Tips on getting started?  

rm_twoseeks1 39M/36F
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10/5/2005 11:01 am

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Tips on getting started?

Hey Everyone. Welcome to our first blog. We'll have pictures up soon enough, for now it's all about deciding whether this is for us or not. Appreciate your comments.

As posted in Ontario MFF, Capital Sex, Ottawa no Strings and newbies in Ottawa groups...

My wife and I have been intrigued by the swinging lifestyle for a while now. Recently, we have agreed to start looking around and see what it's like. The big one here is both her and I want another woman, definately not a man. We are unsure how we will react in this situation and are hesitant to join any M&G or parties at the B&B and other similar establishments.

We're thinking of starting by going out to a strip club(s) and getting a few private dances each to gauge the level of openess. Does anyone know any club in the ottawa area to recommend where the dancing might be a bit more provocative (possibly include intimate touching) and give us an idea of whether to pursue or not?

Or perhaps even a party friendly to newcommers, to chat, socialize, familarize ourselves with the people and go from there if something were to hit off, without pressure to include another man in our trio and/or coming off as just another "all talk"?

Any groups on this site, mirc chat channels, msn contact resources that are available where we can talk freely with others and get comfortable with the whole thing.

If there are open minded single bi/bi-curious females out there willing to chat / eventually meet with us, even couples where only the woman participates we'd be glad to hear from you. In both cases I have no object being merely an observer for my wife, until specifically requested to participate.

Guess that pretty much covers all new-commer questions in one post Looking foward to getting to know the lot of you.

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