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FUCKING IS AN ART!
FUCKING IS AN ART!
THIS IS FROM ONE OF JEN'S OLD OLD BLOGS. WAAAAY BACK IN THE DAY...SOME OF THIS IS BLAH BLAH....SOME OF IT IS GOOD STUFF...I DIG IT ANYWAY
some can't put their mouth where they put their genitals. some can't put their genitals where they put their heart. for some, loving someone is the kiss of death for sexual desire and passion. in fact, some people become sexual vegetarians in a relationship, but carnivorous in affairs.
"madonna/whores" are people who love a good fuck, but are too ashamed to share it with their partner.
women dont want to be used poorly, but many want to be used well! they want to be the object of their partner's carnality, but they want it personal.
surrendering is no simple matter. its frightening to keep thinking i cant let go enough. but its also no fun to "lose urself" unless u know u'll find ur way back. when u feel as if u r turning urself over to someone, u have to worry about what they will do. the process works differently when u realize the key is holding onto urself. paradoxically, refusing to surrender is the key to sexual surrender...refusing to surrender to ur partner, or to ur fears, or to other people's standards....
in a healthy relationship, both people fuck! "fucking" is described as: a) 2way vs 1way energy b) equally shared c) a profound energy link d) effortless flow e) aggressive "give it to me!" sex f) no secrets/self revealing/nothing held back g) clearly seeing and accepting each other h) brain/body/soul connection i) going to the limit j) losing oneself (uninhibited) k) finding oneself l) amazing m) timeless n) transcendent. paradoxial qualities of fucking are often noted: fullness-emptiness (spent, drained); high meaning-low meaning (getting down and dirty); and primitive-spiritual.
fucking outside the context of intercourse is often so intensely erotic and intimate that it exceeds people's ability to self-validate with their partner. once u can access the part of u that can fuck, u can apply it to almost any behavior u like, including intercourse.
7/30/2006 8:46 am
I believe the madonna complex is an insecurity on the man's part. Just my 2 cents.|