Current profile for "standards" 02/13/06  

rm_tennismaiden 59F
2103 posts
2/13/2006 9:10 am

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Current profile for "standards" 02/13/06

If you see that I'm on-line....I'm blogging.To begin the exploration of Tennismaiden go to [blog tennismaiden]

I am an extraordinary woman content to be where she is right now. I began Blogging for simple reasons and it has given me undeniable stability and wisdom. You may see a face, some call it gorgeous, others stunning and yet some not their cup of tea.

Tall, athletic, articulate, wise, loving, sexy, talented, middle aged, menopausal, mother of three grown boys has busted loose after a long term 20 year marriage. She landed here quite by accident...but ahhh..there are no accidents. I am exactly where I need to be.

Intimacy was something I envisioned along with the knight in shining armor, something unattainable and aloof, coming to my aid and sweeping me off my feet. But I didn't find my knight just yet, I found something unique here by blogging.

NO longer a requirement to meet the "man of my dreams" he is out there still and someday will present himself to me when I least expect it. I have embraced the confidence and grace so eagerly awaited and long over due by finding peace in fellow souls who lift me and give me courage to be victorious.

I have many valued friends here and stay to continue those alliances. If you wish to become one or seek romantic pursuits you may come forth. But, reading my blogs and getting my attention will be paramount to getting a response back from me.

I am an incredible lover, chef, seamstress, interior decorator, sailor, swimmer, mother, athlete, tennis player, seductress, writer, dreamer, companion, musician, nurturer, giver. I demand intimacy at the highest level and will not settle for anything other than pure connected monogamous and loyal partnership.

I have only respectable classy photos of myself to share for that is who I am, educated and refined, with a wicked sense of humor, zany creative brain and animated passionate spirit. I will not invite you to join my network unless you have become my friend and are worthy of including you. Yeah...I'm that incredible. Trust is something earned, by engaging my mind for that is what excites and delights this "maiden" of pleasure.

My Ideal Person:
I am no longer looking for "him" but if I was he would be:


Highly intelligent a very successful professional
Tall, 6 feet or more
Haired on top of head (my preference)
Between the ages of 40 and 55
Honest with integrity and morals
A seasoned lover and very adept with creativity
Humorous almost morose and playful
Sensitive, caring, kind, generous
Grown children or without
Financially solvent, willing and able to travel
An active man who will indulge me playing tennis
Cultured, music is integral and should be shared
Easy and good natured, spiritual
Handsome, I am visual and have a sweet spot for such
Height/weight proportioned.
Tactile and affectionate
Selfless and compassionate
Has "his" life figured out
Will spoil me to the core

Please do not send me numerous emails, if you are not my type, my silence will be your cue. If you seriously wish to capture my attentions you must do your homework and read my blogs.

Gentlemen, please use your discretion when sending photos I must have a G rated face shot in order to determine if there is visual interest. Being honorable includes being respectful....of me, including your invitations they must be subtle and not crass. I am and will always be foremost a lady.

Any questions?

_Safira 53F
11260 posts
2/13/2006 10:33 am

1. Have a good AutoReply.
2. Well-done, My Sunshine!


This is my blog - Comes With Warning Labels. There are many like it, but this one is mine.

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HeardLankaMalls 55M
2925 posts
2/13/2006 10:53 am

Ahhhh....what a lovely profile it is (and pic too might I add)

(I know, I'm silly)

muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
2/13/2006 11:49 am

One question. Is his name muscles?!

Mack42WY 52M
3 posts
2/13/2006 1:51 pm

You are too incredible! You truly are a rare lady, I love your blogs and profile. It seems like there are way too few of you and your classy type around. The one who is lucky enough to be with you had better honor and respect you, or I would personally smack them with my racquet...I would find it an honor to be in your network of friends...

rm_bigchoklatdk 45M

2/13/2006 2:11 pm

Wow tennis, me and u seem to have a lot in common. I love playing tennis, I'm a music producer....and we both have puppys. BTW~~was that a pic of your pup in previous blog? Mine is about that size (50lbs) and kind of has the same features (shape)...tan, though (half pit/rott). Almost described me to a "t", there in your blog except I'm 34, although a younger guy might be able to keep up to your fast pace!!! Pay me no mind, I'm just a flirt..for a pretty face......will talk!!

MyRealLoverOne 45M

2/13/2006 3:10 pm

Let the games begin!!! Now, if I come back in five years when I am 40, will your requirement still start at 40 or are you going to move it pu on me every year??


rm_mtnravyn 60M
890 posts
2/13/2006 4:28 pm

My question has to do with the knight. Do you know how many men have died behind trying to keep the armor bright, the horse healthy and clean, the lance sharpened, and the focus on "HER"? The problem is the unavailability came from his being very androgenous and also pure. And he always had to be rescuing someone, so unless you are an eternal victim, please do not seek the knight.

elysianpleasure 47M

2/13/2006 7:47 pm

Great profile...

rm_Keystone3812 65M
583 posts
2/14/2006 3:17 am

I think I fit your "ideal". I'd like to try!

rm_Keystone3812 65M
583 posts
2/14/2006 11:20 am

Oops! Just read your parameters, and I don't fit. May I still be your friend????

Deepthroat215 52M
328 posts
2/16/2006 9:00 am

love your stuff maiden, keep it up!

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