While you are sleeping....  

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
5791 posts
5/31/2005 7:02 pm

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While you are sleeping....

do you cuddle, spoon, or sleep apart? Just curious....

One of my favs while falling asleep is nestling just under my man's arms with my head on his chest where I can look up easily and kiss him, if I would like to...We generally talk about anything and everything under the sun. It is yet another opportunity for becoming all that much more intimate for sure...and a way to really get to know your mate...

After being asleep, the spooning aspects... both me to him and him to me... offers a sense of closeness as well.... and I love him having his hands on my breasts while I am waking up while feeling his strong reaction to touching my breasts....

Of course, as a woman, when a man wakes me up in the morning by sucking on my breasts, there is no end to the pleasures that will come forth that day. What a great way to start off the day!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/3/2005 11:27 am

redswallow - I love physical contact..... It is sort of like living in an area that has no trees. That seems just unfathomable to me....

redswallow777 48M
6810 posts
6/2/2005 10:29 pm

If I can't end my day spoonin my love I am an unhappy camper. Physical contact is essential to my overall happiness.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/2/2005 12:50 pm

lol, avgjoe.... I didn't mean it THAT way... too funny! Thank God, you have a sense of humor... lol....

BTW, I am glad that my genuiness and tenderness shows through my blog writing. Thank you for your compliments...

Love your pic...

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/1/2005 12:44 pm

avgjoe - Melt, Joe?????? hmmmmm......

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/1/2005 12:42 pm

papyrina - At least, you have your cats!!

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
6/1/2005 5:01 am

i have no choice separate from hubby and one cat spooned along my back and the other by my tummy

I'm a

i'm here to stay

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/1/2005 4:30 am

Cajunpet - I don't think anyone can actually stay spooned ALL night long and I think it is perfectly natural for people to pick it back up once they have gotten past that deep sleep stage. That is all a part of loving and being loved.....

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/1/2005 4:27 am

MNBEAVER - no doubt! Anytime people can receive affirmations from those they love aids in reaffirming the relationship, making it stronger, and builds the self-esteem in the recepient, as well as the giver because he/she receives the positive response from which he/she gave the affirmation in the first place. Make sense???

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/1/2005 4:23 am

morefutility - Absolutely! The caressing is all apart of the process...the touching, the feeling, the closeness, etc...all a part of the intimacy.

cajunpet 70M
1185 posts
6/1/2005 3:14 am

I love to cuddle after and talking until she falls asleep. I can not stay spooned all night, because I have neck and back problems. If I wake up first, then I will cuddle her, and wait until she wakes up, to start caressing her.

Keep On Blogging!!!! Have a great day.

22 posts
5/31/2005 9:40 pm

i like to cuddle to i love to feel my fiance's arms around me and i dont mind the poke at all but he wakes me up by kissing the back of my neck and rubbing his self on me not in a bad way he uses his mouth and he wakes me up with alot of kisses to and whispers in my ear to tell me im beautiful
i gotta tell ya there is not better way to wake up!

rm_morefutility 37F
175 posts
5/31/2005 9:38 pm

My husband and I love to cuddle. I enjoy lying my head on his lap while we are on the couch, and from his reaction, he usually enjoys it as well lol. I love being petted though. Hair, body, etc, it is a treat to be caressed while being held.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
5/31/2005 9:31 pm

plumpness - the "pretzel-spoon"???? sounds like an interesting setup..

Plumpness1 48F

5/31/2005 8:56 pm

Oh I like to cuddle when starting off to sleep, but when I'm making the final descent, I need to be apart!

I agree that waking up to having your breasts sucked is infinitely better than that ole 'poke-poke at the backdoor' than many men have perfected!!!

One cool thing my last fiance and I perfected was the 'pretzel-spoon' for relaxing and watching tv. I'd lay on my back or side and he would find some very convoluted position using my legs and torso. Usually, he'd place his head on my left inner thigh and twist my other leg over his shoulder! Somehow, he was able to find a comfortable position for both himself and me. It was very intimate even when it didn't involve sex!

Strange-o me!

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