New Question - The Gift...  

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
5791 posts
1/3/2006 9:44 pm

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New Question - The Gift...

Although he announced that he was suddenly moving away with this woman to Orlando FL after he checks out the job market,

his gift that I had ordered FINALLY arrives in my mailbox today.

Q - Do I give the gift still to him eventhough he is abandoning me in Texas to live his life in Orlando FL?

Q - Would it even be appropriate for him to accept the gift after stating that to me?

What do you think? What would be the correct thing to do????

Just curious.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/9/2006 9:23 pm

Hmmm... could use the money to apply to daughter's new pants for her uniform at work. Hmmm....


rm_1SweetBitch 55F
8575 posts
1/6/2006 9:57 pm

I would not give it to him...take it back or save it for someone that is more worthy of it.

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

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rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/4/2006 5:03 pm

Han54boat - lol...Does that mean you wouldn't give someone their present to them... or just "Next!" if they give you none????


Han54boat 64M
11260 posts
1/4/2006 4:34 pm

NO Present ?* ?* ?*

Cum to my blog and respond. Have a great kissing fun time.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/4/2006 12:30 pm

Yeah, I do. I sent him an IM last night stating something to the effect, "Your Christmas present arrived. Do you still want it even though you are abandoning me in Texas and fleeing to FL???" lol....

So far, I haven't had an answer. It is possible that he hasn't seen the IM yet, but I think it does drive in the point without being vendictive.

(BTW, this site is a bit addictive, isn't it???)


Stay safe and warm..


fun4allin2006 53M
1583 posts
1/4/2006 11:45 am

I could tell you aren't that type, heck it seems your just the opposite. Things like this eat at me to the point where it seems it finally boil out. Weird, this is the first time I thought of it that way-Boy I like this site-anyhow as I was saying, it eats at me till I just feel I have to say something or do something. Nothing real confrontational just something that makes them know I am ticked. Well I hope you know what I mean. Just my thoughts.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/4/2006 9:17 am

fun4allin2006 - Actually, I don't want to see him at all - as strange at that might sound. I have never been a vendictive type of person. I know that what goes around, comes around and he'll get his just desserts.

For example, my first husband was very abusive towards me. I eventually was able to get away from him with our daughter and start a life together without him. He was a gambler and prided on his abilities (or inabilities at times) to gamble. I moved away with the help of my neighbors when he went to an all night poker game. From the time we departed (when our daughter was 18mos old) until daughter was 5 years old, he had very little to do with her; when she was 6 years old he signed termination of parental rights to avoid paying child support because he didn't want me to have any money to help support our daughter. Later, his girlfriend he lived with ended up cheating on him -- and, not only ran off with her new boyfriend, but also took every bit of his retirement money that had and sunk it into their new home that she and her boyfriend would share.

I didn't have to do one vendictive thing in the process.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/4/2006 8:46 am

nedthebundler - True. It just seems so unChristian and mean to do that. Funny. As I wrote that, it hit me that he WAS mean to me. At the same time though, do two wrongs make a right????

Does it make me a bigger person for not giving the gift than giving the gift anyways???

fun4allin2006 53M
1583 posts
1/4/2006 8:19 am

Txrose: As ned said, I would either use it or send it back. Just my thought, but I tend to be the one that gets even and holds grudges. My mother always said I was vindictive, besides you don’t need to spend money on Mr Wrong. I KNOW it is hard as you probably want to see him again and ask him why.

nedthebundler 56M/59F

1/4/2006 6:33 am


If you can't use it yourself, then just send it back. No point in giving to the the ungrateful...

Madness takes its toll. Exact change please!

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