Dear Abby - "a little spanking between adults"?  

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
5791 posts
8/1/2005 3:44 pm

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Dear Abby - "a little spanking between adults"?

After having had posted Saturday the blog about spanking, I was quite humored to see that DEAR ABBY had also approached the topic in their column on Sunday. In fact, it made the headlining question to be answered!!! "What's a little spanking between adults?"

One of our Canadian friends had sent in the question with regard to fulfilling a fantasy of her beau wanting to be spanked and finding that they had rather enjoyed it but was also questioning the relationship to having never been spanked as a child (which I found interesting because I had only been spanked once by my father for laughing at my sister for getting stung by wasps after she had sprayed their nest with water, after my telling her specifically not to do so).

ANYHOW, they responded by stating, "Because you both enjoy it, I see no reason not to continue the relationship. Whatever happens between consenting adults in the privacy of their bedroom, as long as it hurts neither one, is no one else's business, including mine."

Too funny. It seems that they really don't want to know too much, or as the teens would say, "TMI!!"

What about you?

Do you feel that there is any correlation to the enjoyment of spankings to the fact that in their childhood that they may or may not have received spankings??????

What are your thoughts????


rm_handle1852 44F
1 post
11/9/2005 5:25 am

iwas spanked as a child quite frequently.....it really turns me on but not an easy subject to bring up when you meet a man.


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/2/2005 7:00 am

pASSionwantd2 - That is pretty bad that you had a paddle with your own name on it... guess they just anticipated you being bad?????? lol... or, were you bad b/c you knew you had your own paddle???? lol....


pASSionwantd2 50M
1316 posts
8/1/2005 11:16 pm

When I grew up in the LA unified school district in the late 70's they allowed paddling,just figure's when I move they Ban it. I used to have a paddle with my Name on it,OUCH!!!!!!


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/1/2005 6:29 pm

travelingintexas - Hmmm... were you a bad boy growing up???? lol...


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/1/2005 5:43 pm

ANewLevel4Us - Yeah, finding a suitable picture was hard b/c typically when people talk about spanking they think of the hard whacks...and that isn't what I was talking about either......

I have had towel sting fun with my ex-husbands... and a lot of fun indeed - especially, when one ends up in the bed after all the laughing and running after each other....


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/1/2005 5:04 pm

Petalsoftness - Hmmmm.. wondering if Freud ever touched on this type of thing in his works?????


ANewLevel4Us 38M/37F

8/1/2005 5:00 pm

I just posted to my blog a few days ago about the spanking adventures I've been having with my husband. It's not your typical spanking - when I tried finding a suitable picture to put with my post, I found a lot of bruised, angry red bottoms. Now, when we have done it... it's more like snapping a towel at each other's backsides. I don't know if that is considered spanking in the literal sense... or just playful locker room style arse snapping.

Hourglasses... if you can tolerate a little sting, try it. It's rather fun.


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/1/2005 4:40 pm

frbnkslady - a wooden spoon??? OMG... and, they would call that child abuse these days!!!

hourglasses - might be worth exploring....especially, if it is done in the loving manner....not as a punishment....


Petalsoftness 64F

8/1/2005 4:35 pm

Freud would have probably found a connection between the authoritave Father pulling down the panties of the naughty little girl or the oedipus concept of Mother baring Jrs buns. Being Canadian.. *G* .in all liklihood. ( that word doesnt look right but you know what I mean) the lil buggers probably just deserved a good whooping.. ! Laffin ..P


hourglasses 47F

8/1/2005 4:31 pm

hmmm maybe. I was spanked all the time as a child (by both parents) and I have no desire to be spanked now. But honestly, I've never tried it as an adult so who knows.


frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
8/1/2005 4:05 pm

LMAO, I doubt it.. when I got spanked,.. I highly deserved them.. grandma had a wooden spoon.. and I don;t recall liking it too much.. T

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