Yes I'm an edgy kinda guy  

rm_tlaw781 38M
31 posts
7/8/2006 5:43 pm

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7/9/2006 12:38 pm

Yes I'm an edgy kinda guy

One of the funniest things in this life is how people perceive me and how so few really see me.
Today I ran into a gal I bump into time to time in retail. I chat with her because she's nice and as I'm going about my business in the store it's nice sometimes to just shoot the shit. Today I got a backended compliment that made me laugh.
I can honestly say I don't know this girl to any deep degree but I have chatted with her enough to feel I could give you a pretty accurate description of her personality. I have at least a 75% accuracy rate maybe higher I'd say. So when I'm sure the person is ok with certain comments or not I act appropriately. For example I wouldn't break out a johnson joke to a nun.
So here in the frozen aisle of the store I ask her if she's heard about the RedBaron pizza recall? Loud enough so that others can hear me but not to make it obvious like I'm maybe versed in the subject. She gives me a weird look and says no and then I say yeah I guess it's pretty bad people getting pretty sick. She looks at me puzzled and I walk over. I say in a soft tone "you know that idiot that was hassling you earlier? The one who's grabbing the red baron box? I said that to fuck with him so he'd wonder all the way home if his pizza was recalled!?" She laughed and said thank you. Now it's not like she needed protection but this guy was a real jerk to her and I thought it would be some harmless fun.
That's when she turned to me and laughed. "You know you just seemed like this really nice guy blah blah and then you opened your mouth." I asked is that bad? She said "no no" emphatically, "I just never would guessed you had that edge. You're my kind of people."
I thanked her for the compliment or thought it was a compliment and went on.
That's the story of me though. I can't tell you how many times girls have turned me down because I came across like a pushover or "too nice" and I'm glad they did because they never had a clue of who i really was and they probably wouldn't. Not to say I'm an asshole but i'm just as imperfect as the next guy. I think it's important to treat a female with respect when you meet them. Too many take it as weakness.
I can't tell you how many times girls took off pissed when I wouldn't fuck them on the first date. I would explain that I was very interested and attracted and I could see a very good sex life in the near future but geez let me at least find out what's your favorite color. I'd ask would you slam a fine bottle of wine? Well if no then let me understand and appreciate all your others beauty first before I get intoxicated by them. Nope out the door. Weakness. See I don't see that as weakness, more of a strength, but so many don't see that in me.
They see so little of me that I am glad they didn't stay. Trust me when I want to fuck you'll know because little rabbits got nothing on me, but whats the sense in jumping to the last step when you're barely on the first? To try and impress someone or show them you're not weak?
I wonder are people generally assigned some "status" because they are polite or "too nice"? Is it better to be underestimated because inevitably those people will weed themselves out anyway with an incorrect stereotype they gave you? Anyway it's not going to change how I act towards people.I like to offer a friendly demeanor or helping hand. Some may say I'm weak or question my motives, but that's really just a waste of time. I'm not perfect and if it's edge you like, try may just like it

loadeddice05 44M

7/8/2006 6:49 pm

I AGREE!!! NICE GUYS SUCK!!! LET'S GO FIND SOME AND HAND EM' OVER TO SOME HELL'S ANGELS!! THEN RUN!!!! cause they'll probably kick our asses too!!!!!!

rm_KarmoHunny 54F
888 posts
7/8/2006 9:06 pm

I agree with you tlaw. People used to tell me I was nice and then laugh. What the Hell did that mean? I'd rather be nice than some rude, mean, harsh asshole. But my niceness is not a sign of weakness. Piss me off and see how nice I am then.

Rock on!

rm_tlaw781 replies on 7/9/2006 10:57 am:
Not to self: Don't piss karmo off! I agree there's way too little niceness in this world to throw it away by trying to impress someone or show them you're not weak. Like a bear. See a bear and it see's you. Just because it doesn't run you down immediately doesn't make it weak. Make the mistake step towards it and you'll be a really big play thing for it!

rm_KarmoHunny 54F
888 posts
7/9/2006 11:39 am

"Like a bear. See a bear and it see's you. Just because it doesn't run you down immediately doesn't make it weak. Make the mistake step towards it and you'll be a really big play thing for it!"

That's a great analogy!

rm_tlaw781 replies on 7/9/2006 11:44 am:
Thanks sometimes I talk in analogies, pisses people off! Don't mean too but sometimes I get that look like WTF when i'm talking to them so I use analogies. God forbid I ever go into teaching, other teachers would be like "what the hell are you telling your students?"!

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