I have a question...  

rm_trulydivyn 53F
98 posts
5/30/2005 7:12 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

I have a question...

I was wondering how long it would take to get reviewed on this posting! Looks like I have to edit a few things...

Has anyone else been approached on this site by "working" girls who are interested in encounters and want payment? I know someone else has, and I wondered if anyone has any suggestions how to stop this problem?

It's not unusual to see or hear about other members getting approached, along with myself, for some kind of encounter that has to be paid for. I was approached by a female who wanted to have my "generosity" for helping me with a 3way for a friend of mine...

This TOTALLY RUINS THE EXPERIENCE FOR ME!

I fully understand that everyone has to make a living, but if you gotta pay for it, wouldn't it be just as satisfying to masturbate for free? If you're lonely and need companionship, get away from your computer and GO OUTSIDE!

Is there anyone out there who feels the same way? I certainly am not going to pay for sex, and if a man were to be bold enough to offer, he'd better be prepared to stick around for the end result.

Let me know your thoughts on this subject...


problklover 53M/F

5/30/2005 5:42 pm

Sadly, I have had the same experience. I can not tell you the number women seeking giving or generous men. If I have to give you $$$ to spend time with you, no dice. The phase gold digger comes to mind. That does not mean that a guy can not pay for the date, nor does that mean a woman can not pay for the date either. But if an income statement is a requirement for a date, then maybe this is not the right person for Me.

everyone does have a right to make a living, but to use a site like this to do it is very wrong. All it would take is a sting or two and this site would be shut down. Sadly, AdultFriendFinder needs to take a much strong approach to this before it gets out of hand.


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