They say never take an argument to your bedroom...  

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
5791 posts
8/4/2005 11:03 am

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They say never take an argument to your bedroom...

How do you resolve your disputes without taking them to the bedroom and allowing them to affect your sex life?

Name the top five ways you accomplish this!!!

Very curious....

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/6/2005 7:11 am

pASSionwantd2 - On the very few occasions in my life that it has come to this, the makeup sex has been truly amazing!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/6/2005 7:09 am

jim5131 - This is so true. While it is important to understand where your partner is coming from, there are often so much more important things in life. I am not one to go looking for arguments, but I do enjoy a lively discussion every now and then to learn more about my partner - not to see who is right or wrong on their viewpoints necessarily.

pASSionwantd2 50M
1316 posts
8/5/2005 8:45 pm

The Good&Bad thing about Dispute's is that It can Lead to amazing Sex.Ya just Never Know anymore!

jim5131 55M
1296 posts
8/5/2005 7:58 pm

hahahaha....I recall a 'debate' I had with my wife in our third year of marriage: I mentioned to her that she had only apoligized to me six times in three years. She was apalled, maybe that I had actually counted. I, on the other hand, would apologize almost daily for all those stupid things that so easily offended her.

I'm with Cookie..although some arguements are fundamental in understanding your spouse's position and understanding for something or other, some arguements are so stupid that a simple "Look, this is dumb..I'm sorry and I didn't mean to upset you" is often exactly what the other wishes he/she could say, if they only had enough courage to drop the pride routine and realize that there are bigger things in life...

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/5/2005 7:57 pm

wyvernrose - I was advised to keep the bedroom sacred and free from the arguing... if you have to argue away from the kids, take it elsewhere....leave the bedroom for the good stuff!!!

CookieLips2- Debates? I am always right!!! j/k.... I do love playing devil's advocate a lot and will continue the debate for a while until all points of view can be seen...

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/5/2005 7:48 pm

ProtonicMan - Yeah, too many people these days jump to those solutions. I have always believed in working things out, if at all possible, unless harm is being done as well...and that is time to also throw in the towel.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/5/2005 7:46 pm

sincitybrunette - Liking your philosophy!!

Inominate563 - Ahhhhh... I always vowed never to go to bed angry. We would agree to disagree before going to bed and realize that our differences of opinions help us to be unique individuals which aid to the vibrancy of the marriage.

rm_CookieLips2 61M

8/5/2005 6:26 am

Disputes? I prefer to call them debates! I, for some reason, never stay mad at some one for very long. I can be ready to make up in 5 minutes and am usually the one who will apologize first, regardless of who started the debate in the first place. Life is too short to let the small stuff ruin your day. You know, a simple apology followed by "you are right" goes a long way. It is all about compromise.

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
8/5/2005 12:31 am

lol wouldn't know we have to have it out in the bedroom so as the kids don't over hear


ProtonicMan 47M

8/4/2005 9:17 pm

Sleep in the other room.
Move out.
Get a divorce.

I guess that's only three. Oh, you wanted helpful suggestions? Sorry...


Inominate563 45M
47 posts
8/4/2005 8:49 pm

it's hard to beat sincity's reply. you just both have to be mature and adult enough to realize that you can't agree on everything. there will be arguments. but you talk and work thru it. and always remember why you fell in love in the first place. sometimes i like the faults of the person i'm with as much as the good things. it's what make them unique is that five?

sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/4/2005 8:19 pm

first we made the agreement that it was natural to not always agree
second talk it out before it gets to that point
third don't ever not let him grope your tits
fourth have anger sex in the living room before bed time
and finally fifth have lots and lots of sex

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