WTF? Excuse me, but.....  

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
5791 posts
1/1/2006 8:20 pm

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WTF? Excuse me, but.....

I had been dating this one guy since May which got more serious as the time moved forward. I met a few other AdultFriendFinder men before it got that serious though. Albeit he lived in another city and the time available for us to spend with one another was a bit difficult at times with each other's schedules, but we had quality time when we did get together and we had discussed about one of us moving closer to the other so that we could see each other more often.

Tonight I get a phone call from him, and he states that he is going to check out the market in Orlando FL. And, a friend of his (also female) is also wanting to move out of this great state of Texas to Orlando FL. Was it a joke that he said? If so, it was a very sick joke.

I am left wondering, WTF????? He made me feel very important in the relationship and, yet, he just pulled the rug out from underneath me tonight -- then has the nerve to tell me he wants me and wants to come to visit me tonight.

I don't think so!! When will men ever learn???? And, to think that I put off dating anyone else for him. There has to be a real man out there that truly values the relationships that they develop. I don't like mind games and truly desire a LTR. I know that there has to be someone like that out there for me....

Confused and dazed in Texas


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/4/2006 9:24 am

fun4allin2006 - Ick is right. I don't care much for the mud, but at this time, I would welcome it. We have had massive grass fires in Texas because of the dryness and the heat spell. Just send us a few sprinkles along our way.

If you have ever been to Lake Travis, you would be shocked at how low the lake is right now; there are beaches there that haven't seen sunlight for a very long time!!!

Try to stay warm....

Hugs back to you...

TxRose


fun4allin2006 53M
1583 posts
1/4/2006 8:03 am

txrose--I am so glad to hear your feeling better and happy to have been some help. Stop on over if you need another hug!
It has been from 38 to 65 degrees F here for the last week. We had rain and everything is covered with mud. "ïck" I hate mud.


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/4/2006 4:44 am

candy69sosweet - Yes, the weather reached 88 degrees yesterday and I got a little sunburn on my forehead -- only in Texas in January!!! lol.... (if that can't make you just a little more envious!!) Thanks for your encouragement.


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/3/2006 9:36 pm

Well, fun4allin2006, I have been too busy to think twice about it today. I had 8 stores to visit today and only got 5 of them done before I had to go online for my classes that I am taking to study Forensic Psychology. Just got a moment to chill b/4 getting some sleep. I'll wake up early in the morning to enter in my reports that I need to enter.

Thank you for thinking of me...perhaps, it was your encouragement that kept me going today when each store that I visited had a lot more there to do that anticipated. Thank you, too, for your hug. One can never have too many hugs in their lifetime....or even on a daily basis.

Hope your day/evening is going well for you as well.

Ttyml...

TxRose


fun4allin2006 53M
1583 posts
1/3/2006 8:59 am

txrose, I just wanted to stop by and see how your doing today. I sure hope your feeling better. All bad things pass with time-it just seems that time stands still when your hurting. Anyhow I wanted to give ya another hug.


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/3/2006 5:10 am

Having a White Christmas is nice. An ex and I took my daughter with us to CT so that we could have some White Christmases with his family; it was always nice to be back home later though, Inominate563. The single digit weather is only justified with the snow; however, I am always glad to get back to warmer territory. I would never do well to live up North...


Inominate563 45M
47 posts
1/2/2006 11:28 pm

i don't know about the fast and furious part. gonna take a look around the next couple days though.
it wasn't too bad while i was in boston. only was in the sigle digits for a few days. and the snow was nice. kinda nice to have a white xmas. i only had to dig my car out once.


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/2/2006 9:47 pm

Han54boat - I beg to differ. I am not the type that can date multiple guys at the same time. I have tried to do that but it is too confusing emotionally. I am a one man woman. Once I start dating someone on a regular basis, it is him and only him (especially on a sexual basis), although some point during 6 months and a year you begin to reassess and determine whether or not the relationship is going where you hope it will.

Sorry to hear about your loss. I guess it is better that we find out now that a relationship is going to end rather than expend years and find out then that it is a no go.

