Now AFF has truly offended me!!!  

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
5791 posts
8/4/2005 12:48 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Now AFF has truly offended me!!!

I have submitted an article on the AdultFriendFinder and often times it is also published on their sister sites... Asian Friend Finder, etc., etc......



They have also published my article in Lesbian Personals???? That is taking things a bit too far, I think, know, and feel. I am not a lesbian, never purported to be, etc....

I don't think that anyone ever reading my blogs would have ever gotten the idea, nor any of the guys I have actually met through AdultFriendFinder would have believed for a minute that I would like that lifestyle.

Why, then do they feel that they can publish my articles on their lesbian website?????


I am truly mad and ticked. Perhaps this is the reason I had a sixth sense feeling that something was terribly wrong!!!!

I am soooooo very fuming mad, I am beside myself right now. I am going to exit out of this site for now.... and try to go on my business for the day.....

I am truly offended....


I don't know if they realize how offended and mad I am right now.....



This has me soooo very ticked that I am ready to delete my blog today; however, I am going to take a couple days to think about it... and what can be done to rectify the problem.

If you, AdultFriendFinder, are reading this, you know how you can reach me.

Harshawj have you got your idea working yet???? I am ready to bail today, if you have your idea working today!!!

wanakissuallover 57M
411 posts
8/11/2005 4:08 am

That wasn't David Bowie who did that song, was it txrose?...or did he do China Doll?

Well, rose dear,"...ya gotta Fight, for your Right, ta"... Blah-ahg! lol Yep, it is funny how certain songs just pop into your head. lol

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/6/2005 7:13 am

mzhunyhole - You would know, if you were.... they send you an email.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/5/2005 9:25 pm

UPDATE: Tonight I received an email back from the Lesbian Personals publication/site and they said that I can go in and delete the article myself!!! hmmmmm... will try this in a while.

First, some popcorn!!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/5/2005 9:24 pm

smileguyqc - They send you emails telling you that they have approved your article to be published in "X" publication.... Thankfully, they have, at least, the courtesy to do that. Additionally, did you know that we can use the same login to these other sites???? Interesting....

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/5/2005 9:22 pm

SensuallyKatey - LOL... Who wrote the lyrics, "That's why I'm
turning Japanese I think I'm turning Japanese I really think so."??????? Funny, how certain tunes just pop into one's mind simply because someone mentions a statement... lol....

Thanks for helping me to de-focus!


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/5/2005 9:14 pm

redlipsprincess - Oh, I learned about that aspect long ago. Our articles being associated with penthouse and many more publications. It is just that, I feel, that we should have a say so in how we would like it filtered. It did so offend me to be published in the Lesbian personals when that is not my sexual orientation at all.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/5/2005 9:12 pm

interested13563 - I guess.... but, it doesn't make it right!!

wyvernrose - Awwww.... thanks! I needed that!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/5/2005 9:10 pm

DallasPhallus56 - This is true. Thanks!

WizardTim12 - Thank you. That is why I had to back away from it. I have simmered down now....and I am more relaxed. It was more the fact that it was in a sexual orientation that I did not care for being associated with rather than the fact that they have published it elsewhere too. It would be nice, if we say that we are straight, that they limit the publications to those appealing to straight folks. But, who is asking me???? lol...

smileguyqc 53M

8/5/2005 8:15 am

OOOOh Txrose... I wasn't even aware they did this with our articles, how did you find out?

(Princess Lips)

8/5/2005 1:07 am

if you google your handle, you will find links to many sister sites that you didn't blog on...
If everybody complains, they have to hear it...


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
8/5/2005 12:28 am

oh rose you poor thing here will give you a cuddle dear


interested13563 53M
2557 posts
8/4/2005 10:39 pm

Don't get so mad. It has happened to many people - without
any good explanation or justification.

rm_WizardTim12 50M
44 posts
8/4/2005 9:20 pm

I'm definitely sorry you had this problem, but please don't let it affect the big picture. I've only fairly recently started looking at your articles here, but I've very much enjoyed browsing. Perhaps the trick is trying to look at everything like the old saying, "Don't sweat the little stuff...and it's all little stuff".
The trick, of course, is that from time to time, we hit things that definitely DON'T feel like little stuff. I think what works for each person is probably unique to them, but for what it's worth, usually mentally "backing off" and looking at a problem almost as though it were someone else's usually settles me down, but your mileage may vary.

I don't know if part of what really bothered you is the idea of not having control over "your" work (seeing it appear where you didn't authorize it), but I agree with the gentleman who posted previously. Unless we publish and distribute things completely independently, there is always a situation where other people have some control over "our" stuff. I'm sorry it hit you like this, but please don't let it make you eliminate something you enjoy doing. I think that would be a real loss for everyone who has enjoyed interacting with you. Hang in there.

DallasPhallus56 60M

8/4/2005 8:08 pm

Rose, let it go, and please keep blogging. They're just desperate for material, and I doubt you'll have to go to bed with any women just because your article appeared there. When we put what we write out there, it's there for AdultFriendFinder to do whatever it pleases with it. It's part of the deal, not much different from being published for pay except the money isn't as good. So please hang in there, at least with your blog.

Putting myself in your place, I might not be overjoyed if what I write appeared in the gay section, but again, your sexual orientation is as clear as mine and in any case, no one can reach the "real" you unless you let them.

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