Not the way to pick up a lady  

rm_tnredrose 59F
23 posts
8/3/2006 12:01 pm

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5/19/2008 5:22 pm

Not the way to pick up a lady

Well this is a on going email I recieved from a guy. Best way to understand it is to read from bottom to top.
Let me say this is not the way to intice most women into your bed. In fact it is a really good way to make her totally blow you off and not in a good way either. A little time and consideration goes along way to everyone having a really good time. And would it really kill you guys to answer just a few questions? We don't want any thing super personal, just a few likes and dislikes of things that don't involve sex. Most of us would like to know you aren't a basket case and at the very least a decent human being. It really isn't the site's fault if you aren't finding what you want. Take a moment to check just how you are going about looking and saying what you would like. If you are having a problem there is a good chance you may need to revise how you are doing things.
LOL well now I'll step down off my soap box and give everyone else time to bitch at me about how wrong I am.
Hugs & Kisses

lol -- this is the stupidest site the internet has. i thought this was a sex site. if you talk about sex people are like buzz off. if you say hello how are u, people dont respond. who cares. fuck AdultFriendFinder.
> Sender: tnredrose
> To: lilpug
> Date: Jul 27, 2006 8:04 PM EDT
> Hi
> I just wanted to let you know that at this time I really don't think you are what I am looking for.
> I'm looking for someone with a bit more polish when talking or writng to me.
> Goodluck in your search.
> > ---------------------------------------------------
> > Sender: lilpug
> > To: tnredrose
> > Date: Jul 24, 2006 8:50 PM EDT
> >
> > so did you want to get together and fuck, let me watch u rub your pussy, suck my dick, let me cum on your tits, let me eat your pussy or what??
> >
> >
> > > Sender: tnredrose
> > > To: lilpug
> > > Date: Jul 7, 2006 3:00 PM EDT
> > >
> > > Well hello again.
> > > Hmmmm you send an email at 430am and one now at 230. What hours do you work? I ask due to the fact that my free time is in a very set time frame for play. And the other times I don't play unless it's with a couple or a bi female and my sweetie and I both play.
> > > Ok first tell me about you the person. Likes dislikes that kind of thing. Are you married or??????
> > > As for you joining or even watching when I'm with one of my ladies, only time will tell. That is reserved for only very close and special friends.
> > > And before I agree to play with anyone I have to know them well enough to be confortable with them. So if you are looking to chat 2 lines and then jump the next day it isn't going to happen.
> > >
> > > > ---------------------------------------------------
> > > > Sender: lilpug
> > > > To: tnredrose
> > > > Date: Jul 7, 2006 2:31 PM EDT
> > > >
> > > > hey redrose, nice to hear from you. im a man with a slow hand, we dont have do rush things. i like to kiss and caress, gently bite and nibble on your nippes, i like to stick my finger in your ass while you are on top of me. do you have a hairy pussy, thats a turn on. well, hopefully i will have an opportunity to suck your sweet hot pussy. that is probably my favortie sex act. maybe i could watch u suck some sweet hot pussy?
> > > >
> > > > > Sender: tnredrose
> > > > > To: lilpug
> > > > > Date: Jul 7, 2006 2:26 PM EDT
> > > > >
> > > > > Hi
> > > > > I take it you like to eat twat. So do I. So.... tell me what other things are you good at that may interest me?
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > > ---------------------------------------------------
> > > > > > Sender: lilpug
> > > > > > To: tnredrose
> > > > > > Date: Jul 7, 2006 4:38 AM EDT
> > > > > >
> > > > > > just wanted to say hi and see if we may be compatible and hopefully i cant suck on your sweet hot pussy. hope to hear from u - thanks!
> > > > >
> > > > > --

Satyr48 68M
1778 posts
8/3/2006 12:53 pm

That's the "Great Divide" on AF...
The vast majority of women see this as a dating site and, the ones who DO see this as a sex site still want to "get to know each other first".
Probably 90% of guys here see this as it's advertised - As a Sex & Swingers site and expect the contacts to imply sex... If not immediately, then still well before any relationship looms... Sex first, real names in the morning - maybe...

Actually, that's kind of the way life is even AWAY from this site!

Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years...
You could be next...

rm_silentron 53M

8/31/2006 12:44 pm

Miss Rose I agree with you that we all have a safe place and wanting others to respect that. In my time on this site, I have come across
more good people than bad and have attended a few meet and greets in
other cities. When people are that pushy to have sex or whatever the best thing to do is ignore them. And in closing, the women I have met were done on their terms and with their safety in mind.

rm_Hrleyrider52 62M

2/20/2007 6:49 pm

I love a beautiful sunny day where I can take a ride on my bike. Then I love a beautiful cold and rainy day if I have someone warm I can share it inside with. From your blog you sound like a warm heart looking for enjoyment without a bunch of bitching. By the looks of the photo you posted, warm and sensual.

rm_Hrleyrider52 62M

2/20/2007 6:59 pm

I see your in the Chattanooga area, Me to. Love to get out and about and have a good time. Let me know if your interested in having a drink.

rm_odins_beard 35M
1 post
3/19/2007 6:31 pm

Rule of the internet...

Normal Person + Anonymity = Complete Jackass.

I mean, obviously the person in question had different expectations than you, but there's nothing to be lost and everything to be gained by simply being polite about it. It'll prevent people from thinking you're a total jackass in any case.

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