How many are in this boat???  

rm_tulum728 54M
3 posts
9/7/2006 10:07 am

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10/23/2006 8:15 pm

How many are in this boat???


It seems life is going by slowly. Much introspection these days. I use to take the bull by the horns, but now it seems that i simply go wherever lifes currents drag me. Every once in awhile I'll reach over the side and with my hand try to change course.....be the master of my own destiny, but i seem to tire quickly. Life has gone in auto pilot and feel less connected with life's journey. I try to explain this to my wife, but not often. She tends to take it all personally and get defensive. What's happened to the good old days of spontaneity?? Sex use to be like that long ago...but now it never happens. I find myself looking at women wondering if there isn't one out there who still likes to shake things up.....wearing no panties and wishing someone would entice her for a quickie in the elevator or fitting room. Not a word spoken , just sultry looks that say "come follow me.......you know what i want....lets enjoy an unspoken time together of spontaneous bliss". Is this thinking just a matter of frustration or some mid-life crisis. Like my first wet dream I didn't know what the hell was going on and kinda freaked although the experience was pleasureable. Now I don't know what the hell is going on but hate the feeling. How many people are in this boat? And what do you do about it??

cookiequeen1000 53F

9/7/2006 11:55 am

I was there. My solution was divorce, nothing else worked. Its not a solution for everyone. Good luck working it out.


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