A lazy Lover  

rm_tennismaiden 59F
2103 posts
12/20/2005 2:09 pm

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A lazy Lover

I work with a delightful woman who is younger than me by 16 years, I'm so fortunate to have her friendship and we instantly bonded when I answered her add for work.

As with all my close sisters and brothers of life, my daily drama is never a secret. I'm one of those persons that makes even the most timid, comfortable, and for some reason men I meet confess the most intimate details of their lives.

My co-worker and I do our thing sewing, creating, concocting wonderful fresh designs, usually us alone in a heated garage steps from the ocean. This allows for much interesting topics of discussion. Many people quickly learn if they are near me most likely taboo subjects are bound to ensue. Laughter quickly commences and fun all around instantly relieves while under stress from the days goals.

One day we threw around the "lazy lover" as she referred to this modern day affliction lamenting while nodding our heads. You know these persons...I refer to them as dead fishes...(I'm a pisces what did you expect)?

Lazy lovers rarely eat pussy, when they do anatomy needs to be taught and there is hesitation...clearly they are grossly uncomfortable being there. Appendages are never used in conjunction and then a wipe of "your(female juices)" is done all over the inner thigh.

Can we not all agree that oral indulgences are paramount to proving your worth as a great lover? Add to that willingness to receive anal entry with a cock and the ever most popular "swallower" of cum when doing a BJ.

I post on this site primarily for the obvious reason....I don't want a lazy lover. With all the other attributes, my man of steel should have it's crutial to be as lusty, sensuous and passionate as I. God provided us with fingers hands, toes, legs, cocks, breasts, pussies and finally brains that should weave a dance so intricate it makes his highness proud that he created us.

For Pete's sake...if you think you might be a "lazy lover" ask your beloved to steer you in the right direction and learn how.

HeardLankaMalls 55M
2925 posts
12/20/2005 3:08 pm

Hear Hear!!

Very astute post tennis (as always ).

What's making love without some oral pleasures (or alot!!). And the variety (teasingly slow; quick and frenzied tweaks in the right places; kisses; sucks; etc and on and on) are part of the fun and pleasure (for the giver and receiver)

Thanks for sharing

Plano69 54M

12/20/2005 3:12 pm

LOL! Amen! Ah, if only more women saw it your way... sigh...

rm_sdmrem700 51M
47 posts
12/20/2005 4:34 pm

tennismaiden -

You hit it on the head... If you are not sure, ask your partner what pleases them... How should I do this... This not only makes it enjoyable for your partner, but also enjoyable you you as well...

rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
12/20/2005 5:15 pm

A second "Amen"... God provided us with fingers hands, toes, legs, cocks, breasts, pussies and finally brains that should weave a dance so intricate it makes his highness proud that he created us.

Execsuitefun 65M

12/21/2005 3:30 am

You are a rare find, Ms. Tennismaiden. True art speaks plainly. The quest is everything, if not life itself. No need to settle for lazy lovers! As C.P. Estes says in Women Who Run with the Wolves, "It is never wrong to seek what one needs." Enjoy running free and stopping occasionally to sing to the moon. I feel that's how you live your life anyway, and it is good!

The_Wraith_1969 47M

12/21/2005 6:47 am


12/21/2005 11:54 am

Yes, it does seem quite pervasive that many men seem to view the giving of oral in a similar manner as to how they might also view doing a household "chore" or drudgery rather than a delight in the exquisite sensations of pleasuring.

And the same ones also seem unable or unwilling to comprehend that women enjoy and desire good oral just as much or more as any man might.

Yes, quite lazy indeed. But I do recall a time in my life when I was not so worldly in my ways where I actually needed a woman to tell me this fact in no uncertain terms and luckily I got the message hammered home and slam dunked quite well before I became "too set in my ways".

I think some men are beyond help in this regard. But there are just as many ignorant ones who are still quite open to this message if they could only honestly hear it from someone with a strong voice.

But hopefully sites like this one are opening the eyes of ignorance for many.

Hey tennismaiden, don't think that I've forgotten about you.

Who could?



rm_rayf13 51M
13 posts
12/21/2005 1:36 pm

I truly LOVE licking pussy. There's nothing that makes me feel better than to make a woman cum while I'm eating her pussy. I enjoy the feel, smell and taste of most women.

I love eating my wife's pussy but she hardly lets me. She doesn't enjoy any oral sex, giving or receiving. Her pussy has a sweet taste to it and begins dripping from my first few licks. After I begin to rub her lips and tease her clit, the juices really start flowing. That's when I like to fuck her with my tongue and flick my tongue in motion with her hips. While her pre-cum drips down to her ass, her hips thrust upward and I place my finger at the entrance to her ass. All of this together sets her off and she convulses with each feeling of orgasm.

Sounds great doesn't it. But than she gets angry with me and won't agree to have sex again for months at a time. I guess she has soem type of sexual guilt (and WON"T talk about it).

I need to find a woman that enjoys me licking her to orgasm. I've been with a few and would love to experience that some more.

WoodyDiaryKepis 62M
99 posts
12/22/2005 4:11 am

Whew! How did I miss this one!? (So THAT'S what women talk about when there are no men about!)

"Nature always favors the hidden fault. "- (Murphy's Third Law)

HeardLankaMalls 55M
2925 posts
12/22/2005 4:34 am

Thanks for the nice wishes TM
Christmas wishes to you again

redmustang91 57M  
8604 posts
12/22/2005 8:56 am

My experiences tells me many women are also lazy lovers. They don't move, expecting the guy to do all the "work", won't suck, oppose anal, etc. Fab love takes teamwork and energy. Apparently in short supply!


12/22/2005 8:01 pm

remustangs certainly got the key word there with "teamwork"


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