The Man in My Dreams...  

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
5791 posts
6/20/2005 9:50 pm

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The Man in My Dreams...

"Classifieds, date lines: safer sex online.
My biological clock's playin' with my life.
Average Joes, reality shows.
I don't know.
Just when I think I've found the man of my dreams,
I realize, he's only in my dreams."

The Marrying Kind - Jessica Andrews

I think a lot of us come to AdultFriendFinder seeking that something special or extra to make our lives ever so much sweeter.

Through my AdultFriendFinder and its blogs, I have been fortunate to meet some incredible men -- men of varying interests; some just for a side thing from their relationship and some more for a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. I have also become friends with a variety of men and women online with the AFFblogs with varied interests which I love bantering with daily. Their insights intrigue me so.

I am not sure that I am going to meet the man in my dreams through AdultFriendFinder, but the journey sure is fun in the meantime.

How do you feel that your journey has been on AdultFriendFinder????

Somebody in the next car
Somebody on the morning train
Somebody in the coffee shop
That you walk right by everyday
Somebody that you look at
But never really see
Somewhere out there is somebody

Somebody - Reba McIntire

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/21/2005 5:48 pm

harshawj - I agree. We do need to make that happen. There was some talk of it... but, the subject matter just kind of dropped. There is another site that I blog on and they have an annual convention... sooo, there is no reason that we couldn't do the same.

We need to rise to the occasion and get a stink out about it so that maybe we can have it all lined up by this Fall... , if not sooner!!!

I think that if AdultFriendFinder was prevalient during the time that Kevin and I had met, we would have easily have met through this medium. It is soooo us!!

I think, too, that we shouldn't limit ourselves to the openess of only one avenue to meet that special someone that we all (deep down, truly) desires to meet. That one person that we can see sitting out on the backporch talking and watching the sunset, and finding the conversations just as interesting or more the next morning while watching the sun rises, day after day throughout the end of our lives as they will inevitably someday will come.

Things and people that continue to make you go hmmmmmmmmm....

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/21/2005 1:56 pm

keithcancook - Agreed!!

BTW... any new words about a Blogland convention stirring... I think it would be fabulous if we could all meet somewhere -- especially, the bloggers!!!


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/21/2005 1:52 pm

Lipator - Oh, I don't think I said I probably won't... b/c there is always that hope that maybe someone extra special is going to walk through that door that is opened through the AdultFriendFinder site. My last husband (subject of many of my blogs in the past) and I met through Yahoo Personals. By chance, it worked for us... and would probably have continued had not his life been cut short as well. I never give up the hope....

and in the meantime, I am having loads of fun!!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/21/2005 1:49 pm

74ShovelHD - That is a great attitude to have -- and are shared by many. In the meantime, enjoy life!! My uncle's was cut short when he was 44 years old by a heart attack. Although his life was cut short, I don't think if anyone were to be able to ask him today whether or not he had any regrets, I don't think he would have......

Lipator 56M
71 posts
6/21/2005 11:33 am

Like you Txrose I am sure that I will not find the woman of my dreams on this site, but like you say it is a wonderful forum for sharing ideas around and getting other peoples insites into the whole dating scene. I enjoy reading the blogs for that reason and it becomes more and more my focus as I journey through the site.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/21/2005 11:02 am

Cool, talldarkavg1. Hope you continue enjoying it!!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/21/2005 10:59 am

Cool, papyrina! Enjoy reading your blogs as well!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/21/2005 10:58 am

hotpleasure3624 - lol... no doubt!!! Me too!!!

keithcancook 60M
17865 posts
6/21/2005 9:18 am

It has been quite a metamorphasis for me considering my aims the first day I landed here and what has happened since. I am now here to blog. If I happen to cross paths with a local female as a result, then so much the better!

74ShovelHD 53M

6/21/2005 8:53 am

I joined here previously just for the sex... so I thought... and learned more about myself and what I wanted.

Since I rejoined, I'm more into the friendships, chatting, bloggin, etc., and having more fun. I've met a lot of nice people, which, if something ever happens, that's great, if not, that's fine too.

tattooedartist 44M

6/21/2005 7:25 am

ya know......

I came here looking for just plain fucking. Plain and simple. Ive found so, so much more.

Ive have been very fortunate and had the opportunity to meet in person a few delicate beauty's and made some wonderful online friends....yours truly being one of them...wink, wink. I never imagined this would come to much and I think alot of people are scared of my tattoos, or at least thats what ive been told but I banter on anyway, into the abyss of my own heart day after day. Hoping that someday I will meet my beauty, my love, my everything. Ive even made some male friends ive met with a few times for dinner and laughs. Its been great to be able to make male friends off of here, men who hold similiar interests and dont know any men to share them with.

