How did you meet your former/current LTR/spouse???  

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
5791 posts
7/12/2005 7:27 pm

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How did you meet your former/current LTR/spouse???

Just curious....

how do people meet their spouses or LTR partners these days?

how many have been internet meeting success stories?

how many have been like strangers happening to meet?

how many have felt that fate has been involved?


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/13/2005 10:12 pm

anacortes - Hmmm.... If you are one making all those winks... I just wonder how far you are wandering in that story of yours???


rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
7/13/2005 6:00 pm

I met the person I married when I was far away in Germany with the Army..Hope you service guys can verify this.. it gets awful lonely in a far off land.
I was sober at a Christmas party held in the O Club in the Bad Kanstat US Army Hospital. It was there I stepped on the food of a young German civilian employee.. We started to get acquainted and she allowed me to escort her to her room. Inside we began our "loving".. oh those days.. such a thrill to feel a breast..clothed or otherwise.

I guess you have heard "non-American" girls are liberated.. Well, on the second date ( really the first real date) I was parking at the Old Log Inn.

That was all she wrote.. mates.. help me out on this.. wink


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/13/2005 7:24 am

tommynsuzie - I most certainly will keep that in mind! Best of continued luck to you and your lover!!

alice593 - Ahhh.. okay... so hence the name Alice? That makes perfect sense now. Just curious, I have never really asked anyone who was in this transitioning phases -- what are your reasonings? Obviously, you are struggling with this issue b/c you keep saying IF this happens. Just curious for your reasonings behind it.

freetime648 - Sooooo, is this San Antonio man, the one you are with in Germany???? Since, I am from San Antonio, should I be looking in Whichita Falls???? just kidding!! lol....


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/13/2005 7:16 am

jim5131 - I am a also a firm beleiver of Yahoo Personals, since that is where I had met Kevin. However, I like the idea of being able to find someone here that truly enjoys having sex as much as I do. And, I do believe that fate had brought Harshawj to me during the past month. While the LTR may not be there as we had hoped, in a sense it is because we are very good friends still.ate had brought our souls together for a purpose. I am not sure that we fully grasp what that purpose is just yet, but we had a great time meeting and enjoy still being friends.

_QT_ - Well,thank you for FINALLY starting to make comments on it (j/k with you), although you might have made one or two earlier when I started my blog. WOW! You certainally have a great testimony to love...and love through AdultFriendFinder... and love knowing no boundaries! You will certainly have to keep us posted. Why don't you have a blog yet???? You most certainly should and keep us posted on your LTR!!! Thanks for your support and inspiration...


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/13/2005 7:08 am

keithcancook - Awww... don't ever give up. My beau had given me some renewed hope that it could certainly very much happen.

Ana_6973 - But, why, Ana??? If they found you your last serious b/f???

DaphneR - Hmmmmm.... where in Texas is he????


freetime648 52F

7/13/2005 5:23 am

I met my hubby on the internet. He was in San Anotnio and I in Wichita Falls and we met online. When he got back to WFalls, we met and the rest is proverbial history!!!!!


xx FREETIME648 xx


alice593 71M

7/13/2005 1:19 am

My first marriage-I met her through her dad, with whom I worked with. That ended in a divorce, when she ran around with a guy when I was working two jobs. She thought she liked him better, so asked for a divorce. She married him, and he ended up beating her when he got drunk. She called me up, wanting me back, but I told her I found someone better.
My second marriage was through a dating service- It lasted 26 years until she died, when diabetes finally took its toll on her. See, I did meet a gal better than my first wife.
My third wife I met on the computer- We were married July 24, 2004. We had a trying time, which is stated in my profile. I forgave her for what she did, but it has become an open marriage. We promised each other not to divorce each other. But since what happened happened, it seems we have more fun times together. So bad things can spawn good things. Another reason for the open marriage idea, is because I am planning on transgendering due to physical changes. If I do, I may not provide the proper satisfaction in sex to her (though I am not totally transgendering due to being married). If that happens, then I am allowing her to have men friends to get the proper satisfaction.


tommynsuzie 73M/67F
1 post
7/13/2005 12:30 am

I met my lover of seven years on a phone personals line. I can't be sure about fate. I do know I was just about to give up on finding a lover but gave it one more try. I also had a friend who was heavy into the AAA idea of turning every thing over to a higher power. I did just that. I asked God to sent me the person I needed. Bam less than 2 weeks later, I met Tom. Who knows why things happen, fate, luck or prayer. It can't hurt. If it works just remember to be very vocal in one thanks to what ever the source. Sue


jim5131 55M
1296 posts
7/12/2005 11:10 pm

I did it over two years ago on YahooPersonals....and I'm still there, by the way. She joined and started emailing..I had about six other women I was emailing at the time but no real contacts were taking hold...I had no idea what she looked like. After a month of long, detailed emailing, I finally got her to call me. She came over to the house shortly afterward ....and she was gorgeous as well as a woman of tremendous depth. We fell for each other quickly...but the 'nuts and bolts' of the relationship wouldn't fit together and we broke it off after three broken wedding dates. We are still good friends, she's in my blog...

Fate? Absolutely. No chance happenings in this lifetime, sweetheart.


rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
7/12/2005 10:41 pm

Last somewhat long term (6 years) was actually someone I did meet on the internet. Too bad he moved to Texas a couple years ago. Want his number?

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


Ana_6973 43F

7/12/2005 10:25 pm

I met my last serious boyfriend through friends. Same friends have been told they are never allowed to fix me up with anyone ever again.

~~"I can scream as loud as your last one, but I can't claim innocence."~~


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
7/12/2005 10:03 pm

Recently, I have been using a seer to help direct me to my future partner. As with all my other ideas, this one has proven ineffective too.

Next up is a church social. If that doesn't work I think I will try some volunteer work in the community. After that I will give up and enter the priesthood.


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