"Are we having fun yet"?  

rm_tennismaiden 59F
2103 posts
2/17/2006 8:45 am

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"Are we having fun yet"?


I'm in a funk lately and not in the mood to blog, sorry folks, but I'd rather have the real thing.

I'm wasting too much time sitting at this computer versus living a life I can be proud of. Not to say I'm ashamed of my literary confessions. But my home is being neglected and so is my life.

I've noticed that those around me are also experiencing some difficult times. It's never my intention to bleed my vulnerabilites and land them upon anyone elses shoulders. A retreat is due here so I can collect myself and move forward.

For all those who email me, I thank you. If you have somehow managed to stir my silence, I will let you know. For now I am "doing my life"

Happy Blogging for those still inspired to do so.


rm_2Sexy4UinPA 45F/37F
11 posts
2/17/2006 9:33 am

Friends of TennisMaiden, do not fret! My friends, Dora and Ed, and I will keep our new friend out of danger (but, not necessarily out of trouble - lol). It is time that she experience new things (or old things with new people) and we will see to it that she does - of course, I say that tongue-in-cheek! <wink>

HeardLankaMalls 55M
2925 posts
2/17/2006 10:04 am

I hope your funk passes soon TM. We are our own worse critics, but we do have to do what we have to do (is that enough "do's"? ).

kryztoph908 59M

2/17/2006 10:06 am

Carpe diem, et feliciter! ?*

rm_Keystone3812 65M
583 posts
2/17/2006 11:01 am

I hope somehow we can keep in touch................. I wanted to be your friend, your confidant.............. you can always write me at this same S/N but on that American account.............. if you get my drift. I'd like to stay in touch.

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/17/2006 12:28 pm

I've been going through the same exact thing! I hate spending this much time on here, but am not meeting girls out in the "real world". Oh well. By for now... Check back in every now and then! *hugs*

angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
2/17/2006 2:02 pm

Hope you will check back in once in awhile and let us all know how you are doing. I know what you mean...this can be so addictive, and other things fall by the wayside. Balance.

rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
2/17/2006 4:47 pm

Healthy observation dear Goddess... life comes before blogging..

There are an infinite number of ways to "escape" life..none of them healthy..

So, when you are feeling strong and confident, WELCOME BACK.. with warm hugzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

nedthebundler 56M/59F

2/17/2006 8:38 pm


Our lives have only just recently touched, and alas you are leaving. I will take heart in knowing that it is the "stuff" that we have to take care of in our lives that provides us with our blog material. You're not really taking leave of us, but embarking on a journey of research.

We will all eagerly await your return, so you can beguile us with tales of "dust bunnies" from the deepest darkest regions of your abode, tickle our fancies with the lusty sung odes to odd socks that emerge from your washer & dryer. We will listen in rapt fasination to the details of how you discovered new life-forms that have evolved from former snacks left in the recesses of your furniture. Perhaps you will discover the true identity of the "not me" child that dwells unseen in every household.

It is not a farewell we extend to you fairest of tennismaidens, but a joyus until we meet again.

Madness takes its toll. Exact change please!

MyRealLoverOne 46M

2/18/2006 2:11 pm

Do what your heart tells you sweetie. You are very wise, so just listen to yourself. (((hugz)))

therealhrocker 47M
6 posts
2/19/2006 1:33 pm

I'm dying to fuck you!

therealhrocker 47M
6 posts
2/19/2006 1:37 pm

I'm dying to fuck you babe!

WoodyDiaryKepis 61M
99 posts
2/20/2006 9:06 am

I DO know what you mean, it's the time of year for funks! Hopefully this will self-correct as the days lengthen. We do enjoy the blogs, TM-maybe just ONE, every week or so......?

"Nature always favors the hidden fault. "- (Murphy's Third Law)

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
2/20/2006 12:27 pm

everyone needs a rest from time to time and if you have the possibility of leaving the house -- that is always much much better. have a good rest!

[blog freelove999]

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
2/21/2006 7:52 am

Well my lady I haven't posted to my blog in 11 days. A long time for me. Not inspired and trying to focus on life a little more as well. Also, seem to be going to bed earlier. Maybe it's the winter.
Ya'll come back now ya here?
See you then.
Be well.

Luv2BGenerous2U 59M
36 posts
2/21/2006 1:45 pm

NOTICE to therealhrocker:

Women like Tennismaiden enjoy carnal pleasures just as much as most of us do. (She's probably thinking: "No, much MORE than most other people!" haha!!) She is a VERY sensual, VERY passionate lady! She commands and deserves the utmost respect from all REAL gentlemen who know her! She appreciates a man who makes LOVE to her, NOT someone who only wants to f*** her.

Instant gratification is, by nature, short-lived and only temporarily gratifying and exists solely in a strictly physical sense. Love-making involves the entire being - mind, body and soul! It lasts much longer than the physical act itself - when perfected, it can even last a lifetime! The gratification is complete - each partner is affected physically, mentally and psychologically! The soul and spirit of each person is united with that of the other.

While it is true that some lovers can be more talented and skillful in the "physical" aspect of love-making, the resulting pleasures and gratification are measured in terms of MUTUAL enjoyment of each other (giving and receiving) and in the strength of the bond they create and share - a connection built on friendship, respect, honesty and trust (and, if lucky, on LOVE).

If you ever want a chance to get to know a truly beautiful person, such as Tennismaiden, you'd better change your approach DRASTICALLY! If all you are interested in is f***ing, then you'd better look elsewhere - there are PLENTY of willing bodies looking for mindless sex. It's an easy decision. Are you looking for QUALITY or QUANTITY? AdultFriendFinder is filled with a quantity of willing bodies. Quality, on the other hand, has a price - one must be willing to give MUCH of themselves - but, the resulting benefits are worth every ounce of effort!

Good Luck!

Plano69 54M

2/22/2006 3:53 pm

I think we need to find or create a word for this condition, because I've realized we all go through it... I think it may also be seasonal...
I know your intelligence is Mensa level (even if you deny it...lol) so what do you think?
In the meantime, I hope you feel alot better...
Recharge and return to us like the positive force you are...

Love you!

rm_Keystone3812 65M
583 posts
2/26/2006 8:46 am

I'll keep hoping that you do!

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