rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
5791 posts
8/2/2005 6:03 pm

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So many people interpret spoiling in soooo many ways.

What is your idea of spoiling?????

Just curious....

(liking to be spoiled!)

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/5/2005 9:01 pm

johndoe19691 - Ahhhh... that would help, most certainly!!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/3/2005 5:10 pm

johndoe19691 - That certainly sounds interesting....but, might it have a happier ending???? I love happy endings.....

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/3/2005 4:02 pm

CookieLips2 - lol.. I suppose that is where the phrase "spoiled rotten" comes from...

rm_CookieLips2 61M

8/3/2005 11:21 am

Spoiling? Isn't that what food does?

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/3/2005 9:36 am

triag916 - Boy, you had me drawn into your world until you said "Fix her car"....but, yes, even that can be spoiling. I had loved it when my husband had fixed my car so that I wouldn't have to take it to the shop and be gousted by the mechanics just b/c I was a woman. You do have the spoiling down good....

triag916 51M

8/3/2005 8:27 am

I don't think this is considered spoiling since I do it often and I just think its the right thing to do with my partner. I have a bath drawn and we would sit together washing and exploring each other. Depending on the time of day, candles would be lit throught the bathroom. Afterwards, I would oil her own and give her a deep tissue massage, and exploring her body. If she sleeps, I let her be. If not, well you know

Other things include having drink ready after a long day, foot/leg massages, or having a rose delivered out of the blue to her work.

but I think the greatest thing I do to spoil her is, Fix her car!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/3/2005 12:13 am

jim5131 - Ahhhh, yes! Isn't it a great feeling to be needed???? I am such an independent woman in many aspects (coming from being a single parent for many years); but, underneath it all, I always long for that attention that is given when I need it.

pASSionwantd2 - So you would feel spoiled in Las Vegas????

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/3/2005 12:10 am

lucytart - Yeah, sometimes, the things that don't cost a lot of money are the most important; of course, the trip sounds like a wonderful idea too!! If you had your preferences on places to go, do you have any idea where you would like for your man to take you on this trip???

B0SSIERBOY - All the simple stuff is essential and comes automatic in my books, although I wouldn't count on me setting you up with my best friend or having a three-some!!!

pASSionwantd2 50M
1316 posts
8/2/2005 10:55 pm

She Fly's Me out on a Private plane to Vegas',Has me Limousined to the Luxor,massaged at the spa.Then while having Drink's,I Try and think how she is really goin'to spoil Me...................

jim5131 55M
1296 posts
8/2/2005 10:07 pm

Spoiled? I LOVE spoiling..and the times that I've spoiled are the best memories that I have. Of the many, one comes to mind..

I had a fiance' that had a bone spur removed on her foot one Friday last year...she knew that she couldn't get around, etc. She made arrangements to have her three kids at her ex's house for the weekend. Funny thing is, all of her co-workers knew I was staying for the weekend 'to take care of her', despite her religious nature. I tended to her every minute. Loved it. Loooved it. We had weekends together before and they were memorable, but the whole 'needed' thing was a hidden ingredient that made the magic.

Cooking...cleaning...holding...long conversations... deep, intimate conversations...lovemaking..falling asleep in my arms..waking up in the middle of the night and making love again...waking her up in the morning by going down on her.......ahhhhhhh.........

476 posts
8/2/2005 9:52 pm

Okay, there's the simple stuff like rubbing my feet when they hurt, trim my nose hair when I didn't notice it sticking out, pick up my clothes and do my laundry.

Then there's the over the top stuff like blow me even though you don't feel like it, invite your best friend over to blow me when you don't feel like it, invite your best friend and your sister over for a three way when you don't feel like it.

Now that's being spoiled!

rm_lucytart 50F
590 posts
8/2/2005 7:54 pm

Nothing costly (well, ok, I can think of a bunch of things I'd love that are costly, but...). Just attention. A smile, a touch, a phone call, little things. Making special time for us. That's enough spoiling for me.

But if money's no object, then let's go on a trip, just the two of us, so I can be spoiled and pampered in style

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