How much do your friends know????  

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
5791 posts
7/15/2005 11:26 pm

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How much do your friends know????

Today, I was helping a friend of mine out today with some corporate reports and then he took me to get gas in my car and out to eat at his fav hole in the wall mexican food place. (He is soooo predictable that way... he has his fav breakfast, chinese, pizza, and mexican food places and all you have to say is "I am hungry for Mexian food" and suddenly you know where you are heading b/c there is only one choice according to him. lol....)

Well... today he was particularily frisky...and reached up for my nipples and twisted them... playfully....teasing me... (we had tried to have a sexual relationship at one point in time but he kept seeing his ex...and wouldn't ever let me kiss him... so I looked elsewhere for my sexual fulfillment and cut him off long ago).

On the way back from lunch, he was teasing me and wanting me to take my top off while I am driving...saying that I would never do such a thing....

and I LAUGHED at him!!

He has noooooo idea what my limits are...and may never no what they are...

he hasn't seen any of the photos that I have posted here....

he hasn't read my blogs...

he doesn't even know that my blogs are #2 in the world.....

etc., etc....

Do your friends know what you are up to????
Do your friends have a clue about the extent of your sexuality????

rm_lucytart 50F
590 posts
7/19/2005 11:21 am

They have absolutely no idea...

I wonder if that's a good thing?

On the other hand, casual comments from girlfriends have led me a lot of interesting places, sexually. European birth control (IUD), fun with blow-jobs, even the fine art of shaving... taken together, quite interesting. But my friends see me as very innocent - they always have.

How wrong they are!

DallasPhallus56 60M

7/18/2005 12:04 pm

Only one friend, a very close old friend, knows anything about what I do on here, and he doesn't know about the blog, only occasional stories about the women. Sometimes he'll call when I'm "busy" and I won't answer, and he'll ask later what I was up to. I never tell him much detail; men don't seem to do that with each other.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/17/2005 8:10 pm

mieze626 - Nice to have a secret garden of sorts, eh???

Something_G00D - lol... a dirty little secret???

yagottalikit - No shame, woman???

pussinboots4u - lol... My Dad would be saying, "What would your Grandma think???" ....

anacortes - Are you sure????

rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
7/17/2005 9:53 am

"cut off"

Rose!.. CUT ME OFF..

Namaste.. Frederick

pussinboots4u 50M/47F

7/17/2005 8:05 am

My best friend knows that we swing - she's not too thrilled about it and states that just about every time I mention it (not directing judgement at me, but definately judging people we play with). She doesn't know the full extent of it - she doesn't know I'm bi, about the couple play, or about the 3somes. I never give her the sexual details, but she hears the stories of the new people I am meeting, some of the good and some of the bad (for someone that doesn't approve - she sure does love the stories).

My husbands best friend (and one of mine as well) knows(hell, he was the first person that we experimented this lifestyle with) and I can tell him everything. It's so great to have an actual person that I can tell all these experiences to.

Then there are 2 dance clubs that we frequent - often meet new people from AdultFriendFinder there for drinks. We have quite a group of friends and aquiantances from those 2 places and it is pretty apparent that we swing - they are my little playground.

Other than that, I don't think anyone else knows - definately no family members know.

yagottalikit 49F
583 posts
7/17/2005 5:40 am

I am who I am and those around me are fully aware! I have NO shame!

Yagotta get it soft and wet so we can kick/stick it

Something_G00D 32F
2 posts
7/17/2005 2:41 am

Yeah, I think my friends would freak out a bit if they knew I was so kinky... I keep the absolute sexual side of me to myself. although if it came down to it, there are a couple people I could tell.
but it's nice to keep a dirty little secret

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/17/2005 1:25 am

redswallow777 - the fun of life's little secrets, ehhh????

redswallow777 48M
6810 posts
7/16/2005 11:10 pm

Mmmm....good question. My mate knows I spend a lot of time on here and one other male friend knows I am on AdultFriendFinder. Other than that it is my little secret....and that's just fine.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/16/2005 5:39 pm

alice593 - As a general rule... my friends don't have any idea. lol... Sometimes, I feel as though I live a double life b/c they truly have no clue. Hmmmm....

rm_mieze626 52F
145 posts
7/16/2005 1:22 pm

only a few know, and those who know think it is cool. one of my friends would join if she has a computer, but can't use the one at work of course. in reference to the extent of my sexuality, there r only 2 people who really know. i don't make it other people's business...only if it would come that far that they allowed to enter my secret garden, lololol....

alice593 71M

7/16/2005 9:32 am

You are right, I have a lot of friends; but a lot of them don't know what I really like for enjoyment. But a lot do know I am going to have a sex change (all though not total, due to being married), due to things that I have found out recently, and all are backing me up 100%. Yes bloggers that read this, I found out I haven't been a total man physically all these years, until recently. Getting old, and finding out new things about myself even. LOL Have to have humor in it, in order to maintain myself psychologically.

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