rm_truedom2 55M
323 posts
5/19/2006 4:06 am

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9/17/2006 6:46 am


I don't do well with drama.
When I have a problem I don't dwell on it....I solve it and move on.
I don't understand why people have to make issues out of shit.
We as humans are going to face way to many issues in our lives to let any one of them alter our attitude towards life itself.
I see so many people making mistakes dealing with crap issues over and over because they can't get beyond the drama of the issue.
They become beaten down and worthless in all decisions, their attitude starts to suck and effects the attitude of everyone around them.
It's a cancer that spreads unchecked.
Until it gets to me.
I don't want it.
I wont take it.
I workout and take anti-drama caplets every morning to help keep it away.
When I go to the doctor I be sure to have him check for it so I can catch it early and treat it.

Here is my simple guide to problem solving 101.

Identify the problem.
Identify possible solutions.
Implement best solution.
Analyze problem to prevent recurrence.

Most people forget the last one.

It's the most important one.

It's how we learn.

I hope this helps those that were lacking problem solving skills out there.

And for those that can't take this advice to heart all I can say is;

Pick up the shattered pieces if your life and move on.

footnote: this post was prompted by issues in my work life, which I of course solved.

clitalicious67 49F

5/19/2006 5:48 am

LOL I have to agree with you. Always drama where I work...my theory is these folks need to confront their inner monkeys, spank 'em and move on...and leave the rest of us the hell alone. Just sayin...

rm_truedom2 replies on 5/21/2006 11:21 am:
I love it!!!!

MysteryDreamer 57F

5/19/2006 6:00 am

I hate drama too!!! Glad you solved your issues at work.


rm_truedom2 replies on 5/21/2006 11:22 am:
Thank You

bluegirl39 49F

5/19/2006 6:04 am

Honey some people live for drama. Some love to create it or even Maintain drama. I'll never get it but thats who it is. Maybe people are so bored that its all they have in their lives.

rm_truedom2 replies on 5/21/2006 11:23 am:
thats just....well...a sad way to live.

rm_gerson42 52M
2419 posts
5/19/2006 12:09 pm

I can only wholeheartedly agree with each and every word.

rm_truedom2 replies on 5/21/2006 11:24 am:
Thanks ger!

real36CgirlPA 37F

5/19/2006 7:32 pm

I empathize with you on that one. There is always more drama where I work than anywhere else. Some days I just ignore everybody.

rm_truedom2 replies on 5/21/2006 11:24 am:
I wish I could!

absolutelynormal 56F
6563 posts
5/19/2006 9:04 pm

You need to have a talk with my mom, PLEASE!!!!!!!

rm_truedom2 replies on 5/21/2006 11:25 am:
We just need to get our mom's together.

Seriously_Real 48M

5/21/2006 7:56 am

stop yelling at me. heh.


rm_truedom2 replies on 5/21/2006 11:29 am:

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