I think this site is a blast. Ive still yet to meet the caliber of woman I am looking for....small minds I guess but I never give up or give in. Someday I will meet her and when I do, she will never go hungry any way.



rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
6/21/2005 7:04 am

What a wonderful place this is! I have been here a bit over a month and not only have I met some really wonderful and incredible people, I have been married 4 times already. Thank you AdultFriendFinder.

[blog talldarkavg1]

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
6/21/2005 6:48 am

i've developed more as a woman ,more open and honest,just as daft lol,and like you i have met many friends from here from all parts of the world,i enjoy it,i've found my bed mate and i'm here to stay

I'm a

i'm here to stay

hotpleasure3624 60F
19 posts
6/21/2005 6:16 am

I have lucky met some very nice men. One or two I hope will stay life long friends. One pretty much broke my heart but I'll get over it and meeting him was still worthwhile. I'm not sure if I will ever meet the man of my dreams anywhere. And if I walk passed him I hope I'm smart enough to recognize him.
Good Luck

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/21/2005 6:07 am

artistforexploit - Yes, the reward for openness & honesty is huge here. I have to agree that is a huge benefit!!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/21/2005 6:06 am

Mccartney2003 - I haven't had too many bad experiences -- especially in comparison to anything else I have ever tried in my lifetime... Have to concurr... this is an excellent venue!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/21/2005 6:02 am

mzhunyhole - Me too!!! I am having soooo much fun with this, and the opportunities it is opening up to getting to know people much better as well.... By the time I do meet them, it seems like we are old friends!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/21/2005 6:01 am

cajunpet - Well... I do need some help on a Texas project!

We are enjoying reading your blogs too.... Getting much more on the lighthearted side as you continue to blog...

Have a great day!!

artistforexploit 60M

6/21/2005 2:40 am

I am finding that I am meeting people who seem to care about what I think, and being a bit unconventionally forward about my intimaticy with life, it nice to know that I can make friends from all over the world. Even if I never make actual contact with anyone, the experience to be open & honest are rewarding enough.

Mccartney2003 38M
281 posts
6/21/2005 12:09 am

Had some wonderful expierences here. Met some great people.
I have found some great lovers and friend as my testimonials show.
Personally I love AdultFriendFinder as far as good connections go with other folks.
I have met some great friends thru the blogs both male and female.
All together good minus two bad expierences in meeting folks.

I rate it A-

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/20/2005 11:25 pm

missy973 - Guess I am a little picky like you are too....

I, too, have learned much about what I like and dislike about men in general. While I am receptive to what my "ideal" man may be, I find it difficult to have an analogy or listing of what I am looking for.

I have been on AdultFriendFinder only since the beginning of April. I think, though, that through AdultFriendFinder, I have become much more aware and open about my sexual interests, although I am careful to not put my AdultFriendFinder relationships on display through my blogs.

I agree... AdultFriendFinder seems to have taught many of us much more about ourselves and others....

hmmm... Thanks for your input!

cajunpet 70M
1185 posts
6/20/2005 11:19 pm

I have not found anyone here so far. Since I starting blogging, I have become freinds with many people, and some close friend. I am happy to just make new friends, and enjoy reading all of my friend blogs, and leaving comments. I especially enjoy reading your blogs with your creative and inquiring mind.

Take care.
Keep On Blogging!!!! Have a great day.

Cajun Pet

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/20/2005 11:18 pm

taodoug65 - well.... what I have had to a lady that was seeking advice from me at work the other day -- don't go looking for it necessarily, it will happen when it will happen (meeting that special someone). I told her that it is important to lay out the groundwork to allow that to happen though, as well as being receptive to meeting folks through various venues.

I like the AdultFriendFinder venue myself (I didn't tell her that though) because I find that there are more people willing to be risk takers though and offer that first chance of meeting... more so than most other venues I have been on.

Perhaps, you scared off someone by being a little too direct... but, for everyone that you might scare off by being too direct, I think that there is someone out there who might appreciate your directness. In the meantime, do keep blogging.

missy973 47F

6/20/2005 11:02 pm

"How do you feel that your journey has been on AdultFriendFinder???? "

Whoa. Deep question. I have learned a lot from my AdultFriendFinder relationships, only a very small part of it blogging. I have learned what I like and don't like in men. I could have learned it another way, and I could have learned it before. But because of my own circumstances, this is the venue that taught me so much about myself and others.

taodoug65 51M
262 posts
6/20/2005 10:42 pm

well, I will say that the short 2 + months I have been on AdultFriendFinder. I have had a ok time. I haven't been here probably 1/3 the amount of time as those I have met. Yet I have been doing chat networks since all the internet was a bulleting board. I think it is possible to meet that one person. Myself I had thought at one time I had finally hit the right number and found a young lady on AdultFriendFinder. That lived not far from me. But because of my nature to be direct.. It scared her away.. Do myself I have become content to just read, write, and answer blogs.

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