rm_texasmermaid 46F
1179 posts
10/22/2005 2:34 pm

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What really bothers me is people that judge other people!
What gives anyone that right?

I don?t care what race, class,
education, sex, species you are or have, no one has the right to
Judge another person.
Why do people do it?
I have been judged so many times by smallminded people that have no idea about me.
Why do they do this?
I am not ashamed of anything in my past all a person has to do is ask me something and I will tell it like it is. I am honest and not afraid to tell the truth and say what I think about something. But to just be ignorant and place a lable or judgement on another human being is just ignorance in my eyes. We all are human and no one has the right to judge anothers life. So to those that have judged me and labled me I say

Fuck you!

You know nothing about me or my life.

imgoodatlikin692 55M
7 posts
8/23/2006 5:13 am

mermaid, you could be the one. i have a mermaid tattoo and have been searching for her, could it be you? get back to me for a pic of her.

as for people who judge, most have no idea what the hell they are talking about and yes, they have closed, small minds. they cannot see the forest throught the trees because the trees are in the way. i try to see people for who they are and what they can accomplish.

so, with this thought in mind, lets talk about this president. speaking of small minds and judging people, his group of born again's and right wing church goers are ruining the world. every position this man has held has been a failure, and all his companies too. he has caused more terrorism all over the world and my brothers in arms are dieing in iraq so his constituants can make a bundle on the american public. my former unit has been deployed in iraq 3 times now since HE claimed victory in iraq. i wish he listened to his father rather than dick chaney, we wouldn't be in iraq. but as small minded people go, they don't listen to anyone or read anything that doesn't fit into their agenda. don't get me going.

veterans for a little peace

rm_hermes421 66M
4 posts
11/15/2005 8:40 pm

you are quite refreshing in your perceptions and observations. ignorance and sterotyping in such things are too plentiful. such narrow minded persons are to be avoided whenever possible, and dealt with where no other option. such profound observation from such a lovely woman.

rm_keith618 57M
1 post
11/15/2005 7:58 pm

Life is a strange and wonderful thing, it has valleys and it has peaks. It teaches leasons and it keeps secrets. One thing if you ever can find it that is true and lasting is friendship and love.
To meet a special person who will finish a sentence for you, or
know when to be there or to say the right thing. Most of all to find a love partner one who can anticipate your need is rare.
I found this person a few years back and it went bad in such a crazy
way, that to this day it is still hard to believe. Neeedless to say
I have never been married, but do not get me wroung. Over the years I tried and lost count at 70 the women I have had in my life.
Just hoping there might be another who likes simple things, good music, and making love like two who are doing it for the first time, over and over again. Enough said, "probably to much " but hey life's short. Enjoy it everyone.

Zara_thustra 53F
3163 posts
11/14/2005 1:04 pm

We all make certain judgments of people in our minds, be it good, bad, indifferent. However, when people express that judgment, they are expressing merely an OPINION of others. I, generally, keep my opinions of myself, because I know that people are not DYING to hear my opinion of them.

It takes a certain egotistical bent to think that one's NEGATIVE OPINION is of value, as well as insecurities toward your more attractive appearance and outspokenness to voice disastifiction with you. Do you really care if the Xmas plant or the Bitch with an attidude doesn't like you??? They're merely expressing they're unasked-for OPINION, akin to exposing their ass in public, when nobody asked to see the fat, cellulite-covered posterior.

It's just particularly nasty that they've done it to people that they called a FRIEND, that they did it so nasty, so publically, without reprisal.


sleeplessknight1 68M

11/4/2005 7:53 am

well said Mermaid....
first visit to your Blog....

rm_texasmermaid 46F
738 posts
11/3/2005 7:37 am


and (((((((((((((((((((((sparkley kisses)))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I love you all my dear friends!

and Karma your are a lovely girl inside and OUT! And if I hear you say differently, I am gonna be mad and tail whip YA! You are loved my dear, stay sweet and dont ever change~~~

rm_unameit1941 75M
47 posts
11/2/2005 10:38 pm

the saying that comes to mind is "consider the source"..

allsurf692 61M
5 posts
10/27/2005 2:47 pm

A good friend of my said a long time ago that we have no right to judge others as we are all children visiting this planet but for a while. He then said that we DO have the right to judge one's actions. To me this means do what you do, just don't "do" it on me or mine. To give emotional venacular to a statement like that I came up with a saying or really, a belief of my own. "People ALWAYS treat others EXACTLY the way they feel about themselves." And then I ask myself during any abnormal interaction (ok, not sexual interaction) I ask myself, "Do I deserve the treatment that I'm getting in this exchange?" If I feel that I do, well I have some ways to change and amends to make, don't I? If I feel I don't, then c'est la vie! Shine em on! Or in the Mers words, "Fuck em and feed em fishheads" Nes Pah?

comfortable1947 69M
1 post
10/26/2005 2:08 pm

You are a poet, therefore what need have you of all these judgemental jerks? Waft above them in the clean pure air of your inspiration.

PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
10/25/2005 7:47 pm

*sad smile* I never pass judgement on anyone any more, unless I have hard evidence and reliable witnesses. God/dess knows I've always been judged solely on my ugly looks...

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

1funguy59 57M

10/23/2005 5:44 pm

If you remember that people are stupid it makes sense they do things like judging others. Individuals can be smart. You just gotta find em.

wife4stranger 57F

10/23/2005 2:39 pm

(((((((hugs)))))))) I love you dear, and your willingness to stand up for what you believe in. It's what makes you a special friend. Don't let the b*'s get you down.

rm_reisaree 42F
611 posts
10/23/2005 11:27 am

You Go Girl....

Judge not lest ye be judged....

And those judging you...WILL get theres in the end hun... don't worry.. those of us who know you ....know what a beautiful person you are ...inside and outside.... no worries... I see a wonderful friend, a great mother...and no one could ever make me think differently...

walldodger1969 70M
16 posts
10/23/2005 7:28 am

How true, ya just gotta go on is all.

Hampmeister 57M

10/22/2005 11:49 pm

But it kinda begs the question of what you mean by judging others. I think we all judge others, all the time. I have judgements about you from reading your posts in some groups; I think you have a great sense of humour, I think you're interesting, etc. I doubt you mind these judgements. So what is it you mind? Just curious.

twistedfreak44 47M

10/22/2005 10:53 pm

i look for what is on the inside, outside can be all bull and make belive, who cares what they look like or what they do, as long as they know what they are doing, and are not hurting anyone

12 posts
10/22/2005 9:05 pm

When people don't understand something or they feel you have and they don't the only action they can take is to make judgement about what they don't know. The best way to deal with these type of people is to keep your head up and a smile on your face because once they know they can hurt you with words they will be sure to do anything they can think to make your day as sad as theirs. Keep a smile on your face and a song in your heart and after they see that your buttons can't be pushed they will find someone else.

With any luck the next guy will punch them in the eye

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