Just thinking about my babah!!!  

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
5791 posts
7/4/2005 5:12 pm

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Just thinking about my babah!!!

Hee hee... It won't be long now b/4 we meet in the flesh.... WOW! It is so very amazing....

Yes, mzhunyhole and jayR63, I will heed y'all's advice and proceed cautiously..... somehow, I do believe that this guy is wholesomely different. I don't believe that every guy out there is a snakeoil salesman...and, if he turns out to be, we'll create a blog about snakeoil salesmen in AdultFriendFinder so that the AdultFriendFinder community can well be aware -- okay????

However, words cannot describe the intensity our relationship has grown throughout the last few weeks even. It is so amazing how much I am drawn to this man.... how he seems equally, or more, drawn to me. We share so much of the same interests, etc; however, where we do differ, it just makes us uniquely different and very much the same at the same time. WOW!

Both of us are of us are spontaneous insofar as, for example, hopping in our cars and just travelling to who knows where for a day trip and the like. We are both going out of our comfort zones to meet someone in the flesh that is over 1,000 miles from one another.

Are we crazy? Are we insane? What can we be thinking about? How could this even work when people have tough enough time making a relationship work even if they are just a few hundred miles apart -- much less a thousand miles apart!!!

ANYHOW, one step at a time. We have the flight itinery...we have made some plans to visit...and are going to try to keep our weekend as simple and special as possible. Who knows what will happen after that point in time... but, I think I share his sentiment that we are both hoping and praying that this will only be a start to a very beautfiul relationship that will last a lifetime for years to come.

Pray that that guiding star that is drawing us closer and closer to one another will have worked its miracles.

We are both being crazily spontaneous in going for it -- if we don't, we may have our regrets and we will never ever know whether our soulmate is possibly looking "under that same bright star".

Have a great evening.....y'all!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/5/2005 1:04 pm

brandnewman2003 - I hope and pray that you are so very right!!

mzhunyhole - We are trying to keep the plans simple -- especially in this heat!! We are both really excited about the adventure.... his voice puts me to ease each and every day.

papyrina - Thank you... I think that we just might!!!

You got it, lucytart! I have to work on Sunday so I won't be able to spill and beans until Monday evening at the earliest -- that is, if he doesn't do it first!! hee hee...

cumtounge44 - I have a feeling that we will......

silvertongue65 - You are probably at a unique situation in this matter; however, don't jinx us -- okay. Keep it all hush, hush... shhhh... I do appreciate your confidence in the matter, though. Keep your fingers crossed....

silvertongue65 52M
31 posts
7/5/2005 12:25 pm

Rose... don't worry about it. You're no more crazy than a lot of us online. And don't worry about your 'beau'.. if he's anything like you describe, and I might be fore-sighted on this subject, I think the two of you will be F I N E together

rm_lucytart 50F
590 posts
7/5/2005 9:45 am

mmmm Now this is a fantasy I really like, and it's cuming true!

I'll give you the same advice I give all my friends. Be careful, and have fun. And tell us all about it!

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
7/5/2005 3:09 am

just be your self,relax and enjoy

I'm a

i'm here to stay

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/4/2005 10:31 pm

ProtonicMan - Thanks, TJ, for the advice. Advice well taken. I am being real as real can be. I have not yet even consider being someone who I am not....and, I don't think that he has either.....which has been the part of what has been truly amazing.

We have revealed some deep secrets about one another and that certainly takes a lot of trust in one another and we are STILL wanting to see each other so very badly.....

Amazing... truly amazing!

Keep your fingers crossed for us!!!


ProtonicMan 48M

7/4/2005 8:42 pm

Wow! I'm excited for you. The early stages of a relationship are SOO OOO intoxicating.

Now for some unsolicited advice, which you are free to read, ignore, or delete as you wish.
Be true to yourself. I suspect that this will be less of a problem for you than it was for me when I started a long distance relationship (LDR). Whatever you do, don't lose yourself. One of my problems was that I didn't know myself well enough, and I gave up who I was to be what I thought the other person wanted. I'm doing that work on myself now.

When my LDR started, the phone bills were a bit daunting, and national cell phone plans hadn't been invented yet. If you don't have one already, get a cell phone plan with unlimited evening minutes. In time, you might even consider getting one of those "family plans" where you can talk to family members with no restrictions.

Enough of the advice. Have fun. Be yourself. Go for it. If you don't, you will have regrets. If it works out, wonderful! If it doesn't, you will have had an adventure.

(((hugs))) and best of luck,

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