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rm_thewaywewere 41F
145 posts
8/11/2006 8:07 am

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It's the decent thing to back off and not mess up with not available guys, though a simple fling thing.

If you are fucking around and you're attached to some one special to you, you have to ask yourself why you do these to her/him. Is the relationship you're in over, are you afraid of commitment, bored or insecure?

If you know you don't want to be with your partner anymore then break up with them rather than arsing around behind their back. Treat them with a little respect.

If you are bored or unhappy you need to speak with your partner and address the problems in your relationship. Going through a rough patch doesn't give you an automatic right to sleep around, and the damage in trust that these actions may cause could turn that bad patch into a terminated relationship.

What if ur partner found out, but u still want to maintain the relationship? What if they fooled around behind you?

But 'benig single availabe ppl', there are very less obligtations, just remeber one thing - carring condom with ya when u r fooling around, safe sex!!! lol


stig_in_shanghai 44M
7 posts
8/17/2006 6:07 am

You are a funny girl

I have a question - do the things u describe about fucking around also counts for couples who both does it and and both knows and accepts that the other one does it? Who talks about it and enjoy that the other one is having some fun.

Or would you categorize that as the couple dont love eachother?

Thats kinda the impression I get from ur posts...


rm_thewaywewere 41F
85 posts
8/17/2006 9:03 pm

Don't give a shit to the fucking open-relationship or open-marriage, huhman such a mad world, where is the LOVE!!!

Mankind differs from the animals only by a ittle and most ppl throw that away..


stig_in_shanghai 44M
7 posts
9/2/2006 6:24 am

Does love implies you cannot love others? And have intimate relationsships with others that "the true love"?

You blog express some ok ideas, but too simplified.

Do you think your ideas and beliefs is more worth coz of the "strong" language you use? Sounds like attempt to intimidate people.


rm_thewaywewere 41F
85 posts
9/10/2006 8:37 pm

Life is simple, just ourselves make it more complicated...Love implies that u love someone,the one means everything to you, and u can't share this love with OTHERS...
If u think 'the true love' is just withe someone who u have intimate rleaitonship, it's ur OWN view, not MINE...if i really loved the one person, i would like to announce to the world 'he is mine, and me is him'...would hide...though i deceide to date someone, i would like to let the ppl know he is the one i have relationship with...

Didn't hold any intetnion to threaten any one...if u think it's too harsh, maybe, u should ask yourself why u can't state yourself strongly...and maybe u should sit back taking deep breath and think how to differ the like from love, the love from be in love, what is the true love mean to you???


By the way, i missed your comment, so just made the reply...and thanks for the sharing...


rm_thewaywewere 41F
85 posts
9/10/2006 8:41 pm

i've asked some women from the states and england on AdultFriendFinder, who have lived in a open-relationship and marriage, but didn't last long, they broke up and were single now to look for fun or serious stuff on AdultFriendFinder now...
Personally, i stand still in not believing open-relationship side firmly...i won't invade others' lifestyle...


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