AFF Motivation?  

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
5791 posts
7/12/2005 8:06 pm

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AFF Motivation?

Yes, I know that this is a "sex and swinger personals" site, however, it is clear from the bloggings that not everyone is here to be a cumslut, cheap trick, or the such for one night stands or short term relationships; some hear for the bigger picture reasons.

I, myself, look through here for someone interested in a LTR who truly enjoys the harmonious pleasures of sex, but I know that my motivations may not rank amongst the highest motivation factors on this site.

What is your motivation? Do you share my goal or are you just trying to seek out as many sexual scenarios as you can????

Very curious....

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/16/2005 5:50 pm

ProtonicMan - Why, thank least, I hope that was a compliment!! hee hee.... I think that you are right.... things do change as you go through this process on AdultFriendFinder...I have found myself growing a lot more because of it in a unique way...... I am still trying to find out the answer why I am here...

ProtonicMan 47M

7/16/2005 7:28 am

I'm here for the... Now, just why AM I here? I think it has changed a bit over time.

I joined because I was horny and hoping to hook up with someone. That hasn't happened, but I might have more luck if I actually try contacting more women. I got frustrated when the few I e-mailed didn't reply.

I'm not looking for an LTR or marriage partner, but if the right person comes along I won't ignore the possibility.

Lately, I found the blogs and I'm really enjoying reading all the stuff you interesting people have to say. (I don't read the blogs by the boring people. )


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/15/2005 9:43 pm

mi_mwpm - Oh, me too...

mi_mwpm 51M

7/14/2005 10:35 am

Originally, I was here for the varying scenarios, but that wore thin after only a couple of them. I prefer a long-term playmate/friend rather than a series of one-nighters.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/13/2005 8:09 am

alice593 - I am sorry that you have had such a rough time lately. Is this what has motivated you to be on AdultFriendFinder????

EvilMuppet69 - I am with you on that philosophy!!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/13/2005 6:50 am

hotandhorny107 - And there is nothing wrong with that. I, too, have experienced all that you have during the going on, now, four months that I have been with AdultFriendFinder; however, my ultimate goal, is to find that LTR that I so want and desire.

_QT_ - Yep. I am not sure how I got here, but I am glad I did check it out. It is amazing what you can stumble onto when you are surfing the net! Even so, I am so happy to hear that you also found your LTR through AdultFriendFinder. That so definately gives me hope that I, too, will find mine! Thanks!!!

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/13/2005 6:44 am

JasonFlirting - So basically, you are just a cammer. Hmmm... Glad to see though that you enjoy reading our blogs as well. I think most of us have a good array of topics, don't you think? Any topics you would like to see covered in the future???

GoldenGirlisBack - You are welcome. Hmmm... so just the sex, just the sex -- right???

keithcancook - I know what you mean, although I do have hope. The third AdultFriendFinder member I met was a good relationship though while it lasted, but he wanted to be a dominator and was afraid of hurting me at the same time. Strange. We saw each other for about a month and stopped by him soon after he wanted me to call him Daddy instead of Babah. The whole past month of excitement into the possibility that a true LTR was going to come to pass for Beau and me was very exciting indeed...and, in a sense, it did b/c we are remaining very good friends as a result. I do have hope that it will happen though. One of the things about this site is that I have hopes of finding a man for a LTR who really truly enjoys having sex as much as I do!

EvilMuppet69 37M
89 posts
7/13/2005 4:47 am

I prefer something long term. It's safer, and you can only get better as you get to know each other.

rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
7/13/2005 3:56 am

What a blessing AdultFriendFinder has been.. I used to wander thru chat rooms looking for a kindred spirit.. now, I realize AdultFriendFinder allows us to reach out and touch the world..

The most thrilling AdultFriendFinder experience has been a trip of thousands of miles to meet a lady and spend a few days with her.. since then, we have had a very special kind of love..

Namaste.. keep looking and you shall find..

alice593 71M

7/13/2005 1:37 am

Wellllllllll, My wife had an affair, so after talking with her, she told me I could do the same. In other words, we opened our marriage. But I would be happy to have just one female friend to have affairs with. I never had an affair before, so it is kind of awkward for me. I may just want a woman to be friends with. If that happens, and down the road she wants sex, then I would oblige. But if anything happens like last weekend, I may give up on the idea. It just proved how awkward I was. A misstatement killed a friendship too quickly. I wish I could apologize to her, but she blocked me out. I meant no wrong with what I said. I was just asking a question, that I had on my mind when I saw her. She answered me, and when she explained I had accepted her explaination. I think I told her that, but the damage was done.

hotandhorny107 58F

7/12/2005 11:14 pm

I am here to find new friends and friends with benefits. I like the benefits part and have found people willing to share themselves with me. Some are just buddies, someone to talk to late at night when nothing is going on. Others can be just a one time thing and one in particular has become a long term thing. All the people I talk with or am intimate with know that I am playing the field safely and with caution. Best way to describe it is I am sowing some wild oats as my Grandmother used to say....

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
7/12/2005 9:57 pm

I desire a LTR, but I do not search for it on here. Therefore, I blog here rather than seek quick pleasure. If I happen upon somebody from here then so much the better!

GoldenGirlisBack 42F

7/12/2005 9:19 pm

I appreciate this opportunity.
I view sex as the high road...
A beautiful gift through my own experience
not one to share by the many, only few
I am here, my dear to destroy the window
shopping, No I'm not into bar hopping
frenzy abroad.
I like to fuck, suck and put my mind to work
so long as the entertainment is worthy
of the all that I graciously give.

that's why I'm here
and thankyou so much
for finally sharing
what I truly needed
to share from the get go!

JasonFlirting 43M

7/12/2005 8:51 pm

I actually never expect to meet anyone from AdultFriendFinder in person for sex, but I enjoy the discussions and people I have met here. I'm enjoying learning what other's sexual fantasies and motivations are, and just getting to know people.

And if I get a chance to turn on the webcam and cyber with someone(s) then that's all good too!

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