The Importance of a Kiss  

rm_tredx3 54F
32 posts
11/17/2005 4:38 pm

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The Importance of a Kiss

As I am sitting here trying to cope with the failure of an 18 year marriage, I try to point a finger of where things went wrong. We can always blame each other, the family dynamics, work, bad habits or money but in the end is comes down to one thing...

A kiss, yes a simple kiss. And not just one kiss, but many. Somewhere along the way we forgot to take the time out away from life and share that important part.

I am not speaking of the simple quick peck on the lips while dashing out the door, or the brief touching of the lips while passing by each other. But the seductive, the romantic, gentle touching, wet and passionate kiss that spark the fire to begin with. And no, it is not like riding a bike. Once you loose this and realize it is gone, it is hard to capture those feelings again. It will forever more be awkward and feel forced because you each are trying so hard to get back what you have lost no matter how much you still love each other.

Nothing can push my buttons more and make me want sex than that over the top experience more than the art of a kiss. Gentle, soft and meaningful. And yes, a good kiss will always involve the fingertips placed in the right spot whether on the neck, softly touching the face or making my spine tingle with what is yet to come, even if you are dashing out the door. It will stop any fight no matter how heated, and make you remember why you feel in love to begin with.

So men, please kiss your wife every day like it was the first time. And wives, cherish that he still remembers to to it.

kbithebay70 46M
1 post
11/17/2005 5:29 pm

wow, nice post.

sorry for your loss yet thank you for the reminder. I hope a special someone is not too far away that will give you those needed kisses.

rm_Sportingoak 55M
1 post
11/19/2005 4:32 pm

How true this is A KISS IS SO MUCH MORE THEN MOST KNOW. LONG PASSIONATE MOIST is sooooooooo HOT. If I get goose bumps and tingles yes real men get them too lol. then IM IN BIG but GOOD troublr a lady can get about anything out of me LOL. Fred

rm_bbbybooshay 61M
2 posts
11/30/2005 4:57 pm

There's nothing hotter to start a day with than a seductive kiss and hug. I too miss it!

rm_Jax4male 106M/106F

12/7/2005 6:19 pm

Kissing is the absolute most intimate thing that two people can share. In my book there is no greater expression of love between two people than the undying desire to kiss that person...all the matter what. It is truly sad when that desire is no longer there for either person. Without that, the cornerstone of the relationship is damaged and needs to be repaired as quickly as possible. The longer that damage is allowed to remain, the harder it becomes to repair and without the cornerstone to the foundation of the relationship, it will be damgerously close to crumbling. Just like anything, the longer it is left, the harder it is to repair.

rm_JAXBizBrkr 71M

12/18/2005 11:02 am

I have dated quite a number of women and surprisingly few know how to kiss well. I assume the same is true of men. The passion behind the kiss is less important than its softness and its tenderness and its conveyance of affection. Yes, wet is good too.

wantitoncemore 47F

12/26/2005 6:42 am

I have been through some of the same contemplations when my own marriage had failed and found a couple of items on both sides responsible for it not having worked out. As I read your post though, I realized that the timing of it fell in line with just that: a kiss gone missing. Wow, after this many years it is good to still be able to learn from past experiences to make the future better. Thank you so much for sharing that....

lickyone3 57M
115 posts
1/4/2006 9:48 am

This is an interesting post. First let me say I agree there is nothing more sensual and intimate than gently brushing lips and feel it take your breath away. Or as erotic as deep,,,wet,,,hot,,, tongue fest. But as a marriage goes on one or other partner feel they are to busy, or other things become more important. What is more important than the person you have promised to spend the rest of your life with? Some people never learn to kiss well. Some people think if you kiss with sensuality and passionately that you have to or want to throw down right then. Or the promise of things to come later. A kiss can mean this and many other things. But a kiss is above all a show of affection

PeaseComfyFaked 56M
5 posts
1/11/2006 6:49 am

that was at the top of my christmas list for 15 years an she never caught on. What the shame is i never did either, an stayed the outher 15 years. the wings an beer is on me just let me knowe if youd like too?

SteveJax 53M

1/31/2006 4:55 am

T~ I always Kissed you nice!!! Everywhere! still would given the chance....


rm_tredx3 54F
4 posts
1/31/2006 1:18 pm

lol, Steve, too bad someone is spoiling me rotten right now! See you soon...

swtbrwnsugr38 50F

2/12/2006 7:40 pm

Thanks for that T. It hit home with me as well.

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