wants to.
I also love when a woman holds me by my wrists while she is riding me. Yes at times I can be submissive. I enjoy it alot.
The greatest thing is the first time two lovers meet, when the woman makes the move first. It's wonderful. Drives me wild to be with a woman that's not totally submissive. Very sensual by nature.
I love seeing a woman in control sexually.

staminaplus3 66M

6/22/2005 2:12 pm

There are times I like to be in total control, sometimes I like when we switch those roles during the same session, like a tag team lol and every now and then I just let her do whatever she likes....it's all about keeping it interesting

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 12:52 pm

interested13563 - Why not really??? What would need to happen to change your mind???

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 12:51 pm

wyvernrose - Somehow, I am not surprised by that!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 12:50 pm

LacyCuffs -- I agree!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 12:49 pm


Sooooo, if I said, "Hey, Loverboy!!! Drop your pants b/c your going to show me what you got tonight!" -- just as soon as you walked in home from a long day at work you'd be ready, willing, and able?????

or, if I said, "Hey, honey!! I am so very horny and want to take you on here and now!!" -- you'd be ready?????


74ShovelHD 53M

6/22/2005 10:50 am

I love it when a woman knows what she wants and tells me or takes the initiative to act on it!! Us men are so easy to please when it involves sex (unless there's severe pain), that we're pretty much happy with any position, any time of day, as long as we're in somthing that's hot and wet!!

It's definitely more of a turn on when the woman does what she needs to get off, vs. just going along with what I do, hoping it happens.

interested13563 53M
2557 posts
6/22/2005 10:38 am

Not really...

silvertongue65 52M
31 posts
6/22/2005 10:19 am

TXRose... I love when a woman shows enthusiasm and desire to make love with me. If she wants to take the lead to show me how much I turn her on, or because she knows what pleases her and wants to show me, I'm all for it. Usually, its great.. and then I get to show her what turns ME on and how much I enjoy her... Win-Win

rm_mitch69x 51M

6/22/2005 10:08 am

I adore when the woman takes the control....
Excuse my english ,I'm french.

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
6/22/2005 9:01 am

I don't give them a choice txrose, haven't had any complaints yet


rm_LacyCuffs 49F
386 posts
6/22/2005 8:56 am

This blog could turn out to be very intresting

TheDodger8 45M

6/22/2005 8:30 am

I love it when a woman takes control...Especially when it is because she is so turned on because of my teasing she just can't take it anymore and takes over. yeah!

jimxxx1971 47M

6/22/2005 7:51 am

i would love it, i find a sexually aggressive woman to be a huge turnon. push my head down to your pussy and tell me what you want. tell me you need me to fuck you NOW. tell me whatever you want... and it is my new #1 mission in life.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 7:29 am

TxwifeBanger - Tis is true. Variety is the spice of life!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/22/2005 7:28 am

ByteChaser2 - Ohh... I am not into the whips and chains and things either... just more like you said... taking the lead sometimes!!

TxwifeBanger 61M

6/22/2005 7:16 am

give n take is best. alternating adds more variety n spice to the mix. fun to have her show me what she likes at that moment

ByteChaser2 53M

6/22/2005 7:10 am

I'm not sure I'd categorize it as being "in control"...

I like being able to 'do what I like'. Maybe a subliminal control thing... Maybe making it known to my partner what it is that feels great for me... who knows.

And I do enjoy when she takes the lead. Gives me a little more insight to what it is she likes doing and more often than not, I'm enjoying it more than she is.

And as long as she leaves the strap-on and whips at home, I'm down!

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