rm_tocami 57F
49 posts
9/7/2006 11:41 am

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12/18/2007 5:54 am


Why do people, and I'll say men to this, due to they're who I talk to, need to feel being a playa is "enjoyable?" What do you get from being one? I look at it as a very insecure human being getting gratification from the chase, but never the capture. I feel sorry for them. And yes, this includes ladies too, as I'm sure none of us are perfect. Why are you people wasting others' time?

Alannc4900 60M

9/7/2006 12:16 pm

Your profile says you want younger men - maybe they are too immature ...

big grin from an almost mature guy

attentive2u58 58M
251 posts
9/7/2006 12:17 pm

Hmmmm. I'm not exactly sure what a Playa is. If you would be so kind.

rm_josh32382 34M

9/7/2006 3:05 pm

for younger poeple i've noticed it's turned into a competitoin on who they can sleep with and how many they can do it with. don't understand it myself. but from what i here it's the way to be know. so like i said i don't get it.

nowino3 54M  
12 posts
10/25/2006 7:19 am

I don't know if you would call me a "Playa". Most of the ladies I've met, dated or known want to get married or have kids some day. I'm upfront about the fact that I don't ever want to marry anyone, (what's the point), and I don't need kids. Not that I don't like kids, (when cooked properly lol), I have loads of fun with my nieces and nephews, but I never felt I was missing anything that could be filled with a marriage certificate or some kids.

Most women I've met/dated apparently don't believe me or they think they they can change my mind about these things. When they finally realize I don't want to ever get married or have kids they get mad and leave, or say why were you wasting my time or some such nonsense. As if they were just looking for a legal provider or breeding stock. As a consequence I tend to date older women who have been married and divorced and their kids are grown up and gone. Even some of them are still looking for some sort of guarantee. I shy away from currently married women as I've been stalked by husbands before.

I usually have several one time dates in a row, followed by a relatively long relationship. I can usually tell by the end of the first date if I want to see them again, or if they want to see me again.

Is that a definition of a "Playa"?


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