I am looking forward to see what is around the bend for me. I have a great feeling about this coming year, what about you????


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/2/2006 9:34 pm

Inominate563 - I hear that Lousianna is being built fast and furiously. Texas is having great weather in the meantime - in the 70s; just don't bring the cold weather from New England with you - okay????

fun4allin2006 - Yep, I have been pampering myself greatly this evening. My future son-in-law made me a Jack & Coke (although he knows not what happend), I have candles burning, took a shower in the candlelight, and kicking back and watching a bit of tv (which I haven't been able to do much of during the past month or so due to my work schedules). Tomorrow, will be 77 degrees and I am looking forward to getting my jobs done while driving around in the sunshine and the breeze blowing in my windows. Hope all is well where you are at. Rest assured that we support you guys'work over there -- just hurry up and complete y'alls' tasks so we can have you guys back home. I drove through the military base near by last week and the barracks are looking very empty.


Han54boat 64M
11241 posts
1/2/2006 3:46 pm

My two cents, "Shoot the ass!" I would never "put off dating anyone else for" until that ring/paper/whatever is on/in our hand. I give it six to nine months. Is it dead or moving forward? Any o'way, hugs to you. I had a relationship starting up. Then last week, the woman told me that she was not sure about it. NEXT!

HUGS HUGS


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fun4allin2006 53M
1583 posts
1/2/2006 3:03 pm

Like I said before, It just feels right sometimes. I am glad you are feeling a little better. Have another hug! Pamper yourself today as much as you can. You are special-don't let ANYONE tell you or make you feel different. His lose.


Inominate563 45M
47 posts
1/2/2006 2:50 pm

i'm still in louisiana for the holidays. i'll make it to austin next week to start work. looking forward to being back there for a little while


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/2/2006 2:30 pm

longhairednikki - Yes, I saw that in his profile. Amazing man who can give hugs from an entirely different country, isn't he??? And, thank you as well for your hug.

fun4allin2006 - And, yes - it did help to brighten up my day. Somehow it seemed to have the warmth of you as well through your sincerity. Thank you!!


fun4allin2006 53M
1583 posts
1/2/2006 12:20 pm

It just feels right sometimes when someone is hurting as you are! Hugs are the best! Sometimes the one giving them wish they never started, but that is rare. Hugs are great and I am giving you one right now through the screen. I will check back to see if it helped.


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/2/2006 11:40 am

Oh, he talked about it, but it was as a someday thing - not like a tomorrow thing. Big difference!!

So you moved to Austin??? Austin certainly has its load of good bands to see -- 6th street, and so much more. Enjoy!!

TxRose


Inominate563 45M
47 posts
1/2/2006 11:05 am

sorry txrose. it sucks that he just threw it out there like that instead of talking to you about it and letting you know he was at least thinking of making a move.

speakin of makin a move. i left cold as new england for a more temperate climate. can't wait to see some good bands.

happy new year


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/2/2006 10:16 am

Thank you, fun4allin2006.

Hugs are the greatest, aren't they???


fun4allin2006 53M
1583 posts
1/2/2006 9:42 am

Don't want to sound like everyother man on here but I wish you could just give you a BIG HUG right now-Just a HUG-no further-I feel you need one.


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/2/2006 8:21 am

So true, fun4allin2006. However, it stings a bit right now. I know the right man will come along eventually... While I have had my share of hurt in my lifetime; I am knowing better when to pull out of a relationship. Once it was even on the 2nd date b/c I could see where that one was heading fast and furiously. Thank you for your support.


fun4allin2006 53M
1583 posts
1/2/2006 8:01 am

txrose all I can say is before writing this I looked back at a couple of our prior Blogs and sit here thinking this woman deserves a great man to give her the love and warmth she deserves. It seems to me that you trust people whole heartedly and they hurt you. I look back to the one where you spoke about the woman buying Christmas presents and think -yes I would have done that also. It sure seems people want to use and dispose of others as fast as they meet them. I was taught that always treat people the way you would want to be treated-It seems this is how you were raised also. My heart goes out for you-I do beleve that the correct person will come along and you will see that you are much better off.


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