No photo's for good reason  

rm_tweety305 41F
22 posts
10/19/2005 1:45 pm

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No photo's for good reason


Being a previous member, i had some trouble from another member and decided to cancel my membership.I rejoined as i still feel that this site has more to offer and i will in time upgrade to being a silver member again. I have just had the courage to take a very hidden pic of myself as i do find this helps to attract people...and have only done this today.But i find it a little sad that i have not had much of a response because of lack of photo's...or maybe its because i am only a standard member. When i was a silver member i still contacted standard unpictured members as i felt maybe there was a good reason for them to not include any pics. I know ppl want to see pictures but i have stated i am willing to provide these as so have most of the unpictured members have done. I would like to know what others think about this.....maybe im being a little naive!!! Thanks for reading everyone!!
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rm_Sierra7770 86M
4 posts
10/19/2005 2:56 pm

Dear Tweety,

I have also posted one of my blogs about the photos, tho I am of the opposite viewpoint.
I also am against the policy on this site of having, as a gold member, to pay another $9plus so Standard Members can contact me......

I think all posts should have photos...like I explained in my blog, I think its like going to a dance....do we go with a bag over our heads??? And, if you are playing a risky game if you are married or otherwise committed but want to play games, then I would say..."If you can't do the time, don't do the crime."

Good Luck to you, Tweety
Sierra7770


rm_tweety305 41F

10/19/2005 4:11 pm

Thanks sierra i appreciate your point of view. But as i said before i was a silver member before and had 5 pics to prove who i was. But due to the fact i had a rather scary and unfortunate meeting with someone who is still a member i want to attract the people but feel i cant really do that with the pics i had before...so resorted to pics concealing the top half of my face!!
I am a married woman but my husband is 100% supporting me in my quest to find a female 'friend'....its not like i am going behind his back with a man and he has access to this site. We are 100% truthful with eachother and have one of the strongest marraiges i know of.
Its sad that i feel i need to 'hide' my identity but this person i would like to avoid.I also know this is one of the better sites to meet someone. Maybe im just over reacting but its just the way i prefer it to be at the moment, things might be different in a month or so. But thanks for replying...and good luck to you as well in finding what you are looking for!


rm_pchamp012004 55M
2672 posts
10/19/2005 4:37 pm

Alot of the members have gone with pics of just their eyes, I find these pics intriguing and you would not be able to recognize someone grom an eye pic.


rm_sexybum46 43M/38F

10/20/2005 8:18 am

hi were of the same opinion as your self and have loads of pics on our profile but as like your self have had very bad experiance whitch im not going into on site but it cost me !! and as were silver members find it a cheek that we have to pay just so we can be contacted bye standard members ................. but we dont go on looks so much as personality .. it seems to work 4 us but have had sum really nasty coments from couple s about my guy thats y i play with fems alone no guys regards j / j ( sexybum46) xxxxxxxxxxxxx


rm_1979spirit 54M
1 post
10/21/2005 10:44 am

No need to feel guilty , do what you feel happy with.I dont have a face photo to prtect my identity (not that I am famous or anything) I just feel better that way so you go girl and do what you like and more power to you and all those other cliches hehe. say hello if you see me online one day. Stay Safe
"Justifcation is the last refuge for the coward" P.O'C 10/05


AmberSolaire 42M

10/21/2005 6:46 pm

Theres always time for pictures later.If you connect who needs pics.That said pchamps eyes idea is pretty good.

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revrse69 46M

10/23/2005 12:06 am

I'm still trying to figure out what to do for a picture myself. Picture's are important as looks do play a part. If you are willing to send pictures later. I don't see a problem doing it that way either. Just do what makes you feel comfortable and safe


rm_paulus247 39M
301 posts
10/28/2005 5:19 am

Hi Tweetypie,

Sorry to hear about that freak who was bothering you.
Personally when i search on this site, i don't bother looking at profiles without a picture - (i am also a standard mem). I don't know if this applies to every guy searching for girls. If you are going to do a picture, i would suggest go for a body shot- this way you grab attention but also ensure your anominity. You have done the right thing starting a blog as this can help you attract attention.
Just make sure that if you are going on a meet with someone, ensure they send you plenty of photos first- maybe insist they do somthing different in each photo which shows that it is really them.

Good luck


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